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... Send *extro69 a private message | | | *extro69's profile:Well i'm a former Londoner (still am 1 at heart) living in the west of England.
what qualifies me to help? all i can say to that is life,
I've was rapped by my brother between 13 and 15 yrs old. parrents divoiced when v.young natural mother died, father and step mother bankrupt during my teens and the whole school knowing very publicly. didnt find first girlfriend till 27 and lost virginity at 29, 4 collasped lungs (same one 4 times) lots of other things as well but they are the real live changers.
also have always been the one friends turn to with problems just wish i took my own advise somtimes.
i not a religous person but my fiance is quite (bends the rules a little here and there). the world would be a much better place if people live and let live when it comes to religion. |
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How many partners have you had?
Q. This is a very general question, based on the numerous questions that I see posted about couples dealing with one partner's sexual past. How many sexual partners have YOU had? Do you regret the number, be it big or small? How many "one-night-stand...
A. 30 October 2007: im 30 and and 1 partner and 0 one night stands (not for the want of trying) before i met my current partner i did regret it but now i dont. ive learnd not to regret anything you do as you cant change the past. ... (read in full...)
Where can I buy Covergirl Foundation?
Q. Please publish this post, I'm very desperate to know! I've heard of this amazing foundation (It's really good for spots and doesn't dry skin) And it's a brand called 'Covergirl'. I've never seen it in the UK, where I live! I'm in desperate need f...
A. 30 October 2007: Just had a quick look they don’t appear to sell it in the UK but go to Covergirl.com and they have a list of web sites that sell it. Also go to your local department store and speak to the girls on the cosmetics department they may not have ... (read in full...)
How can I remedy my erectile problem?
Q. I am Visually impaired, partially deaf and a wheelchair user. I struggle to get girlfriends because of erectile dysfunction, even though I often get aroused my erection isn't firm enough. What can I do to remedy my problems?...
A. 30 October 2007: You could try a Penis Ring these go at the base of the penis and help make it firmer and keep it that way for longer. there are many types out there i would suggest a basic one to start with but you could move onto the more fancy ones at a later ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I'm a virgin?
Q. I'm a little scared, i'm pretty young (17) and theres this older woman (31) and we have been together for 14 weeks were not even thinking about having sex yet its all making out and touching... the problem is i lied i said i wasn't a virgin and i am ...
A. 24 October 2007: i applogise mis read but other than the male reffrences id say the same applies.
Once again sorry for the mistake.... (read in full...)
White discharge from my nipple. Is this normal?
Q. So this is really embarresing, but some white discharge from the nipple, that normal? I'm kinda scared, and totally embaressed. ...
A. 24 October 2007: i take it you arent pregnant as if you are it will just be brest milk.
My fiance gets this all the time, It is totaly normal her doc told her that it is her body just saying it is ready to have kids,
i belive you can get small pads from the che... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I'm a virgin?
Q. I'm a little scared, i'm pretty young (17) and theres this older woman (31) and we have been together for 14 weeks were not even thinking about having sex yet its all making out and touching... the problem is i lied i said i wasn't a virgin and i am ...
A. 24 October 2007: Older women, every teenage boys dream.
You should tell her,
tho there is no way she can find out or not it is always best to be honest in any relationship.
as she is an older women whe will be far more understanding as to the white lie you ha... (read in full...)
Is having a realtionship with your second cousin wrong and is it incest?
Q. Is having a realtionship with your second cousin wrong and is it incest? ...
A. 24 October 2007: This type of relationship is not illeagal or cast as incest.
in fact first cousins are allowed a relationship by law,
but there are concerns as to inbreeding and the health of any children from the relationship with second cousins these concerns... (read in full...)
Is it bad that I really didn't care.
Q. so i broke up with my boyfriend today and he seemed really hurt but the part i really feel bad about is apart of me really doesnt care is that a bad thing?...
A. 24 October 2007: i personaly think that it isnt a bad thing. If you are feeling that way it means that the relastionship was at an end and you just no longer have the feelings you once did for this person. ... (read in full...)
