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Are these the real red flags that he is going to cheat?
Q. Okay - same old sad story - but here it goes. My husband and I have been together for 21 years. We were high school sweethearts. We have good morals, but we aren't prudes if you know what I mean. We have two daughters and I work from home most of ...
A. 16 September 2008: All I know is that when I expect sex, I shave. I honestly believe that your man is cheating. I'm sorry. This is killing you and you need it out of your life and your child's.
21 years down the drain. What an ass. ... (read in full...)
On top of struggling financially, I discovered that my husband has been sleeping with our neighbour. I don't know what to do.
Q. I need help. I am in a very very bad place. I work in an industry that is taking massive hits and lay offs everywhere. I am responsible for 2 children (from my husbands 1st relationship)and my husband, He also works but we rely on my wage ( I earn m...
A. 16 September 2008: You have a job. You can pay your bills honey. Don't be afraid honey. You are a strong, independent woman. Be strong for your children and leave him. You obviously are more commited to the relationship than he is. He can spend money on that b**** and ... (read in full...)
How should I break the news to my gf about her increased financial commitment without upsetting her?...
Q. I'm in a bit of a pickle. I have been dating my gf for over five years and we have 2 kids together. I also have a child from a previous relationship and still occassionally have sex with the ex. Last month, I had a one-night-stand with a 23 yr old I ...
A. 16 September 2008: Do you know how pathetic you sound? She's supporting you, the kids you two had together, and your other kid. You cheat on her with your ex and this one nighter and you get the one nighter pregnant. When you break the news about this, I hope she ... (read in full...)
Why did he last so long during sex?
Q. my friend have a guy friend that have sexual inner course with for a long time (8 hours) and she is tired of him but scare to let him no. She don't no what to do. She think that he have a problem about how long he last. she ask him is he taking any ...
A. 16 September 2008: Some guys last a long time. Some get off quick. He takes a while. Your friend should just use lubrication or try to masturbate him after she cums so that she doesn't get sore.... (read in full...)
Is red pubic hair a turn on?
Q. Since I'm a natural redhead my hair down there is also red. I was wondering if having red pubic hair turns on guys. I've heard it does, although I'm not sure why. My partners before my current boyfriend wanted me to shave (which I've never done, ...
A. 16 September 2008: I think that different men have different tastes. Some men are turned on, some aren't. ... (read in full...)
Being cheated for 3 years, want out now. What type of financial support can I get from my husband for me and my child?
Q. I found out my husband cheated on my when our son BeBe was just 4 weeks, he is going to be 3 this Oct. The other woman just gave birth to my husband child 3 month ago. After almost three years of sharing my husband with the other woman, there is n...
A. 16 September 2008: Go to a lawyer right a away and ask them about this situation. Get him for all he's got because he has taken alot from you and your child. ... (read in full...)
My friend told me it's best to lose my virginity myself and not let my boyfriend do it....
Q. If been with my boyfriend for more that one year and i want to have sex with him (im a virgin)...so I told a friend about it and she told me that it was better that i would lose it with myself so he will not see the blood, and i wouldnt feel the ...
A. 16 September 2008: Talk with someone older that you trust. Blood during your first time is not disgusting. He should see what you gave to him. I think because of your age that you should wait a while until you know for sure that this is real. Yes a year is a long time ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she care where her husband is?!
Q. I am dating a man who has filed for divorce and is just waiting for his court date.He showed me the papers etc.. as I wanted to be sure before our relationship progressed. problem is they have to share their house until it sells so they can both ...
A. 16 September 2008: This sounds weird. What is the reason they are getting a divorce?
Be careful that he's not just using you for sex. Don't be the rebound girl.... (read in full...)
I've been in extreme pain ever since I found out he had a profile in a sex dating site!
Q. Hi i have a big problem i have been with my commen law husband for 8 years in january im going on 23 he's going on 26 we have two children a girl age 6 and a boy age 5 we have had a rocky relationship but i know he has been faithfull for about 5 ...
A. 16 September 2008: I am going through a similar situation with my bf. We were together for about five months and then he moved to Texas. We were apart for six months and then I moved to Texas to be with him. I found that he had pictures of women in lingerie as well as ... (read in full...)
Did he have an affair with an ex friend's daughter?
Q. ive just been clearing some memory on my laptop when i came across a history of conversation that went on between my husband and a ex friends daughter who is 17 my hubby is 37 he had an affair over 10 years ago and pronmised he would never do it ...
A. 16 September 2008: All I can say is that you have done all you can do at this point in time. You have confronted him. You have told him to stop it. Just wait, listen, and watch. If there is incriminating evidence that he does go on and cheat on you with the chick, ... (read in full...)
