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writes:Hi Iv Got A Big Problem. Im 18 Years Old Iv Been With My Boyfriend For 3 Years Now And We're Engaged And We Were Trying For A Baby. But... I Got A Text From A Old Friend Who I Blamed My Boyfriend For Cheating On Me With Her He Claimed It Was Just A Kiss But I Think It Was More Than That. Because My Old Friend Texted Me Saying Shes 9 And A Half Weeks Pregnant And She Said My Boyfriend Is The Dad Im So Hurt But I Dont Know Who To Believe He Said Its Not His Because He Hasn't Been Sleeping With Her. But His Mum Said That He's Been Sleeping With Her Over At His House Behind My Back And That He's The Dad. I Dont Know What To Do Or Who To Believe Because I Love Him So Much And I Dont Want To Be Without Him But I Wouldnt Be Able To Handle It If He Is The Dad And If He Did Cheat On Me Im So Confused. Please Help Me.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 February 2010):
He certainly could be. The chances of her lying are low since she must understand a DNA test can be done. That's the only way to be sure
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Sounds like he may be the Dad. Only a paternity test will confirm this, and you'll have to wait until AFTER the child is born before this can be done. Until then, are you prepared to sit quietly for 9 more months (give or take) and wait for the proof. Why don't you ask your b/f why his parents seem to think he's been sleeping with this gal if in fact he says he hasn't? Where would they get an notion like that from and what would motivate them to say this if it could be a lie? Maybe they are just hoping him and this girl gets together. Do they like you? At any rate, you may have no choice but to wait for the birth and insist on a blood test. But it's going to be a very l-o-n-g 9 months for you.
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reader, curious0hot  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 Only a paternity test will prove if he is or is not the father. I believe they can be performed (blood test) while she is pregnant, but I'm not sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2010): Stop trying for a baby with your boyfriend until the child of your friend has been born and you can have a DNA test to see that your boyfriend really isn't the father.
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