Will we be happy together again?
Q. I am love my ex-boyfriend he knows it....Okay we were in this great realationship and then 2 weeks ago my best friend got jealous because i was spending time with him and then she told me that she saw him with another girl and well i was scared ...
A. 24 October 2007: First up yes you will be happy again, maybe not with this guy but if not him then someone else.
What you said to him before you broke up must have hurt him deeply, is is still trying to work out if you are the one he wants to be with. this isnt help... (read in full...)
I don't know how to go further with him,
Q. I've been with my bf for just over 8 months now and I want to do more stuff with him.. not like sex just a little bit of fun like me wanking him off or somethin but I don't kno how to tell him or let him kno i want to do other things. I know he ...
A. 24 October 2007: if hes a teenage boy just tell him want you to do. But make sure you set out the guidelines first as to what you will and wont do.
Make sure that you (or he) do not go straight from penis to vagina as whilst unlikly it is still possible to get p... (read in full...)
Can my boyfriend have babies at the age of 37 and up?
Q. hello! im 21, and still have a family to make i have the man of 5years i want and love, i have always wanted to have kids my b/f is 37 if your some1 or no a man thats had kids this age please let me no an give me some hope for a family ive al...
A. 24 October 2007: It is not a problem My dad had my little brother at 40.
if men live a healthy livestyle the can go on having kids into there 80's (as long as they can get it up that is) ... (read in full...)
Are there any good looking decent men available?
Q. hi ya all im 18 and female and just wanted to no what it is a guy wants in a girl? and what a girl should do to make a lad/man love her for who she is? i do not want to change and all i want is to be happy and loved. i have low self asteem and just ...
A. 24 October 2007: There are decent good looking guys out there, they are just harder to find.
one of the problems is that good looking guys around your age know that they are and tend not to want be in a stable relationship, they want to have a bit of fun befo... (read in full...)
Is dating a guy 18 and up too old for me?
Q. hi im sixteen i just wanted to ask is dating a quy eighteen an up to old for me...
A. 23 October 2007: In short No.
Boys mature at an older age to girls so an 18yr boy will be as mature as a 16yr girl if not less mature.
Please remember tho in the states it is illeagal to have sexual contact before 18. but if you do decide to do anythin... (read in full...)
It was super glue, not lube.
Q. Hey Ok. This is a true story and I need help. My girlfriend and I recently decided to try new things in our relationship. We decided to try anal sex for the first time ever. Here is the problem: The night we decided to try it, it was the sa...
A. 23 October 2007: This sounds like a total hoax amended slightly from the script of American pie 2.
If you had had anal sex with super glue insted of lube if the glue didnt burn a hole into any condom you had on then it would have attached the condom the anal can... (read in full...)
How can I try and understand my gay friend?
Q. I want to be able to support my gay friend. How can I try and understand? I really want to be able to support my friend as he is gay but I think he worries about finding partners and having homosexual relationships. He likes this guy but we don't...
A. 23 October 2007: after speaking to a few gay friends
they would suggest you both visit
http://www.gaydar.co.uk/
looking together would be best as you could learn together it is a chat room site but there are diffrent rooms that deal with diffrent problem... (read in full...)
I masturbate every day, and now my semen is a lot less thick than it was. Will it return to normal if I stop?
Q. Hi, I m 16yr old, And Im masturbating since I was 13. When I turned 15 it was like a daily activity for me, And now I m addicted to it. I want to get rid of this habbit. And Now when I masturbate my cum is not that thick and sticky like it was b4. I ...
A. 23 October 2007: Just keep going as you are mate,
if you stop just for a couple of days you will shot like you used to. but until you are looking to have kids dont worry about the amount you have in one load. if you want a wank or two (or ten :) )a day then do so, ... (read in full...)
Lesbian sisters?
Q. hi. i am 18 and i am a lesbian. my younger sister is 13 and we are close. i have started to get horny around her and want to know if this is wrong. should i not spend as much time with her?...
