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writes:i met a guy in my college...my friends said that he liked me...he would stare at me often..we had many eye contacts and smile exchanges..bt we hadnt talkd.. i really wantd to be friends with him and even more... then our clases ended.. i sent him a friend request on facebook in order to knw him better..bt to my surprise,not only did he reject it,he also messagd me(through facebook) that-"who r u?do you knw me"...i hav been very confusd since..my friends say that he is jst trying to act cool... bt i am hurt..i hav a feeling of unworthiness since.. i tried really hard to move on,bt failed.. i jst dnt knw wht to do.. pls help me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou so much guys for your sugestns...:):)
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (8 June 2012):
 Apparently I am clueless when it comes to starting a relationship through the internet (Facebook). To me it seems extremely cheesy. If I wanted to date someone, I would call him on the phone and say "Hey, I met you at such-and-such event and wanted to know if you wanted to catch a movie or something." Yeah, I don't consider Facebook a fun place to be. I've said this before, but Facebook has caused more problems with my friends and family than I care to mention and they keep going back for more! If you talk to him on the phone and he still doesn't know who you are, I would leave him alone. If a guy likes you, he shouldn't play cool...he should be willing and eager to go out with you.
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reader, grymsoul +, writes (8 June 2012):
 Um, it might be a simple thing as WHAT your facebook pic was at the time you sent the friend request. You did say that you and him never talked so maybe you guys haven't had a proper face-to-face yet. He probably didn't recognize the pic of the person that was sending him a request. Also there's the other option of it wasn't him who logged on to his account. I've been hacked so many times on facebook, it doesn't surprise me anymore. Maybe he has a female friend who knows his password. Maybe she wants to know who exactly is this girl trying to send him a friend request. Maybe she's trying to get rid of the competition before it starts.There's so many reasons besides him not liking you that could explain this situation. The point is. TALK to him. Facebook isn't really reliable for getting to know someone on a personal level.
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