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writes:im 19 nd av sexually inexperienced. im with i girl who i love and we have spent an age exporing each other. but when its comes to sex i can get it up but not quite hard enough for full penetrative sex. help/advice
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reader, Dextro69 +, writes (21 October 2007):
 i take it you can get it up any other time.
i had the same problem myself the first time i tried it just wouldnt stay hard. You need to try and not be so nervous about the whole thing take the whole thing slowly and use lots of forplay to get you both relaxed and really in the mood.
you may also want to try a c**k ring you can get them from any sex shop or ann summers. durex also make a vibrating one now you can get in Boots,superdrug or any larger super market.
They go at the base of your penis and squeese it (not to tightly tho) which makes the blood stay in the penis keeping it hard, they also make it slightly larger as well which anit a bad thing.
Remember to put on a condom at the same time.
if these dont help speak to your doctor they deal with this sort of thing all the time if it is an extreem case they may prscribe viagra or the like but DO NOT use these unless prescribed by your doctor as they can do a lot of harm if not used correctly.
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reader, Checkup Man +, writes (21 October 2007):
 Have you tried various lap sitting techniques where your girlfriend sits on your lap in various erotic ways? Also, she could sit on your lap and 'rock' herself to and fro. This stimulates the blood flow into the penis, whilst at the same time, strengthening your various 'love muscles'. Try and have a few evenings (or days or nights!) where you just play some erotic games such as these, without having sexual intercourse. It's my bet that you'll find the urge to penetrate gets so strong that you'll find yourself enjoying great sex and a fabulous climax! All the best!
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