A. 23 October 2007: In law it is wrong because you are sisters (incest) and because of her age (paedophilia).
Morally most people would say it is wrong for realations to act in urges but only you can say if you think it is morally right or wrong to you.
i would... (read in full...)
Is it ok to betray her?
Q. Well, I've known this guy for over 8 years. I've always seen him as one of my best friends. We're both in Year 9 now. He's been in a relationship with my friend for 8 months, and recently split up with her. It's been about 2 months now. Now he to...
A. 21 October 2007: By going out with him you are not really betraying her as they are no longer together as Aredas says do what you think is right, how good are friend are you to her and also if it all went wrong with this guy and you ended up not even been friends ... (read in full...)
I keep vomiting - am I gay?
Q. hi, i am a male, sometime i think i am gay but sometimes I think i am not. I like watching guys naked and dream about them. but sometime, it maked me vomit thinking of it, but somethimes I like it. I had sex with a women, and I enjoyed it, but i do ...
A. 21 October 2007: You are at an age where you are still discovering who you are as a person.
during the teen years many people have feelings for people of the same sex, just because you didnt like lesbian porn this does not mean you are gay (i'm not to keen on it m... (read in full...)
I can't get a proper erection - what can I do about it?
Q. im 19 nd av sexually inexperienced. im with i girl who i love and we have spent an age exporing each other. but when its comes to sex i can get it up but not quite hard enough for full penetrative sex. help/advice...
A. 21 October 2007: i take it you can get it up any other time.
i had the same problem myself the first time i tried it just wouldnt stay hard. You need to try and not be so nervous about the whole thing take the whole thing slowly and use lots of forplay to get y... (read in full...)
Does my unwillingness to mess araound with boys make me more of a catch?
Q. loads of people in my year are doing loads of stuff with a boy one of my close freinds has wanked off two boys is she a slut? i think she is but other people say shes not and we are only 14 is there somthing wrong with me or am i the only sane one ...
A. 20 October 2007: the answer is yes and no to making you more of a catch.
to boys your age its no as all they want is as much as they can get when it comes to sex.
But to an older person yes because it shows you have you own set of values and wont be lead lik... (read in full...)
I'm in agony because I had my belly-buuton pierced. What could have gone wrong?
Q. Right, I'm a little worried about my belly button piercing which i had done about 6 weeks ago...Just recently i've become in agony with it [in the last two days] I can't even bend over with it and i struggle to sit down. I don't wanna see a doctor ...
A. 20 October 2007: You NEED to she your doctor it is proberly infected and you dont always see the signs. if you have not washed the area for a while this is proberly the cause of any infection as if you get a piercing you open you skin up and germs can get in if not ... (read in full...)
How can I reduce teenage spots?
Q. Hi, Just a quick question... Is there a way of reducing teenage spots? i don't have acne but still i'm very paranoid by my skin! Thanks xx...
A. 20 October 2007: There is no sure fire way of stopping them but to reduce them you need to keep your skin clean use an antibactiral face wash. dont over clean tho as you can end up dammaging your skin in other ways it is possible to be to clean.
also dont eat... (read in full...)
Is cum and sperm the same thing?
Q. what does itmean when my boyfriend says "can i cum in your fanny" does it mean can he jus have an orgasm without a condom on? is it the same as spunk? is it al the same stuff? can cum get me pregnant if it goes in me or is it just sperm that gets ...
A. 20 October 2007: Cum, Spunk, Sperm, Jizz all the same. yes you can get pregnant if you let him cum in you.
Sorry to be rude but having to ask that question says to are not mature enough to handle a sexualy relasionship and what it can bring.
If you do go ... (read in full...)
Is my penis a normal size for a 13 year old?
Q. err hi i was wondering if this is normal im 13 and my penis is 5.4 inches long i mean i think thats good but is it ok to be so big so young?...
A. 20 October 2007: Boys go through Puberty at diffrent ages, so yes its fine i myself was a very early starter (9 years old) where as my elder brother a late starter,
the average male is between 5.2 and 7.2 inches depending mainly on race but also who did the mess... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you're really gay or if you're just in a phase?