We only have sex infrequently and he lets everything else come between our sex life. How can I get him to see how much I need sex?
Q. My boyfriend used to have a really high sex drive and now seems to have none. We have gone weeks without sex and I seem to be the only one who cares. When I said something to him about it he actually said to me "Well, I have a lot on my mind and ...
A. 16 September 2008: Thank you for asking this question. I have a much higher drive than my boyfriend but I only figured this out after I moved in with him. He works from seven to seven and I know how tiring it is to stand up working for twelve hours but he doesn't ... (read in full...)
We'll be meeting this coming Saturday, after texting each other. How do I make him want me the way I do?
Q. Dear cupid, there's a guy i want to be with. we met through the phone mistakenly, when he mistyped a digit and dilled my number instead. we got talking, then we realised we visit the same club every saturday. we arranged to meet but it failed last ...
A. 16 September 2008: You might think that you like him alot because of the personality he shows on messages and phone calls but people are alot different than how they show themselves over the phone. Before you go all goo goo ga ga over him, find out how he is in ... (read in full...)
I am just so outraged! Is he some kind of pervert? What should I do?
Q. I recently made a horrific discovery that is making me questioning the man I thought I loved. While helping to clean out his room, I came across a stash of some 30 or more porn magazines and several DVDs stashed away. I was shocked. He told me ...
A. 16 September 2008: Porno is just porno. You're probably hurt that he's looking at other naked chicks. It makes you question how he views you. Does he not think you're sexy? Why does he have to look at other women to get off? Men are visually stimulated. Its ... (read in full...)
I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?
Q. Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...
A. 16 September 2008: It sounds like he's an ass plain and simple. He wants you for sex. He doesn't listen to you when you tell him to stop and it sounds like he raped you. You said stop. He didn't. That's rape. He hurt you, sweetie. I know you might love him but its no ... (read in full...)
I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?
Q. Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...
A. 16 September 2008: It sounds like he's an ass plain and simple. He wants you for sex. He doesn't listen to you when you tell him to stop and it sounds like he raped you. You said stop. He didn't. That's rape. He hurt you, sweetie. I know you might love him but its no ... (read in full...)
Trust me I love pain and pleasure, but with him it hurts so much, I cry!!
Q. My boyfriend and I are having sex, and I've had sex plenty of times with my ex's with no problems, but with him it hurts, like so badly I've cried. Trust me I love pain and pleasure, the two were made for each other, but I can't take that, it's so p...
A. 1 May 2008: If he's really big, you can take steps to prepare yourself. For example, use a toy to stretch yourself a bit. Have him do more foreplay and use lubricant.
Please elaborate on the pain. ... (read in full...)
He likes "golden showers" and has other fetishes. Is this a high sex drive or something else?
Q. My special male friend loves to masturbate over the phone, he also love for me to pee on him in the shower, and loves to play with my small feet. He usually blows his load 3 times during a 30 min session when we are together. does he have a high sex ...
A. 9 April 2008: People like what they like. All that matters is if you enjoy the same things or if you're only doing to it please him. If so, find some thing you enjoy and you guys should try it out and even things up. To me, seems like he's a pretty experimental ... (read in full...)
I fell in love but found out she has a daughter from another relationship! How can I look at her the same?
Q. Dear friends out there, thanks for all the great advice you are giving to the world because it's helped lots of people, me included. However, I have one very disturbing situation that I have gotten myself into unintentionally. I fell in love wit...
A. 9 April 2008: Does that make all single mothers second hand material? Lets say a guy has a kid from another relationship...is he second hand material? The girl you love is still the girl you love no matter if she has a kid or not. If you only love her because ... (read in full...)
Should I be more assertive?
Q. Hey, I have been in a relationship for about two and a half months with a really great girl. However just recently she is now asking me to take down a poster of a girl I have. Now I know my relationship is more than a poster, I just don't want ...
A. 1 April 2008: They're not your girlfriends. It's just a poster. Aren't you supposed to try and make your girlfriend happy? Don't fight over the small things. Save it for the big things.... (read in full...)
I am female and I have really hairy arms and have 3 tatoos... specifically male opinions please.
Q. Hey all, I would like to know the opinions of the males out there if I could please? My question is on the appearance side of things. I have really hairy arms (black hair), what do you guys think of this? I have just waxed them because I am sooo ...
A. 31 March 2008: Do whatever you need to do to feel better about yourself but don't change who you are because your boyfriend is with you because of what he saw when he first saw you.
Why don't you just tell him of your insecurities?
It's make things alot more cle... (read in full...)
