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writes:Hey Aunts/Uncles.I'm a 19 year old guy. I think I'm fairly attractive (Not very, but fairly), and have a good personality. I've only ever had one girlfriend. We were together for just under 2 years and ended up parting ways because she thought we were getting too serious, and she decided she wanted to live a little more and see what's out there.It's been very hard letting go of her, seeing how it seems there was very little I could do to prevent the break-up. It might sound silly for a 19 year old guy to say, but I'm very worried about missing out with girls now. Mine and my ex's break up was nearing 5 months ago, and it feels as though it'll take ages to get a new girlfriend.What I'd like is another friendly, sexy girl to fall in love with, and I just worry that it'll be a long time until I get so fortunate to have one again.Am I overreacting?Any advice you can give me would be great. Cheers!
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 The best advice I can give is to go where young and sexy girls hang out. If you're friendly, and self-confident, you're bound to meet someone that turns your head.
Good luck.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (19 October 2007):
 Dear anon
you are putting yourself through this worry for nothing, your only 19 so what is the big rush all about,get your self out there enjoy every second of freedom while it lasts,then when you do settle down you will be a better person, there are loads of people out there waiting so dont be in such a rush or you will deeply regret it in later life.
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reader, Dextro69 +, writes (19 October 2007):
 as phiatiger says have fun and enjoy your live.
If you just wait around for a friendly, sexy girl to fall in love with you will be waiting a long time,
The more you worry about been single the longer it will take to meet someone,
think about joining clubs groups etc where you can meet new people talk to girls at collage/uni/work that you like get to know them a bit.
when that right person turns up you will know until then sow you oats (with a condom on of course) and have some fun .
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): Dont you think the longer you wait the better it will be. Enjoy just being you and someone will be bowled over by your charm. You sound like a clued-up teenager, thats a good quality to have. I advise, have fun and enjoy the ride!
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