Is my friend telling the truth? Is she pregnant with my BF's baby?
Q. Hi Iv Got A Big Problem. Im 18 Years Old Iv Been With My Boyfriend For 3 Years Now And We're Engaged And We Were Trying For A Baby. But... I Got A Text From A Old Friend Who I Blamed My Boyfriend For Cheating On Me With Her He Claimed It Was Just A ...
A. 4 February 2010: Only a paternity test will prove if he is or is not the father. I believe they can be performed (blood test) while she is pregnant, but I'm not sure.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gave me the same engagement ring he gave his ex!
Q. Hello, my boyfriend gave me an engagement ring that was previously used by his ex girlfriend. He says that he redid the ring, but the diamond is the same. It makes me feel uncomfortable. There is also a plus, when we started the relation...
A. 4 February 2010: Let him know how uncomfortable you feel taking that ring.
I wouldn't want or accept the ring either.... (read in full...)
Would you prefer a real rose or a fake one?
Q. Valentines help! I've been with a girl for a couple of weeks and have planned to take her out for a meal on valentines. I just wondered though, I'm planning on giving her a single red rose, but wanted to know on whether that rose should be real or ...
A. 4 February 2010: It should be real!... (read in full...)
He has me so down and depressed I feel trapped!
Q. My husband has always seemed to find slightly twisted ways of running me down on a semi-regular basis but last week has really made me want to leave. In an argument in which he told me I was taking too long to study and change my career (I'm doing ...
A. 4 February 2010: It's gone WAY too far.
If you love him, you may want to seek counseling while taking a trial separation (you don't need that kind of stress with your school load).
Another option is divorce...... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty for his anger issues! Would it be best for him if I was not around?
Q. Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for 18 months now and prior to that we were close friends for a good many years. He's always had an anger problem; he's never been violent toward me or any of his friends however he does get verball...
A. 4 February 2010: There is a lot can be said, but in a nutshell... It's not your fault, and he needs to get help for his anger issues.... (read in full...)
Should I be moved out by now? Should I feel like less of a man for looking after my mother?
Q. I'm 32 yrs old and still living at home with mom. I'm not completely a momma's boy... but I do love her a lot. Hey she'll always be my #1 girl. Well my parents have been divorced for along time and I've always been the man of the house. I'm not a...
A. 4 February 2010: When you should move out of the house is a matter of personal opinion.
In some families, children don't move out until they are married, no matter how old they are.
It seems that you feel it is time for you to move on and out. You work, so I a... (read in full...)
Confused and laughing - don't know if my boyfriend is gay.
Q. My boyfriend and I recently are taking a break so he can try and be in his child's life (long story). I just found out that he signed up for an adult friend finder site, and has his profile to looking for males and joined a couple groups about ...
A. 4 February 2010: He may be official bisexual or curious (I don't know what sort of options that website has).
"Please someone tell me what I need to do......."
What are you trying to accomplish?
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been locked up for three months, how do I cope?
Q. hi i am an just 18 and my boyfriend of 3 months just got locked up for 3 months..i was pregant with his baby but i lost it due to stress my family were putting on me..i miss my boyfriend soo much..i want to move in with his family when i turn ...
A. 4 February 2010: You can write letters and talk to him on the phone.
Hopefully you will be able to also focus on things like school, work, and other things that help you move forward in life.... (read in full...)
Why are ex's usually hot and cold?
Q. Just wondering in general why do people say things like "im not in love with you anymore" or "i dont have feelings for you anymore" or "i know what im doing and i know what i want" only to later say they didnt mean any of it..or, there actions dont ...
A. 4 February 2010: "im just wondering why do ex's act this way?"
Because (a) people are not drones; they have emotions which are subject to change, and (b) some like to keep as many options open as possible.
It is unfortunate you're allowing him to talk to you t... (read in full...)
What is holding him back from marrying me?
Q. I've been with this guy for 7 years and now we have two kids together. I am ready to get married but I don't know if he is. I tell him all the time that it is time to make a true commitment but he just dont understand. All I want to know what is the ...
A. 4 February 2010: Casually ask him if he sees himself getting married (don't say to you, just ask period). If he says no, you have your answer. If he say yes, ask him when.... (read in full...)
How do I get him to stop fighting with me so much?
Q. We have been dating for awhile and we tend to get in fights just i feel like its my fault when we get mad at each other he tries to take the blame and never listens to me. how do i get him to stop fighting with me so much?...
