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writes:Hi Aunts.It's been 7 months since I last had Sex. My girlfriend split with me about 6 months ago after dating for a year and 10 months, and I still love her and miss her and the relationship we once had. She has since gone off to college and is not interested in a relationship with me, atleast until such time as we are close to eachother again.Has anybody else had this before, where they have missed Sex, and had nobody to have it with? How do you get over that? I hate how long it's been since the last time, but she is the only one I want it with, and as I say, that is my problem.Please advise me.Many thanks in advance! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): You are young and you will move on in time. Some people go years without sex, which sounds terrible when you are your age, but it happens and they dont have one night stands. You will meet someone in time but you do need to get over your last gf first. Dont be in such a hurry and it will be special when you get it.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): You need to move on. You don't need sex but another relationship. Would one night stand help? nope. You would have the same problem a week after. you need to meet more people and do different activities. Try some sports! You need to flirt with girls just for fun and puzzles will fit.
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reader, Dextro69 +, writes (18 October 2007):
 if you need her that much hop on a train and go and see her for the week end. if you book tickets early you can get them very cheap (for me to get to london 12 quid return any day down from anything up to 80).
As for the hand thing come on mate we all do it, it is in no way degrading if fact it can help teach you about your body and what you like when a partner does it for you. of course it anit as good as sex but unless you either move on or get back with you girl its far better than a blow up doll (or sheep if welsh)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've had a couple of comments now about "hands" and while that's true and probably my only option, masturbation is nothing compared to Sex. I find it so degrading. I feel like "Ok, so I don't have a girlfriend to share my love with, so instead of getting her back, I'll just have sex with my hand"
Yeh, it's something I do, but it doesn't compare to Sex at all.
As far as moving is concerned. It's something I myself will do when I get the oportunity to further my education. There's a possibility I will get to move up there next year.. but it's so long from now. So much can happen in that space of time. She may find somebody new, and so might I, but at this time, she's who I'd like to be with, and if I have a chance to do that, I'd take it.
Maybe that's just silly... What do you think? Please be honest with me.
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reader, Dextro69 +, writes (17 October 2007):
As the other guys say dont worry about it i havent had any for a year and still with my fiance you have inter net there are plenty of sites out there that can help relieve the pressure if you know what i mean. mail me if you need a couple of free ones
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reader, kenny +, writes (17 October 2007):
 I agree with Ponungalungb, its time to move on. Treat this as a chapter in your life, put it down to experience and look forward in your life and not backwards. Don't be in to much of a rush to meet someone new, go out have fun with pals and i bet you meet someone new when you least expect it.Good luck
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 That's why God gave us hands. . . .
Seriously . . . it's time to move on and hopefully find a new love in your life. To dwell in the past is a losing proposition.
Good luck.
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