I'm in love with my married best friend
Q. I am in love with a married women who happens to be my best friend. we have had a kiss and have had some touching but then we plan things and then when her and her husband have an argument she tells him. he is too forgiving but last time when we had ...
A. 15 June 2014: I'm sorry but in my book, married means "off limits".
I don't care how unhappy, etc. a person is in a marriage. It's not when they mentally 'check out' on their spouse, or no longer are 'in love' it is when they have a divorce decree in hand is w... (read in full...)
A cautionary tale for me?
Q. I am even further disillusioned by this thing called love. My back story is: I am 53, divorced for 4.5 years. No kids. Was married for 12 years, together for 16. My ex cheated on me and left me for another woman. He never showed any remor...
A. 14 June 2014: @Cindycares
"But what 's important is , that you got away basically intact."
Yes, yes basically, I did. Thank God.
"I understand that you may miss your in - laws."
Yes I do (or at least did). From the moment my Ex asked me for a div... (read in full...)
A cautionary tale for me?
Q. I am even further disillusioned by this thing called love. My back story is: I am 53, divorced for 4.5 years. No kids. Was married for 12 years, together for 16. My ex cheated on me and left me for another woman. He never showed any remor...
A. 13 June 2014: @ Cindycares "You are reproaching your ex in laws because they choose pleasing their own son over pleasing you ?... It may not be morally right, it may be objectionable, but- it is what happens almost always ( unless maybe the son is really a soci... (read in full...)
A cautionary tale for me?
Q. I am even further disillusioned by this thing called love. My back story is: I am 53, divorced for 4.5 years. No kids. Was married for 12 years, together for 16. My ex cheated on me and left me for another woman. He never showed any remor...
A. 13 June 2014: Thank you all for the responses.
@ Mark
"If push came to shove would you move auntie in with you if she had to be looked after?"
Yes. The offer has already been made. I am in a different state than her and her two children, and 2 grandchild... (read in full...)
When do I tell me no sex without marriage?
Q. If I have made the decision for my life, not to have sexual relations unless I am married. Then when is a fair time to let a man know that this is what I am considering? I have no problems or hang ups with an exciting, adventurous sex life, after ...
A. 6 August 2012: Thanks to all for the responses. I can take something away from each of them.
Cerberus-
I STILL believe there is a 'land' between platonic and sexual relations called
"Romance"!
That would mean, to me, dating, holding hands, hugging, ... (read in full...)
Seriously considering having an affair.
Q. I'll get straight to the point. I am very seriously considering having an affair. My husband has turned into a complete dead fish in the bedroom. He used to be very excited about me, he used to love to touch me, kiss me, lick me, sleep with me. He ...
A. 9 July 2012: I think you should check out this TV show:
Unfaithful: stories of betrayal
on OWN network.
So far, I haven't heard any stories about how an affair was a good thing. Granted these stories are focusing on how the couples reconcile.
i w... (read in full...)
Shattered that it could happen to me twice.
Q. I'm new here. I'm 51 and divorced. This is really for the more mature crowd. I would really like to figure out how this could have happened to me, twice now. My background is I married at 36 and my husband left me, for another woman after 16 y...
A. 29 June 2012: Thanks for all the responses. This site has exceeded my expectations. The responses are not just insightful but carefully crafted. No one is curt or dismissive. And you are willing to give the necessary 'reality checks' when needed. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of five years has just left me and I feel like I just lost a huge part of me.
Q. Hello. My serious boyfriend of five years has just left me. Its hard to believe in true love, soul mates and fate, since I thought he was my knight in shining armor. I don't know. I feel so betrayed. He gave up. He let us die without so much of...
A. 29 June 2012: Hi-
I feel for you. I remember the hope that I had in my twenties. And the terrible disappointment. If it is done for good, then we must assume it wasn't meant to be, because he would have recognized what a treasure you are.
You did the righ... (read in full...)
Shattered that it could happen to me twice.
Q. I'm new here. I'm 51 and divorced. This is really for the more mature crowd. I would really like to figure out how this could have happened to me, twice now. My background is I married at 36 and my husband left me, for another woman after 16 y...
A. 29 June 2012: @BondGirl72 thanks so much for the response. I am not looking to be validated as much as all opinions out there. But I do thank you for seeing that I am not 'mental'. I rescue/foster cats for a national org. I give 'till it hurts' and have be... (read in full...)
Shattered that it could happen to me twice.
Q. I'm new here. I'm 51 and divorced. This is really for the more mature crowd. I would really like to figure out how this could have happened to me, twice now. My background is I married at 36 and my husband left me, for another woman after 16 y...
A. 29 June 2012: Forgive me OP, I really mean no offence by this and I don't say it make you feel bad but your post makes you sound like a bitter, religious, crazy cat lady. Sorry but that's how it sounds. One of those ladies who who shakes their fists at the ... (read in full...)
Shattered that it could happen to me twice.
Q. I'm new here. I'm 51 and divorced. This is really for the more mature crowd. I would really like to figure out how this could have happened to me, twice now. My background is I married at 36 and my husband left me, for another woman after 16 y...
A. 29 June 2012: Well, I appreciate your response Fatherly. What I bring to the table is an extremely strong, independent personality in a woman. My mother killed herself when I was 5. My father died in my care when I was 40. I have never had the luxury of having... (read in full...)
Can you fall in love with someone over the phone?
Q. Is it possible to fall in love with someone you havent met in person yet?? I feel I have fell in love with my soulmate! We talk on the phone all the time but with our schedules not meeting up is the only thing that is keeping us apart! Not to me...
A. 28 June 2012: I can't believe that I have to say this began to happen to me twice, with similar results.
Two old college friends contacted me (1.5 yrs apart) and each of them expressed their love for me, and how I was 'special'. Calling every couple days, in t... (read in full...)
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