A. 4 February 2010: The point isn't that you "fight". It's what you fight about that has to be resolved/taken care of.
... (read in full...)
He kissed my forehad the first time we met. Is this too fast, too soon?
Q. i just met this really really cute and funny guy; but we just met like today and he wants to get really close really fast! He kissed me on the forehead and keeps texting me if its ok if we should kiss and hold hands already! This is bothering me; ...
A. 4 February 2010: Tell him that you want to take it slower, and that you were uncomfortable with the forehead kiss.
He is asking you so that he knows what is and isn't okay. Answer him honestly, but politely, and he'll understand.... (read in full...)
I said Hi on Facebook to the guy I like and he didn't even know who I was.
Q. I really liked this guy that was in one of my classes. We would talk occaionally and my love for him got deeper and deeper. Then just know i was on Facebook with him for the first time. I said hi to him and he replied, "Who's this? Do I know you?" I ...
A. 4 February 2010: Ah, it happens. Just ignore him, and move on. He won't make any fuss.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but I want her to make the first move.
Q. i am a virgin and i have this girl i have known her my entire life she realy likes me she wants to have sex i am ready to have sex but i want her to make the first move what do i tell her or do for her to make the first move?...
A. 4 February 2010: What do you mean by "first move"?
Her telling you she really wants to have sex could be considered the "first move". But, I assume you don't know whether she necessarily wants it to be with you.
You can tell you would be interested in do... (read in full...)
I think I might be pregnant
Q. Allright so my boyfriend and i had never had sex before until this one night when we decided to see what it was like. Well he ended up putting it in one time. he didnthump or anything it was just in and then out and we stopped. He never had an ...
A. 4 February 2010: The only way to know is to get a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
What signs distinguish between him just being a really nice guy and him possibly fancying me?
Q. Hello =) I'm just wondering what signs there are that a guy likes you? the guy i like is 12 years older than me, i guess you could say that we're friends. I'd just like to know what signs distinguish between him just being a really nice guy ...
A. 4 February 2010: He would ask you out for a date.
Given the age difference, and the time you've been just friends, I doubt he likes you the way you like him.... (read in full...)
Why does my butt bleed when I go to the toilet?
Q. i feel really embarrsed but wen ever i go number 2 my butt bleeds out blood and i kno you cant really determin my problem but i just want to kno wat could be going on thx...
A. 4 February 2010: It is likely to just be difficult bowel movements. But, you see a doctor to be sure. No need to be embarrassed, a doctor has probably seen your case (and much worse) many times before.... (read in full...)
I was not invited to myown girlfriends birthday dinner.
Q. Its my girlfriends birthday this weekend and im having her over saturday but sunday her family is taking her out to eat and i wasnt invited maybe because her brother doesnt like me that much im just not sure i feel hut because her and her family ...
A. 4 February 2010: Her family may just want this time to themselves.
There won't be any other non-family attending, so I doubt it's personal/just geared to leave you out.
Other people just may not have the same open-house mentality that you and your family have... (read in full...)
I'm antisocial and my mom wants me to do something about it
Q. So I'm antisocial and my mom wants me to do something about it. I'm 16 and I've lived in the same place for like 8 years and I have some people I talk to at school but not out of it and I really don't mind. I don't have the same interests as anybody ...
A. 4 February 2010: If you don't want to be more social, then don't. I don't recommend making more friends because your mother wants you to.
If you do want to be more social for yourself, go out more and be seen. Ask some of the people you talk to about doing so... (read in full...)
I just feel like he is trying to tell me what to do at the sacrifice of me doing what I feel is best for me.
Q. first off hi and thanks for reading! My boyfriend of 18 months and i are in what i would view as a happy relationship, we get on really well, are communicative, care for each other, both take and give the same amount etc etc. The issue i am encou...
A. 4 February 2010: It seems that you're already doing all you can to avoid the argument.
But some suggestions,
"Yeah, that's a good idea but I would rather..." or "That makes sense, but I think I'll..."
With the two things you mentioned, tell him (a) "I will... (read in full...)
My husband feels like the 3rd wheel in our group of friends.
Q. I have been with my wonderful husband for 17 years and consider him my very best friend. We live in a small town and are part of a clickyish group of friends that we have known ever since we got married 10 years ago. Just lately a new friend has ...
A. 4 February 2010: How recently did the new guy appear?
They may just be in a reminiscent phase, and the dynamic of the group could go back to normal. After all, the other men (before the new guy came) had gone to school together as well.
Could anything else ha... (read in full...)
