Does his Porn Past matter?
Q. Hi Cupids here’s one for you. I’ve been chatting to a guy for a few weeks on Snapchat and I really fancy him loads, but he’s just confessed that he used to be a porn star. We met in a club a few weeks ago, swapped details and have been chatting al...
A. 24 August 2021: I would be suspicious first thing, that porn story may be possible, but how would all the porn company's know about 1 guys dick size?? they have a line of people trying to get in, but maybe, If he is what he says, you should look at the up sides and ... (read in full...)
15 yr old Daughter completely cut me out of her life without even a hint why.
Q. Need some advice from the aunts, I hate these problems that you have to try and squeeze into a box, cause there's so much more to it, but I couldn't possibly address it in its entirety but leaving anything out u may not get the whole gist of it, so ...
A. 6 March 2018: Hello everyone, I had a little time and thought I'd jump on here, yes I'm still sober,yes still going to a shrink,the intense guilt has seemed to subside, something I wasn't able to touch on or make clear in this whole situation, and I'd like a few ... (read in full...)
15 yr old Daughter completely cut me out of her life without even a hint why.
Q. Need some advice from the aunts, I hate these problems that you have to try and squeeze into a box, cause there's so much more to it, but I couldn't possibly address it in its entirety but leaving anything out u may not get the whole gist of it, so ...
A. 10 May 2017: I understand, believe me,I don't understand why it would be her mother's responsibility to inform her of my history of battling substance abuse? Perhaps when she's older and inquires into it, but then I'd figure she would probably just ask me, as I ... (read in full...)
15 yr old Daughter completely cut me out of her life without even a hint why.
Q. Need some advice from the aunts, I hate these problems that you have to try and squeeze into a box, cause there's so much more to it, but I couldn't possibly address it in its entirety but leaving anything out u may not get the whole gist of it, so ...
A. 25 April 2017: I knew this wouldn't come across properly, so I have more then excepted my part of being a shit show, that's just it, her and I regardless of what we went through stayed thick as a rock, we had lots of good times and fun, and it was never at a place ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 20 December 2015: Hello everyone,its been 6 years, I pulled some very immature shit going through this breakup, I'd never felt the type of pain I felt during this, but she got a big promotion I'm her job, and almost acts like she's better then me, this truly ruined ... (read in full...)
How do black people find positivity in a world that seems to hate them?
Q. I'm black and every week I come across a video or article that commentators summarize as "black people are savage, Africans are worthless and the worst thing on the planet". I want to know how other black people find positivity in a world that hates ...
A. 25 October 2015: Im white, Irish, and the only time I feel funny or weird around black people is when it's made a deal that im around black people, outside of that, I dont feel any different then I do around anyone else, you know why, cause the powers that be want ... (read in full...)
How do I diplomatically bring up the issue of her lying?
Q. hello. can anyone give me advice on how to deal with my lying girlfriend? we've been together for over a year now and she's never been the lying type, but i've got some proof that recently, she's been lying to me about something (not too major)....
A. 19 December 2013: You just said it's nothing major, then why beat it to death? is it worth harping on her about it until she starts to get irritated, then she will never be honest with you, cause she'll be scared of being irritated to death, if it's no big deal, stop ... (read in full...)
Would you romantically date a co worker even if it was against employer policy?
Q. I work at a school where most of the teachers are female and many are single. As a single male I'm attracted to a few of them but I never show interest or do or say anything to alert them to my interest. 1 of these teachers has invited me to her h...
A. 19 December 2013: Not if you like your job I wouldn't, you shouldn't even talk to these women, you should restrict your dialog to one of the 3 options I post below, A. Hello, B. How Are You(Optional) C. Goodbye, never dip your pen in company ink, you'll do whatever ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from ex are really confusing me.
Q. A confusing scenario, probably simply answered by you guys, and girls, one of my ex girlfriends, who absolutely without a doubt does not want to be with me any longer, has moved on, but shows up when her and her mom or her boyfriend get into an ...
A. 29 August 2012: No, I am more then able to do this, I have just never been struck with this kind of situation before, and I get what you all are saying, I was just very confused that somebody who claimed they didn't still like me, could sleep over and snuggle, and ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from ex are really confusing me.
Q. A confusing scenario, probably simply answered by you guys, and girls, one of my ex girlfriends, who absolutely without a doubt does not want to be with me any longer, has moved on, but shows up when her and her mom or her boyfriend get into an ...
A. 27 August 2012: So how do I steer this either way? say I do still like her, is there anyway to take this back to the middle ground? does this have any evidence that I have any way to win her back over? that I still have the power, or am in a place that she can be ... (read in full...)
I love him but he's selfish and lazy. Why does he behave this way?
Q. I love my boyfriend, but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to really eat at me. While he constantly reminds that he loves me, I don't feel he does or cares about me. He doesn't seem at all concerned with what I might need or want, ...
