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I lied about my sexual experiences - is there a way he could know?

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Question - (18 October 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok so i told my boyfriend that i'm a virgin which is true but i also lied to him and told him iv'e been fingered and eaten out when i really haven't my question is will he know that i haven't actually had that experience when he eats me out or fingers me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007):

he'll probaly only know if you tell him

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007):

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thank you all so much i really appreciate it I only lied to him because most of my friends and girls at my age have already done stuff so i wanted him to think I have too but i think i'll just tell him the truth

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (19 October 2007):

He'll never know unless you tell him.

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (19 October 2007):

Ponungalungb agony auntThere's no way he'll know unless you tell him.

It's interesting that you made up the story about "being fingered and eaten out". Why you would do that is beyond me.

BTW, I haven't heard anyone use the term "being eaten out" in a long time. Be careful.

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony auntDear anon

I do not know why you are worrying over this, it is not a broblemo, example if three blokes did the same thing to you, you would react differently in three different ways, because every one does thing in a different way,so how would he know you had not done it before,but would it not have been better for you to come clean and tell him the truth, he could have been testing you to see if you were a virgin, maybe you should tell him the truth, by the way if he does do these things to you make sure he washes his hands and they are clean, you dont want germs going there, makes sure he brushes his teeth as well.

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A male reader, Dextro69 United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2007):

Dextro69 agony auntThere isnt a way to tell if you have been fingered or had cunninglingus performed the only why he will know is if you tell him, Why not tell him the truth anyway? he should respect you more for been truthful also he will know you wont just put out to anyone. what ever you decide only let happen what you are comfortable with and only let it happen when you want if to, dont be pressured into anything.

And remember what ever you do be careful and anything to do with the penis USE CONDOM's

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