Am I just his 'secret' friend...what's going on with this guy?
Q. theres this guy at school who already has a girlfriend and i think he fancies me. we met in the beginning of the school year in my science classes. we were forced to sit together so we got talking, music, likes, hobbies ect. small talk really. and ...
A. 4 February 2010: You should tell him, privately, that you see him as a friend. But, his behavior is bothering you, and that you won't put up with it anymore.... (read in full...)
I like this guy who keeps using me, and my teacher is furious with me! Help!
Q. One day ago i gave head to this boy i like, thinking he liked me too. Biggest mistake of my life.. im 13, he has a girlfriend, and he doesnt even like me. The worst part is that it was after school, in a hallway... More things occured, such as ...
A. 4 February 2010: "how do i fix this problem between me and her?"
1. Stop having any contact what so ever with this boy,
2. Stop giving your body to anyone you think likes you, and
3. Let her know you have done #1 and #2.
That said,
This is a sad thing t... (read in full...)
Why would he come see me if he said it wasn't real and he didn't have feelings for me?
Q. hi i have a problem that i could really do help with, a few yrs ago i got talkin to my now partener online, we got on really well and we live 6hours away from eachother we started to fall for eachother back then, but i got back with an ex of mine ...
A. 4 February 2010: From what you've described, he wants to keep your relationship with each other secret. The "love not in love" bit is often said when someone wants to keep you around for now, but doesn't see a future with you. I wouldn't be surprised if he is just ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my girl's health during phone sex!
Q. Okay... im very concerned for my girlfriends safety.. We've been together a while, and have been having phone sex for about the past month. So here's why ive been concerned. 2 nights ago while having phone sex after she was happy with what i ...
A. 4 February 2010: She needs to see a doctor. That sort of reaction isn't healthy/normal at all. You should try to see that knowing will be beneficial, even if it is scary.... (read in full...)
To my ex, get out of my head!
Q. i want to know why i can't stop thinking bout my ex. i just recently moved back to NC, due to the fact i am now officially married. i didnt want to move back, i wanted him to move there but he didnt want to leave his life behind, so i left my life ...
A. 4 February 2010: It is unfortunate you married someone knowing you still had feelings for your ex.
If there is any contact with him, you should cut it off immediately. Try to think about other things, like why you married your husband. And get into some activiti... (read in full...)
Office teasing/bullying makes me paranoid...
Q. So I really like were I work. I'm also bisexual, but not openly so. But the work place is non-western and very homophobic. there are obviously gay guys working there but no-one mentions it or brings it up in front of them a bit like an elephant in ...
A. 4 February 2010: It is good that no one mentions or brings up that those men are gay. Their sexuality shouldn't be used for workplace conversation.
By her even starting the joke, there is probably suspicion that you're gay.
There is no fool proof way to tal... (read in full...)
Why is he blanking me all the time?
Q. I really like this person , im madly in love with him. We have both admitted how we both like each other but for the past couple weeks everythings been going downhill. We hardly talk to one another and when we get the chance hes always avoiding it. ...
A. 4 February 2010: It appears that he has lost interest, and doesn't want to work on bring the passion back. It's time to let go, and begin healing.... (read in full...)
Why am I so tired all the time?
Q. So I am constantly tired and I can not figure out why. I mean I get a fairly good amount of sleep(from 10 till 6) Its like it is very hard to last through the day even when I am trying to prepare for my online test, its impossible for me to stay a...
A. 4 February 2010: Wow, I also suggest you see a doctor asap. You could be anemic...... (read in full...)
Why is everything I'm doing to make myself happier always so stupid?
Q. What is this indicating for my future? My boyfriend of over three years and I have been discussing marriage and babies for about a year now. And every time I tell him I want to work as well to bring in a second income and have only two or three ...
A. 4 February 2010: It's not stupid. He's being a... unkind person. You should tell him that his lack of support/willingness to comprise is hurtful. If he doesn't respond in a respectful/caring way, that's a bit of information right there. Also, make a pros and cons ... (read in full...)
What was so wrong with wanting to have a future with the man you love and discussing it?
Q. Me and my man have split up after a year together. I felt he didn't want the relationship to progress, and proved myself right eventually... i think? I can't get over it though. I couldn't understand why he never asked me as a plus 1 to a wedding ...
A. 2 February 2010: You're not wrong for wanting to start moving to another stage in the relationship after a year.
Although you spend some time together, his reluctance to bring you to official events could mean he doesn't take you seriously.