Do you think I am right in saying that I refuse to leave his house just because of his daughter having to entertain her aunt and uncle at my boyfriend's house?
Q. My boyfriend's sister and husband are coming into town on the way back home. They want to see my boyfriend's daughter's new twins recently born. She lives in a very small cluttered house and she wants to entertain them at my boyfriend's home. I ...
A. 31 March 2008: I think you're right. You should also sit down and talk to them rationally and calmly. You a part of your boyfriend's life and they need to accept that.
X... (read in full...)
Does he love me or just not good with expressing his feeling...?
Q. Dear Cupid My name is Joy11 and I'm 26 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. He seldom tells me he loves me and I'm currently expecting his child and we're both very happy. Does he love me or just not good with expressing his f...
A. 31 March 2008: If he's still with you after eight years, then he must feel something for you. If you're happy together, then be happy together. Don't bring unnecessary things up. Most people don't even hit the one year mark let alone 8 years!
Concentrate on how ... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight to be able to use the pool confidently... in 13 days.
Q. I weigh 9 and a half stone and i go on a holiday just for 3 days though but there's going to be pools there and i'm going to want to go in them. Plus my friend(also the boy i like) is coming with us so tha'ts another big reason why i want to lose ...
A. 29 March 2008: How many pounds is 9 and a half stone? All I can tell you is exercise and diet(not the starvation kind). Eat several small meals a day instead of three big ones. This will get your metabolism going.
No sugars, breads, noodles. No oil either.
Good ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wanted a break from me, but I found out she doesn't want to get back with me.
Q. My girlfriend wanted a break from me 2 months ago, and i have found out that she doesn't really want to get back with me, this is because i was to clingy and controlling. I love her so much and she says she still has feelings for me...but wants to b...
A. 29 March 2008: Stop being clingy. You're being clingy right now. Stop it. If she says she cares about you and then doesn't want to get back with you, then that means she cares for you as a friend and doesn't want to get back with you. Period. She's over you and ... (read in full...)
All he wants me to do is give him oral sex.
Q. I've only been with my boyfriend a month, and at first he couldn't wait to have sex. We had sex twice and it wasn't all that good. I was more than willing to give it another chance for his sake. Now all he wants me to do is give him oral sex. Now i'...
A. 29 March 2008: Tell him if he wants you to give him oral, then he has to give you oral first. Fair's fair right? Don't give into him and let him step all over you. Seems like this is a onesided relationship where you're doing the giving and he's doing the taking. ... (read in full...)
He's not the faithful type, should I go after him anyway?
Q. i have known *Guy* for about a year now, i've got on with him well since we first started talking. we've always flirted and joked around like that but over the last month or so hes got more serious about it, telling me he cant stop thinking of me ec...
A. 21 March 2008: No prob. I understand 'moments of weakness'. Pretty common but you gotta be strong for yourself and your heart.
Good luck finding a good man who is the faithful type.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wrote me a threatening email! How do I respond?
Q. Boyfriend and I are arguing.He did somethign that hurt me and all day I waited for flowers and an apology or both. When I finally received an e-mail from him it was nasty and threatening. I don't know how to respond to that. I feel I should sh...
A. 20 March 2008: I think you need to tell us what he wrote so that we can gauge how much of a threat he really is. If you really don't feel safe, go to the police. Better safe than sorry!
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He's not the faithful type, should I go after him anyway?
Q. i have known *Guy* for about a year now, i've got on with him well since we first started talking. we've always flirted and joked around like that but over the last month or so hes got more serious about it, telling me he cant stop thinking of me ec...
A. 20 March 2008: Save yourself the heartache and look somewhere else. You already know its not gonna end well so why not take the safe and smoother road? Save yourself the trouble.
x... (read in full...)
I still have feelings for Alex but I love Paul. I don't know what to do!
Q. Hey I'm soo confused!! I just started dating this guy named Paul. But before that I had a "friends with bens" relationship with my friend Alex. Problem: I didn't date Alex because his mom is racist and wouldn't let him date. So I kinda gave up...
A. 20 March 2008: Take a step back. Take a deep breath. Think with your mind, not your heart. Look at both the guys. Which one do you truly love? Do you 'love' Paul because you've always wanted him and how am finally able to have him? Does Alex truly care for you? Is ... (read in full...)
How bad of an age gap is this? We met on Hot or Not.
Q. Hi, Not too long ago i met a guy on 'hotornot' he was gorgeous so left a message telling him so. i was quite shocked to find out he was living in england, and this is a world wide website. Even more scarier was that he lived in the same county....