Q. How do you know if your gay? How do you tell if it's just a phase or for real?...
A. 20 October 2007: at 10-12 it is impossible to tell for sure.
your body is starting to go through lots of changes.
most boys and girls have feeling for someone of the same sex during puberty.
look at this web site with lots of questions similar to yours (all w... (read in full...)
I feel used and can't give away my virginity again.
Q. I have been with my fiance for going on 7 years. We just had our first baby 4 months ago. from the beginning of our relationship he has always told me that I was the only person he has ever slept with. When I first started talking to him 7 years ...
A. 20 October 2007: whilst yes he lied to you i take it that he is the same age as you. which means he was about 18 when you met and 18 year old boys(in fact most men) will say anything when it comes to gettig some sex, yes he lied but he also waited a year for you to ... (read in full...)
Is is ok that my guy watches porn? It makes me unconfortable.
Q. I've been dating this guy for a long time now and we're thinking about getting married one day(I only mention this because I don't want it to seem like just some little relationship). Well, I know for a fact that he still watches porn. Something i ...
A. 20 October 2007: all diffrent types of people watch porn. male and female. if you really dont like it you need to talk to your guy about it whilst it is unlikly he will stop at least try to get him to agree not to have any around the place either keep it hidden a... (read in full...)
He's not entirely sure he 'got out' in time. I'm so worried! How reliable is the withdrawal method?
Q. hi, straight to the point here. I had unprotected sex recently, mid cycle. My partner and i were using the withdrawel method, we have done this before, however, afterwards he was feeling a bit panoid, leading me now to be paranoid, he's n...
A. 19 October 2007: In is not a real method of contraception at all. NEVER use it as such.
whilst i have respect for all believes the the pope could stop millions of unwanted children been born each year by allowing Catholics can use a condom or the pill. (current... (read in full...)
All my life I have suffered from Body Dysmorphic Disorder
Q. All my life I have suffered from Body Dysmorphic Disorder but i really want to change it now but i dont know how. Its a lot better than it used to be. I'm 22 now and still incredibly shy and quiet around new people and always worrying what they ...
A. 19 October 2007: But the sound of it you have put you feet firmly on the road to recovery.
Most people of think they are ugly just arnt,
go to a decent make up counter Clinque, Benefit, Clarins or Lancome are best for the younger person (i work in a deptment... (read in full...)
He jacked off earlier and told me during sex why he was taking so long. It made me angry!
Q. Recently my bf and i were having sex and he was taking a really long time... so I started to feel self-concsious that I was doing something wrong. Then he said "Don't worry... it's not your fault... I "jacked off" today." I was so mad and hurt by...
A. 19 October 2007: Sorry but as a guy if i dont do it at least once a day i start to ache down there. every guy i know knocks one off almost every day.
how would you have liked him to handle it anyway if he had said it was you, you whould have felt bad and proberly... (read in full...)
We haven't even hugged/kissed once!
Q. hiya... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6months now after a long time being good mates , but we havent even hugged/kissed once, With his X he hugged her all the time, i don't understand why he wont, i admit that im to shy to make the ...
A. 19 October 2007: could it be that he still sees you as a good friend and not want to spoil that. talk to him and find out why.
As for hugging another girl in front of you my fiance does it all the time to me she hugs loads of diffrent people then shrugs me off when... (read in full...)
I would really love to know the best and fastest ways to gain a 6 pack and a good body
Q. Hi, Well, i am a male (15 nearly 16), but i would really love to know the best and fastest ways to gain a 6 pack and a good body. I occasionally go to the gym and make a point of doing sit ups as i can certainly feel stretching in my abs, but i am...
A. 19 October 2007: There is no sure fire way of getting a quick 6 pack
you should speak to the trainer at the gym who can give you the best exercises to do to work on the abs but remember to work on other bits of your body as well.
you may find that until you are ... (read in full...)
