I want to talk to her but am afraid of looking desperate and getting friendzoned
Q. Hey guys... Another dilemma here. There's this friend of mine I have some feelings for but the past couple of days I've really been doubting myself and any chance of a relationship. I want to talk to her but I feel like I'll just end up looking ...
A. 17 February 2014: Oh ok! Well it still sounds promising. I agree to let graduation pass first and see how the moving state thing works out. But do listen to your instinct, if its time to tell her then tell her but if you feel better waiting it out do so! I've learnt ... (read in full...)
I want to talk to her but am afraid of looking desperate and getting friendzoned
Q. Hey guys... Another dilemma here. There's this friend of mine I have some feelings for but the past couple of days I've really been doubting myself and any chance of a relationship. I want to talk to her but I feel like I'll just end up looking ...
A. 15 February 2014: It's good that your friends, you should feel able to talk to her about this. I have a lot of guy friends as I find them much easier to get along with than girls and I know if any of them started to have feelings for me and told me, even if I didn't ... (read in full...)
So what is wrong with me and is there any way I can change this or at least become happier?
Q. Dear anonymous, I am writing to you because I can't deal with the pain and constant change of emotions I am currently going through. I cannot fully remember the last time I was truly happy. I am however taking my a levels which I realise is adding ...
A. 10 February 2014: Oh honey. I know how you are feeling. My A levels were just a horrendous stressful time. I actually flat out failed all of my subjects from the first year of college because I let a stupid college boy break my heart. During my second year I turned ... (read in full...)
Do you think he might like me? Or do you think he still likes the other girl? Why on Earth did he tell me he's interested in her if he did all of those nice things for me?
Q. I've know of this guy for 3 years through a girlfriend of mine. I began speaking to him on facebook recently and I mentioned to him I had a recent breakup. As soon as I told him this, he came to see me for the weekend because he said he wanted to ...
A. 10 February 2014: Well he clearly likes you as a friend, enough to want to cheer you up when you were feeling down which is nice. He might of done those nice things for you because he felt like you needed a friend and he might have been looking for someone to talk to ... (read in full...)
Flirting tips anyone?
Q. What are some helpful successful flirting tips for a shy girl without coming off as stupid, desperate, or anything else bad?... I have never I dated. I tend to say dumb thinks whenever around a guy I like. I've been asked by the wrong guys. I ne...
A. 10 February 2014: I've always been shy and I have had no problem chatting to guys, my friends have said I am a natural flirt even though I am quite reserved. This is because I have no idea I'm flirting and that's the point. Just be yourself. I'm not sure if you ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend wants me back should I get back with him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were dating in 2012 we were a really sweet couple all my friends taught we were a great couple. Then I dumped him because I caught him saying:" I love you and I want you back" to another girl in my estate. I asked him why he did ...
A. 26 March 2013: You are a young, fun, gorgeous girl! Don't get too caught up in heavy situations!
I would say you did the right thing by dropping him as soon as you caught him saying choice words to another girl, just because he's on his best behaviour doesn't mean... (read in full...)
Is there a good way to break staring at each other without it becoming awkward?
Q. I sit next to the girl i like in one of my lessons and a lot of times during the lesson i see her looking at me. When i look at her there would be about 5 seconds of staring and she would smile and her eyes would start to sparkle. I wanted to know ...
A. 3 November 2012: I can see how this could become awkward. She seems to like you and if you like her then next time you catch her staring just smile back at her and cut the whole 5 second staring thing!
Try to avoid the eye contact if you're finding it really a... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend.....
Q. Hey, I'm 15, and I want a boyfriend. I don't want any of that "you're too young" sh*t. Just give me nice answers :). Ok, so I'm home-schooled, and I only know 3-4 guys, one's Wayy too young (he's like 10), one likes me but just as a friend (which I...
A. 19 July 2012: Hi,
Well it's perfectly normal to want a boyfriend, I guess romantic interest is everywhere these days and this has influenced you. But the thing you need to realise is that you can't jsut click you fingers and get a boyfriend. You really must wai... (read in full...)
What is the truth behind my FWB's behaviour? Does he want more?
Q. We talked on the phone on and off for 2 years and abit more before we met in person. Been seeing eachother for a few months so far at times. We established we only wanted friendship before we met. It was a FWB relationship and I wanted it to remain ...
A. 19 July 2012: Hi,
This sounds like a guy that wants to have his cake and eat it. Basically friends with benefits never ends well and there is always some hurt involved. You obviously care about this person even just as a friend because you have posted this que... (read in full...)
My complicated love life? Or is it Lust? I need help please to sort this out.
Q. i started talking to this guy from my old school that i have a crush on well used to now, we texted And inboxed each other on facebook. i started saying i had a crush on him he said he did too , then i started sending him naked pics of my self ...
A. 19 July 2012: This is a no brainer.
Stay with the guy who wants you for you. The friends with benefits guy won't stick around, and you are risking losing a great relationship just because of him. I think you have taken the situation far out of hand by cheating... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriends sister affecting our relationship? What do I say?
Q. Okay, I'm sorry if this is long.. but I'm really confused. Basically, my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. I am totally and completely in love with him, I can't stay mad at him for longer that a minute, but lately.. something has been ...
A. 19 July 2012: Hi, Well I know that if I lived with my sister I would always put her first. So maybe this is what your boyfriend is thinking. I don't think this is affecting your relationship, I think it is just affecting you. Although I do see where your comin... (read in full...)
How can we make it?