A. 18 March 2008: Who is going to be in this relationship? You or your immature friends? If you don't feel uncomfortable with it, then its no problem. You should tell your friends to stop calling him pedophile because he has feelings too and I bet they get hurt when ... (read in full...)
Is it her choice to be able to keep the baby or her mom's?
Q. I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 16 her mother let me live in their household and she knew we were having sex... some issues happened and I moved out. Also her mother will not let us see each other anymore.... and we love each other.... but the real ...
A. 18 March 2008: I'm pretty sure it's the girl's decision. ... (read in full...)
I've not had sex after marriage, still a virgin!
Q. HI, I got married on November 30th 2007. I have a problem that for last four months of our marraige we didn't had sex. I always force him to have to come on me, he never comes by his own. Only thing we have is masturbating each other. He works ni...
A. 17 March 2008: Men like it sometimes when women are agressive and take charge. He might be that type of guy. Or he could be a virgin too and is scared of hurting you or not being good in the sack...
I think that you should just plainly ask him, "When are you gonn... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Umm...what does your digestive system have to do with your vagina? When you swallow fish eggs, do you get pregnant with fish? No. No, you cannot get pregnant if you swallow cum. When you swallow something, it goes into your STOMACH, not your womb.... (read in full...)
Does anyone else here agree with me that it was inappropriate for her to slap her brother on the butt?
Q. Like a lot of women, my girlfriend really likes a tight butt on a guy. Whenever I'm naked around her, she always either pats me on my butt or softly slaps my butt. This usually happens when she's behind me. Well, recently she told me that when she...
A. 9 March 2008: Umm...It's sibling affection and familiarity. I mean, my and my sister and aunt punch each other in the boobs sometimes. Its nothing big.... (read in full...)
My friends want me to buy stuff for them...or else they say they will spread rumours about me.
Q. I took my friends to our vacation villa last summer, after that they kept me asking to buy things for them. Once i refused and they threatend to spread rumours about me, so i had to keep on buying them stuff, what should i do??...
A. 2 March 2008: Stop buying them stuff. Rumors will go away. It stings when you hear stuff about you but they're only words. Real friends will ignore the rumors and still be your friend.
Sorry you have fake stinky friends.... (read in full...)
I like my online friend, what should I do about my crush?
Q. hiya dearcupids i need a bit of guy advice. im 15 at the moment and im living in the UK. im totally into this guy!! he is like georgous. and hes got an amazing personality. but the thing is ive only really got to know him on MSN. when i was a...
A. 2 March 2008: Seems he's pretty interested in your sexually which is a good start for a relationship.
Just be the person you are and if he doesn't like it, oh well. There are more fish in the ocean. If he does, congratulations, he likes you for who you are.... (read in full...)
Do I risk my childrens' sake by returning to my abusive ex whom I still love?
Q. Last october i got out of a 8yr relationship 18months of it i was married....my husband was violent towards me...he could be the most wounderful man and also be very nasty...i walked out in last year not looking back...i have managed to set up my ...
A. 2 March 2008: Don't go back to him. His violence will spread towards your children as abusive people always try to hurt the people helpless to defend themselves. Also you do deserve to be happy. No woman deserves the emotional, mental, and physical pain that ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong for a 36 year old to date a teenager? Can people choose who they are attracted to?
Q. honeslty do people think this is wrong if a 36 year old man is really really attracted to a 16 year old (mature, or so he thinks) girl...i mean people cant help who they're attracetd to right??? and if he got carried away and ended up in bed with ...
A. 2 March 2008: I think that the guy should look elsewhere. No matter how mature or grown up the sixteen year old thinks she is, she hasn't experienced the same things as a 36 year old man. If there is serious interest, they can wait till she is 18 to commence in ... (read in full...)
I don't know what she's doing on her nights out...
Q. I need to bounce this senario of you. What do you think is happening or what I should say or do about it? My girlfriend of 5 months goes out with work friends once or twice a month, problem is I don't know who they are, or where she goes. To make ...
A. 2 March 2008: I say give her space. It gets pretty old when a boyfriend is bugging you when you're going out. If she seems like the type of person who will cheat, then she's cheating. You gotta trust her. You go out when she's going out and then you won't be so ... (read in full...)
Really missing a guy I dated but should I be??
Q. Hi there guys, I wanted to ask you for your advice in regards to a relationship matter. About a year and a half ago I placed an advert in my local home town in a shop window advertising a room for rent in my house and a day or two after I rece...
A. 2 March 2008: Seems like both those guys are retards. Not all men are like those two. If you love a person enough, you still will no matter what they do or say. However, it still hurts very much for them to do certain things. You gotta weigh two options: Leave ... (read in full...)
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