Getting a new friendly, sexy girlfriend feels like it's a long time away. Am I overreating?
Q. Hey Aunts/Uncles. I'm a 19 year old guy. I think I'm fairly attractive (Not very, but fairly), and have a good personality. I've only ever had one girlfriend. We were together for just under 2 years and ended up parting ways because she thou...
A. 19 October 2007: as phiatiger says have fun and enjoy your live.
If you just wait around for a friendly, sexy girl to fall in love with you will be waiting a long time,
The more you worry about been single the longer it will take to meet someone,
think abo... (read in full...)
I lied about my sexual experiences - is there a way he could know?
Q. ok so i told my boyfriend that i'm a virgin which is true but i also lied to him and told him iv'e been fingered and eaten out when i really haven't my question is will he know that i haven't actually had that experience when he eats me out or ...
A. 19 October 2007: There isnt a way to tell if you have been fingered or had cunninglingus performed the only why he will know is if you tell him, Why not tell him the truth anyway? he should respect you more for been truthful also he will know you wont just put out ... (read in full...)
We were engaged, but now he wants to call it off! How do I accept this?
Q. I have been living with a man for a year and a half. He is 49 and I am 38. I have one child, 17, and have never been married. He was married once before and has three children, 20, 18 and 17. I moved out at an early age and have been responsible ...
A. 18 October 2007: if he still wants to be with you, you should not let it be a problem many people who have been through divoice dont want to marry again.
i have a family friend who married had a child and got divoiced she said then she would never wed again she ... (read in full...)
A few questions regarding a woman I'm attracted to... Even though I'm married...
Q. I met this woman at a lunch party last May and ever since I have been very attracted to her. I am in love with her and told her so. I am married, 34 years old while this woman is 36. My wife and I have a great relationship but she is out of the ...
A. 18 October 2007: come on chap you say you dont want to /cant/wont leave your wife then why are you so determind to beleive that there should be something with this women. a man and women can be friends and there be nothing more than that to there relationship. this ... (read in full...)
I never seem to last very long during intercourse. Any advice please?
Q. Hi, i'm abit shy about talking about this but it's easier on the internet than to a persons face, when i have sex with a girl, i don't worry about things like foreplay etc but when it comes down to having intercourse with the girl i never seem to ...
A. 18 October 2007: First thing do NOT get circumsised at your age it will do far more harm than good tho our US friends may disagree.
next why no forplay? thats the best bit for both partys in many cases also many women cant climax with penatration
visit this si... (read in full...)
It's been 7 months since I last had Sex, and it's driving me mad! Any advice?
Q. Hi Aunts. It's been 7 months since I last had Sex. My girlfriend split with me about 6 months ago after dating for a year and 10 months, and I still love her and miss her and the relationship we once had. She has since gone off to college and is n...
A. 18 October 2007: if you need her that much hop on a train and go and see her for the week end. if you book tickets early you can get them very cheap (for me to get to london 12 quid return any day down from anything up to 80).
As for the hand thing come on mate ... (read in full...)
I'm never in the mood for sex when the opportunity arises. Help me!
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend of a little over 2 years is 22, we have a great relationship and we love each other to death but lately my sex drive has been down. Usually people as young as us are consantly having sex but lately i think about sex a lot but ...
A. 17 October 2007: It will proberbly be just one of thos things, after only a week and a half you have nothing to worry about you cant always be hot to trot. If it carries on for a few months speak to your doctor they should be able to help. also have you started ... (read in full...)
It's been 7 months since I last had Sex, and it's driving me mad! Any advice?
Q. Hi Aunts. It's been 7 months since I last had Sex. My girlfriend split with me about 6 months ago after dating for a year and 10 months, and I still love her and miss her and the relationship we once had. She has since gone off to college and is n...
A. 17 October 2007: As the other guys say dont worry about it i havent had any for a year and still with my fiance you have inter net there are plenty of sites out there that can help relieve the pressure if you know what i mean. mail me if you need a couple of free ... (read in full...)
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