A. 24 August 2012: Some people are lazy, and unmotivated, some guys do not know how to be good boyfriends, some guys are selfish because they do not know how to not be selfish, I know I have had to work my ass off to just do stupid little things that are apparently ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend is a professional liar and cheat. How do I tell both new ladies about each other, without leading back to me?
Q. I am an ex of boyfriend who is professional liar and cheater... I left him after 18 months, but then I was shocked to accidently find secret accounts, dating site membership. Membership to secret email...(he left his IPAD open accidently in bathroom...
A. 24 August 2012: Professional Liars and Cheaters are under contract, you cannot interfere with this, it isn't possible, just as u can not interfere with professional police officers, or firefighters, they are doing their jobs, and you should not interfere with them, ... (read in full...)
How can an ex lover and ex Boyfriend successfully become a friend? Or am I wasting my time caring about him?
Q. I have a Ex-boyfriend who I still have feelings for AND miss. When I first started him he was very generous AND kind as he still is. I was scared to get too close to him because we were very different with out race, religion, AND race. From p...
A. 24 August 2012: You must've been in a hurry when you typed this? I think I got most of it though, why are you torturing yourself? that's all your doing, does he need to put it up on a billboard? he is not interested in you anymore, and it sounds like he probably ... (read in full...)
My social anxiety and loneliness is killing me... Any advice?
Q. I just feel so alone right now. So tired of seeing happy couples everywhere I go. I feel like all I need right now is a girlfriend who I can share my life with. Sure this reeks of desperation but I can't hide the truth. It seems like all the ta...
A. 24 August 2012: Hey bro, you need to chill seriously, 16 years old and you seem semi intelligent, so if I give you some advice, and it's not the advice you want, will you be mature and intelligent enough to keep it in mind, and even though it's not what you want to ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from ex are really confusing me.
Q. A confusing scenario, probably simply answered by you guys, and girls, one of my ex girlfriends, who absolutely without a doubt does not want to be with me any longer, has moved on, but shows up when her and her mom or her boyfriend get into an ...
A. 24 August 2012: That blew my mind, when you mentioned she still has some sort of control over my dating life, I never put to much thought into that, let me tell you something, the guy she was seeing was split up with his wife, me and his wife met(by shear fate and ... (read in full...)
My twin sister and I are dating twin brothers. Is that weird?
Q. We are identical twins and the guys we are with (4 months) are identical twins and we only just found out because we hadn't met each other's boyfriends before and I'm not sure what we all think of it. It's a bit strange. What should we do?...
A. 30 July 2012: No I have 3 friends or should i say sets of friends, who are all twins, it's not weird at all, it's pretty cool, but the one set of my friends who dated twin girls, ended in one thing, and id watch out for it, the guys eventually trying to get you ... (read in full...)
I joined a badminton club to make friends, but none of them are interested in being my friend. I could use some help!
Q. Hello, This is my third semester at college. During my first semester, I was so busy I didn't have time to make friends. So to fix that, I joined a club for the 2nd semester, hoping I can find people to befriend. The club I joined was a badmin...
A. 27 July 2012: What kind of friends are you looking for? I'm not making light of your question, but to make friends is kind of like meeting someone you fall in love with to me, when you go out looking to make friends, it's the same as if you go out trying t... (read in full...)
I need to move forward but don't want to hurt my husband
Q. The one thing that is so diff. B/w me and My husband is he wants material things to make him happy. Always has. Yet these things just create more work for him that stresses him. I get happy from the close moments doing nothing that requires $. My ...
A. 24 July 2012: your last post almost changes the entire dynamic, counseling, plain and simple, it is THE ONLY!! thing that's going to fix this kind of deep rooted problem, this goes way beyond anything you can fix yourself, i promise you that, if you cant talk him ... (read in full...)
When will these feelings for my ex go away?
Q. Why Is this happening to me? I hate my life:(. Mature answers please? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 15 months ago. I loved him so much, I thought we were in love cause of the way he cared about me. All my friends and family thought ...
A. 23 July 2012: You didn't get turned on, that is EXCELLENT! because that tells you that you truly are over him, your just not finished thinking about him all the time, cause you need to give yourself somebody else, even if it's just to get laid, you have been ... (read in full...)
I need to move forward but don't want to hurt my husband
Q. The one thing that is so diff. B/w me and My husband is he wants material things to make him happy. Always has. Yet these things just create more work for him that stresses him. I get happy from the close moments doing nothing that requires $. My ...
A. 23 July 2012: Biblical teachings?? what the hell does any of this have to do with your being happy? sounds like your husband works his ass off, and enjoys the rewards from his hard work, what because he doesn't slap on a robe, and some sandals, and head out into ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 7 January 2010: Well I ended up doing the typical ball less thing, I tried to make it work, when I knew i shouldnt be, we broke up, and a week and a half later she nailed her boss in the back of his jeep 2 houses down from her own, (wonderful first time) but I ... (read in full...)
