I've only slept with one person - Did he ever like me?
Q. Does telling a guy you've only slept with one other guy put him off you? Basically, I really liked this guy but I think that after telling him my inexperience, as he might see it, I don't think he's interested anymore. Do I see if it's potentially...
A. 9 June 2012: So he asked YOU if you've ever slept with anyone before? Hm...well...I am like you and not sure what to make of it either. Has he contacted you since? I think if you like him...call him up, ask him out, and have fun. Don't worry about this one ... (read in full...)
My six yr old son doesn't want to meet my new partner
Q. split with my ex 2 years ago and we have a lil lad of 6. When we split we agreed if we got with any one else we would meet the person b4 letting lad get involved. Ive met a lovely woman and have been with her 8mths. The ex and lad know bout her. ...
A. 9 June 2012: Even though he is 6, he knows this is someone he has to share with his dad. I would plan a fun day with you, your partner, and your son without telling him and that will ease him into meeting her. Maybe go to a park, zoo, sporting event, or ... (read in full...)
Could this hot banker like me and be making subtle moves on me?
Q. There is an amazing woman who is my personal banker and every time I go in to see her about my account (1x weekly but much more this past week)she is constantly twirling her hair, eyes flutter back and forth to my eyes but the question i really ...
A. 9 June 2012: I am not sure about drinks. I never like to have drinks with a man until I get to know him and trust him a bit (in case I need a ride home). Your call though. I think lunch would be good...maybe a pizza place or someplace fun...something low-key ... (read in full...)
Old flame from 33 years ago has written me, where do I want this to go?
Q. ok here goes, while in high school I was so in love with this guy, while we were super friends I don't think he really thought of me in the girlfriend way. After high school he went into the service. You have to understand I never forgot about him. ...
A. 9 June 2012: Why are you already jumping into a relationship with this man when all he did was email you? I don't know, but it seems very presumptuous to think that after 33 years you'd just jump back into a relationship with someone. Maybe he doesn't really ... (read in full...)
I've only slept with one person - Did he ever like me?
Q. Does telling a guy you've only slept with one other guy put him off you? Basically, I really liked this guy but I think that after telling him my inexperience, as he might see it, I don't think he's interested anymore. Do I see if it's potentially...
A. 9 June 2012: In all honesty, you probably scared him off by talking about your other sexual experiences. No one, male or female that I know of wants to hear about someone else's experiences. They want to have a unique experience with you. I mean, if he would ... (read in full...)
Am I scared to leave my lying cheating boyfriend?
Q. well me and my botfriend have been together about a year now well friends for six and well a couple weeks into our relationship he said he was going to an uncles house for a couple days. but he dont know i accidently read a text message from a girl ...
A. 9 June 2012: Everyone is afraid to leave at first. But, when you think about what kind of future you would have with a liar and a cheater...the answer is pretty clear. You need to leave him. If you don't, you are setting yourself up for more pain and ... (read in full...)
I'm embarassed that he rejected my friend request and acted like h didn't know me
Q. i met a guy in my college...my friends said that he liked me...he would stare at me often..we had many eye contacts and smile exchanges..bt we hadnt talkd.. i really wantd to be friends with him and even more... then our clases ended.. i sent him a ...
A. 8 June 2012: Apparently I am clueless when it comes to starting a relationship through the internet (Facebook). To me it seems extremely cheesy. If I wanted to date someone, I would call him on the phone and say "Hey, I met you at such-and-such event and ... (read in full...)
I hate myself for not being "in" love with him, advice please?
Q. i don't know what to do. i was with my boyfriend for 4 years then we broke up for 2years and are now back together. We broke up for numerous reasons but mainly cos he turned into a dick and was acting horrible. During the time we separated i was ...
A. 8 June 2012: This is an easy one. If you aren't happy...move on. If you are not in love...move on. Why would you hate yourself for not being in love with someone? Those feelings are telling you something and you should listen instead of getting wrapped up in ... (read in full...)
