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writes: Well, I've known this guy for over 8 years. I've always seen him as one of my best friends. We're both in Year 9 now. He's been in a relationship with my friend for 8 months, and recently split up with her. It's been about 2 months now. Now he told me the other week that he split up with her because he's fallen for me. I now fancy him too, and would love to go out with him, but his ex - as she's my friend - is getting in the way. She told me if I go out with him she'll never speak to me again. Seeing as I've only known her about a year, is it ok to betray her?Help!Thanks.
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (21 October 2007):
 i disagree with aredas. I dont think being a true friend counts here, I dont know for sure but i bet this guy hurt your friend when he broke up with her because of another girl(you. So she said she wouldnt talk to you if you date him as if you do your compounding the break up.
Thtas what i belive she feels.
Its up to you if you wanna date him, but do relise you may lose a friend in the process
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reader, Dextro69 +, writes (21 October 2007):
 By going out with him you are not really betraying her as they are no longer together as Aredas says do what you think is right, how good are friend are you to her and also if it all went wrong with this guy and you ended up not even been friends would lossing his friendship hurt more than lossing him as a boyfriend.
If you do go out with him tho your female friend will huff and puff for a bit get herself a new guy then most likly be talking to you again.
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reader, Aredas  +, writes (21 October 2007):
 I say, do what you think is right. Honestly if your friend is being that mean to you about dating the guy, she isnt a true friend. I would say go for it, and if she never speaks to you again, then thats just her overreacting.
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