Have you aske... (read in full...)
Becoming more than friends...
Q. I have a friend of the opposite sex with whom I started having a 'friends with benefits' relationship. He's always been clear that we are not an item, however, we've started spending so much time together - we hang out at least 4 nights a week and ...
A. 2 February 2010: You should talk to him, but it does not seem like he will agree. You shouldn't continue being friends with benefits if he doesn't agree to start a real relationship; it will result in your feelings getting hurt.... (read in full...)
How do I win my wife back and keep our little family together?
Q. i just recently found out that my wife is having an affair. this is a guy she worked with 10 years ago. he now lives in las vegas. i over heard her tell him that she loves him. we live in va. they were together last weekend when she was supposed to ...
A. 2 February 2010: She doesn't want to be with you. You need to let her go. Get a divorce, and visitation/child support or custody of your daughter.... (read in full...)
I'm married, but I'm falling for a guy 17 years older than me!!
Q. I'm 26, and I'm married . Our relationship is pretty formal and not at its best. We barely have anything in common anymore and I'm not sure anymore what triggered this relationsihp in the first place... I met this older guy last year. He's 43 ye...
A. 2 February 2010: I also believe the older man just wants to have sex with you. Especially since he "left you alone" during your pregnancy. I think you should admit the fact that you cheated to your husband, and also that you don't know why you're with him anymore. ... (read in full...)
Is there more to him texting this girl than meets the eye?
Q. Me and my boyfriend been together for almost a year Now. I love him so much. He means the world to me. But we constantly argue, he says horrible things to me when we do. He apologizes but does it again. This the first time in my life I put up with ...
A. 2 February 2010: Let him go, you deserve better. There is only one reason he would deny texting her when he is, and you know it.... (read in full...)
Is he still emotionally attached to his past life?
Q. my boyfriend and I (been together for 1.5 yrs) were watching a sad movie last week and while watching it he was typing on his laptop. I looked over at one point and he was clearly crying, which he denied. I just wrote it off like it was maybe the ...
A. 2 February 2010: Well, he left it on the printer so it doesn't seem like he is making great strides to hide what he's feeling (although he denied crying). Maybe he wanted you to see it...
But, he is speaking negatively about he marriage. he may not have properly... (read in full...)
I want to be the MAIN person in his life, not the last person...
Q. I've been with this guy for 4 years, he's cheated on my in the past and that's all i worry about. he has so many chick friends, but i can't trust him and it sucks. it seems like he talks to them more then me. when we fight he just walks away and ...
A. 2 February 2010: If he can't be trusted, you should be with him. You deserve better, and you will find better.... (read in full...)
My girl and my best mate...
Q. Hello folks, i am an 18 yr old male from India. I have been in a relationship with this girl from past 2 yrs. It was really like a puppy love when it started. We both were madly in love with each other... But 6 months ago i had to shift in some...
A. 2 February 2010: Wow, that's terrible. There isn't much you can do. They didn't go from acquaintances to being in love over night. You shouldn't be friends or have contact with either of them. They were wrong, and in time you will get over it.... (read in full...)
My love for her is tearing me apart! What do I do?!
Q. What do I do? I split up with my fiance in July after she told me she was seeing another guy. The reason she started seeing this other guy is because I'd become really down as I'd just been told my Dad was terminally ill with cancer. (Just for the ...
A. 2 February 2010: You should leave her alone for awhile. If you do date, try to really give the other women a chance. It seems like you are completely convinced she is the only one for you, in which case, it is no wonder you're not clicking with anyone else...... (read in full...)
His secret admirer...
Q. hi guys, ok ive been in love with this guy in my year at school since last year but i was hoping that this year to give him a valentines card but the thing is im not ready to tell him i like him yet so i was just gunna put from ur secret admirer, ...
A. 2 February 2010: Hm... Does he have a desk? Or do you know where he lives? You could mail it without putting a return address... Or do an virtual card, lol. Make him one on your computer.... (read in full...)
Am I just his 'secret' friend...what's going on with this guy?
Q. theres this guy at school who already has a girlfriend and i think he fancies me. we met in the beginning of the school year in my science classes. we were forced to sit together so we got talking, music, likes, hobbies ect. small talk really. and ...
A. 31 January 2010: Intimate conversations at 13-15? I hope I'm just misunderstanding... I think that you should leave him alone. He has a girlfriend, but seems to want to keep you as an option on the side. Your feelings are fine, because you only see him as a fri... (read in full...)
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