He says the cheating was a wake up call but now I'm scared he will do it again.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend Stuart for 5 months but recently we had a few problems. A couple of weeks ago a girl named katie added me on facebook, she is in my sisters year and I've heard she has a reputation and that she sleeps around. I was ...
A. 8 June 2012: When a guy kisses another girl it isn't a mistake. You don't kiss someone "on accident" or by mistake. I would find someone who respects you and wants to be WITH YOU. All of the other details about how long you talked and what all you said don't ... (read in full...)
Should I just be lending the money as a loving girlfriend and not expecting it back?
Q. Hi guys, can anyone help with this..........I've been with my partner for 2 and half years now and around 3 months ago I asked him to move in with me. It's my house, he was living with his parents. There is quite a pay disparity between us, I earn ...
A. 8 June 2012: You should absolutely NOT be lending him money, but you really should not have allowed him to move in with you until his finances are in order. I know love and romance often win out, but someone has to be able to take care of himself before he gets ... (read in full...)
I finally managed to get out of an unhappy relationship, so why am I missing him so much? Should I call him?
Q. Yesterday, I broke up with my boyfriend. After 2.5 years I just had enough. He never kissed, hugged me, asked about my day. He never made an effort to talk to me. I had fallen out of love. I admit for the first 2 years I did everything he asked ...
A. 8 June 2012: I thought mine would change for me too. Actually, not "change" but just be like he was the first few years we were together. I felt like he totally changed personalities after a few years. I know how devastating it can be. As you begin to see ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I get naked for this European guy online?
Q. I have been chatting with this guy in Europe for about six months now. I am VERY attracted to him and I think he feels the same way. We always have great chats and make each other laugh. He constantly tells me how beautiful and perfect I am and that ...
A. 8 June 2012: You have never met this guy and can't trust anything he says. Never send any pictures of yourself, let alone naked ones, to anyone. If you send them via the internet, which you have, they remain there forever. For all you know he could be putting ... (read in full...)
He lost interest, so I ended things. Will he miss me?
Q. So that guy I met on the internet over 6 months ago, ( we meet once ) has really really liked me but then he kinda seemed uninterested, (but we were still talking) in last few weeks so I said that I'm ending things with him as I'm tired of feeling ...
A. 8 June 2012: I agree with CaringGuy. Sorry to say. Been in that same situation...I feel for you.... (read in full...)
Could this hot banker like me and be making subtle moves on me?
Q. There is an amazing woman who is my personal banker and every time I go in to see her about my account (1x weekly but much more this past week)she is constantly twirling her hair, eyes flutter back and forth to my eyes but the question i really ...
A. 8 June 2012: Good grief, does this woman have to take off her clothes and dance on her desk too? Would that be obvious enough? Any woman who touches you is very much interested. You'd better go for it before she loses interest. If I put the energy into ... (read in full...)
B/f has domestic charges and child endagerment against him. Should I be concerned?
Q. I have a new boyfriend that I have been dating for a few months now. He's really nice to me and treats me well. He recently told me that he has a domestic violence conviction. He tells me it was a male roommate who he got into a fight with. After he ...
A. 8 June 2012: Wow, are you seriously asking this question? Not to be disrespectful, but listen to yourself. Let me start with the most insignificant part of this post...that he drinks a lot of beer. Men drink beer in my presence, but as a woman, I am not ... (read in full...)
He cheated, and lied about it; I need advice!
Q. So last year my partner cheated so let me just start from there. Last April we were having difficultys in our relationship and we grew distant although we remained intimate and had sex things seemed off with us. Following that we had a night out he ...
A. 8 June 2012: If you feel he is being honest and he is doing everything in his power to make up for cheating, then I would drop it. But, if you are like me, the question will always be there in your mind over whether he will do it again. That is a hard ... (read in full...)
Fight for something we both can see coming to an end? Could it change?
Q. How do you let go when you cant? ive had my fair share of idiot boyfriends in the past but this is is lovely, weve been together for a year and a half and he is lovely, kind, sexy and gorgeous, he treats me like a princess and i know he feels th...