Women's feelings about "needing time"
Q. i cant really make this clear, because im not seeking a clear answer, i just want a generalization from female members, what are reasons for a girl telling a man she wants time to work on herself? I ask because ive recently had a neighbor with whom ...
A. 16 December 2009: Last night I guess he finally pinned her down, he hadnt heard from her in days, and he said they talked for like 2 hours, and he felt normal again, and when he went to hug her, she like jumped back away from him, he's fking flipping out, these guys ... (read in full...)
Drug problems broke us up but I still think of him
Q. Three months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. He has problems with drug abuse and told me he was just going to ruin my life. I love him so much and I keep hoping he is going to change one day and things will work out between us. I can't seem to get ...
A. 15 September 2009: You don't put much info! can't tell if he just used his drug addiction as a scapegoat to get out of the relationship, most people arent strong enough to let go of someone in fear of hurting them, and especially not drug addicts, they are the top ... (read in full...)
Where can I find Mormon girls willing to have sex before marriage?
Q. Ok, so I'm a 24 year old Mormon guy. I'm not the best Mormon guy, but I do want to get married in the Mormon Temple. It is what it is. I started having sex when I was 20, and I have been with a number of girls that are Mormon as well, and I have ...
A. 10 September 2009: Are you serious??? Try any mormon girl here in the big UTAH!! most hardcore mormon girls were knocked up and dropped out before graduation from high school, dude, almost 80% of the population are mormon, go outside, blindfold yourself, spin around 3 ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 31 August 2009: Well you guys it's almost been a month, things seemed getting better as I worked away, Ive kind of broken the crust of what is going on, my girlfriend has an amazingly low esteem, it seems her boss, (who makes a helava lot more then I do) has been ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 31 July 2009: No your very right Grimm! one thing, I wasnt showing up at her work, I was just picking her up, since I used her car to drive 100miles to where my job was(my truck get 4 mpg)she knew I was outside waiting, he didnt!! that's why it was great! but you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 30 July 2009: Sorry I havent posted an update sooner, Well, I gave her till Sunday, and she woke me up Sunday at 5am, to tell me, she tried to tell me sooner, but I wouldnt let her, I told her to make sure to take the whole time, that way it's thought through ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 25 July 2009: I just needed some time to think! Im not usually so quick to blame myself about shit, I was mostly mad at myself, because right or wrong, she stuck with me through some very immature B.S., I was with her so long, I took her for granted, I told her ... (read in full...)
How can I make my penis bigger without pills?
Q. is there any way to make your dick bigger without pills or nothin that costs alot of money? like naturally really im fourteen and my dick is a litte over five inches hard two inches wide. is that normal size? if not how do you make it bigger? ...
A. 24 July 2009: Are you ready bro? you cant! there is a surgeon in Beverly Hills, that does a process that actually sounds logical, but it's a girth operation, (which is what I want)I dont want any extra length! what good is that? I just want it to be as thick as ... (read in full...)
I feel addicted to sex... How much is too much?
Q. my boyfriend and i have sex constantly. Its my wanting to most of the time. But he doesn't want to sometimes because he says we have sex every day. I'm just always in the mood when it comes to him. Am i addicted to sex? I feel like i need it ...
A. 24 July 2009: I don't think theres a set amount, somedays I find I want it nonstop, don't look at it as a bad thing! ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 23 July 2009: I told her I was interested in a girl that has been trying desperatly to win me over, Im not interested in her, although she's hot, and seems cool, and I'll admit seeing how bad she want's me is a huge head turner, but Im not interested in getting ... (read in full...)
Why do guys stop making an effort after being in a relationship for a while?
Q. Can someone tell me why over time guys stop giving you compliments and other things like that? I've been with my boyfriend for over 9 months and I know he loves me but he's stop giving me compliments and never does x's on his texts when I tex...
A. 22 July 2009: I dont believe it's just guys that stop putting forth the effort! I believe girls hold relationships to a much higher degree then men do, I know from experience, what a girl wants out of a relationship, and what a guy wants are generally two ... (read in full...)
I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but I'm never in the mood!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have the best relationship... except I don't want to have sex anymore. I feel terrible about this, I really do love him. I like having sex with him, but I'm never in the mood. I'm only 23 so I shouldn't ...
A. 22 July 2009: Be very careful, I don't know why you personally are going through this, but I know in my own relationship, my girlfriend stopped having sex with me, well she would have it when I would ask for it, but it was bland, and dull, and she would claim to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 22 July 2009: My daughter is almost 8, even through all this B.S., we don't really fight very much, we have stern conversations, away from her, she is very happy, that's one of the points to our relationship, we have been in some blazers, but 95% of the time, we ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 22 July 2009: I appreciate the fast response as I have been sitting here dwelling a good portion of the evening!I guess I left out a few details, you see I have a lot of confidence issues, I didnt have the first clue how to treat her the first 6 or 7 years we ... (read in full...)
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