A. 8 June 2012: If you already feel that he thinks the relationship is a chore, it's time to say goodbye. I know that is blunt to say, but it's true. My boyfriend did the same thing. It was emotionally exhausting for me to be with someone who didn't even act ... (read in full...)
He has ignored me for five days, what do I do if he comes back?
Q. Help please . After a row my man has ignored me for five days so i've assumed we're done. He hasnt done this for a while but in past has come back . I'm not texting him any more but i dont get it as even after the row he said didn want to end but ...
A. 7 June 2012: I agree with Anonymous. Not communicating with someone for 5 days is not good if you're in a relationship. I really don't understand posters who say "make sure you treat him nice and be friendly and make sure you don't accuse him of anything". I ... (read in full...)
Should I send him this text telling him I like him?
Q. Hey guys! So this isn't really a problem, I just need some advice. I started talking to this guy a few weeks ago. It was apparent that he liked me. He kept saying he missed me, called me babe a lot, asked me to send him pics of me, etc. one day he ...
A. 7 June 2012: Give him a call and ask him out. You need to be direct and open with him. I think you are being vague, so he is also being vague in return. Treat him like you would want to be treated and go with it.... (read in full...)
I called her and told her I was done with this 'crush' on her. Opinions?
Q. Ok recently I realised that I'm in love with a friend I've been crazy about for months... The problem though, is that we're not together and that kills me... She claims to be crazy about me too... I mean before our first date she told me she wan...
A. 7 June 2012: I agree with HoneyPie...people pull away for a reason...regardless of what the reason really is. Maybe she does have someone else...if she does...she is doing you a favor and not leading you on. People who really want to be together don't play ... (read in full...)
He cheated, and lied about it; I need advice!
Q. So last year my partner cheated so let me just start from there. Last April we were having difficultys in our relationship and we grew distant although we remained intimate and had sex things seemed off with us. Following that we had a night out he ...
A. 7 June 2012: I agree with the others. Have an honest conversation with him and stay off Facebook! Facebook has caused more trouble with my friends and family than I care to admit. Deal with people and ask questions directly. I would ask why he has this stuff ... (read in full...)
I am feeling really neglected by my boyfriend and I'm not sure whether I should cut my losses now, or whether there is anything I can do to change this situation because I do love him.
Q. Basically I am feeling really neglected by my boyfriend and I'm not sure whether I should cut my losses now, or whether there is anything I can do to change this situation because I do love him. I am 26 (he is 24 so maybe it's because he's younger?) ...
A. 7 June 2012: I went through this two years ago and it wasn't any fun. My advice would be to move on. I tried talking to my ex about this in a responsible manner and he either ignored me or told me that all I did was complain. Yet, he could barely give me 5 ... (read in full...)
I finally managed to get out of an unhappy relationship, so why am I missing him so much? Should I call him?
Q. Yesterday, I broke up with my boyfriend. After 2.5 years I just had enough. He never kissed, hugged me, asked about my day. He never made an effort to talk to me. I had fallen out of love. I admit for the first 2 years I did everything he asked ...
A. 7 June 2012: I know how you feel being emotionally exhausted. When you get to that point, it is time to say goodbye. Sometimes people "check out" of relationships. I thought my ex would have the decency to talk with me too, but the fact is, talking doesn't ... (read in full...)
I finally managed to get out of an unhappy relationship, so why am I missing him so much? Should I call him?
Q. Yesterday, I broke up with my boyfriend. After 2.5 years I just had enough. He never kissed, hugged me, asked about my day. He never made an effort to talk to me. I had fallen out of love. I admit for the first 2 years I did everything he asked ...
A. 7 June 2012: I was in a situation similar to this and know how you feel. My ex never looked on sites or anything like that...he just blatantly ignored me after 7 years. You left a bad relationship, but you really cared about him. Sometimes we find we care or ... (read in full...)
Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!
Q. Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...
A. 6 June 2012: Unfortunately, I have had the same experience as you. I guess it is called "having a relationship but expecting a man to do absolutely nothing". I have to laugh at some of the posts on here, and I realize this is a little old, but I always thought ... (read in full...)
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