Q. so i have this lttle problem , ive been talking to this girl for awhile now about(2months) and i really like her.I met her in my delayed entry program for the Navy. but the thing is she leaves in about 5 weeks for bootcamp and i actually leave in ...
A. 19 July 2012: Hi,
Make the most of the time you have together, if the attraction is still strong for both parties then you can make it work. I'm guessing your both passionate about your careers and because your both working in the same environment you probably... (read in full...)
I felt a strong connection the minute we met and touched. What is this?
Q. I met this guy and I felt an strong instant connection when he looked at me and I shook his hand it was strange but warm, I have never felt this way before. I feek overwhelmed inside when I think of him as well he have a similar nationality and our ...
A. 19 July 2012: Chemistry.
A spark between two people when you find the other attractive. Why don't you try to get to know him and see how it goes. Do you feel attracted to this guy?
Xo xo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems putt-off by me looking at other girls. Advice please!
Q. This is kind of a silly circumstance, but I'd really like some help. My boyfriemd and I have been together for about ten months. I love him very much and do see some sort of future together. However, I do 'notice' other people (guys and girls be...
A. 19 July 2012: Hi, Maybe you need to reassure your boyfriend a little more. I believe it is more common in relationships for someone to become upset because their partner is looking at other girls or boys, some feel like their partners eyes are wandering conseq... (read in full...)
Can you go from friends with benefits back to being friends again?
Q. Can you go from friends with benefits back to being friends again? We have known each other years, from school, but only spoke on line since. Then ended up sleeping together a couple of times recently. But then I said no more, as I am not oppose o...
A. 19 July 2012: Hey,
I think it all depends on the guy if i'm honest. Some like to think that you own you just because they've slept with you and if they clikc their fingers you'll come runnning back for more. Your guy however has shown that he can be decent a... (read in full...)
Is he into me or just using me?
Q. I'm seeing this cop and i really like him. i have strong feelings for this cop. he knows that i care about him a lot and he says that he cares and feels the same. we talk to each other every day until he gets off work. is he playing me and just ...
A. 19 July 2012: Hi,
Well if he claims he is not ready for a relationship maybe he is suggesting that all he is getting out of you is fun. Don't commit yourself to someone with your feelings if they are not prepared to do the same back for you. It's unfair, ... (read in full...)
He chose a girl over his two best friends!
Q. My best friend (J) is beginning to like the girl that my other best friend (R) recently broke up with. It's only been a month, she was single now, and my bud J made the move. He doesn't notice how much R is hurt by all of this, and continues to make ...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
I knnow he has been your friend for a long time and I guess you and R miss him and are upset with his actions but things like this do happen frequently. J probably knows he was in the wrong approaching a friends ex so soon but he obviousl... (read in full...)
How do I control this constant urge to shop online when I'm upset?
Q. Hey everyone I am 23 years old,my problem may not seem that big but its annoying me a lot lately..its not a relationship problem but you guys have been soo good with your answers that I thought I cld use some help! So here it is..I have a constant...
A. 18 July 2012: Hey,
I guess everyone has a comforter when stress is involved, a common one is chocolate.
Try to replace it with something else, instead of giving into stress with retail therapy try getting rid of the stress straight away. Yoga is a common solut... (read in full...)
I gave him my virginity and then he said he wasn't into me!
Q. okay so I had sex with this huy for the first time. And it was at my house and it was a very special cause he took my virginity. So anyways after that we were talking and we did it again but at his house. So the next day I told him we should stop ...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
I am also sorry that this happened to you but it is an experience and you now know better.
Would you like to confront him about unanswered questions or would you rather avoid him at all costs?
This may be hard working in the same workplace b... (read in full...)
Is this behavior OK?
Q. Is is ok for my boyfriend to sit on his porch and have beers with his female neighbor without me, possibly go inside if the weather is too hot and have drinks with her in there?...
A. 18 July 2012: Yes of course this is Ok. You trust your boyfriend don't you? And surely he must of mentioned having a girlfriend or something so this female neighbor should be nothing to worry about.
He is sitting on his porch with her so it's hardly a secret mean... (read in full...)
Can my guy friend and I find a balance? He doesn't want to let me down, But is he trying to break up the "best friend" friendship?
Q. I am 15 and I have two best friends: One is my sister X close and one is a friend Y who is 16. I have been close to him to him (Y) for a year. I am really close to X and she is a year and a half older than me. I know that not all friendships last...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
Well your sister or X has nothing to do with your friendship to Y. Obviously you are allowed more than one friend and if he is flrting with other girls making time for them then of course you have the same time to take to your sister. ... (read in full...)
How do I confront him without sounding childish?
Q. So ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's currently on a lads holiday to magalluf. I recieved a text of 2 images from facebook where he is calling a girl who he's slept with hun and putting kisses on the end of the messages. She's the type ...
A. 18 July 2012: Yes! Sounds like a sensible solution, let me know how you get on.
Xo xo... (read in full...)
How do I confront him without sounding childish?
Q. So ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's currently on a lads holiday to magalluf. I recieved a text of 2 images from facebook where he is calling a girl who he's slept with hun and putting kisses on the end of the messages. She's the type ...
A. 18 July 2012: Your welcome.
Well its a tricky situation especially when you don't know whats going on but for now its best to give him the benefit of the doubt because it might all just be friendly chat and you know how defensive guys can be.
Again I hope eve... (read in full...)
Guys, what the hell? Why do you do this to us girls?
Q. I've been dating this amazingly gorgeous and super smart guy for over three months now. In the first weeks he was really into me, taking me out to dinner all the time and really affectionate with me. After two months I made the mistake of telling ...
A. 18 July 2012: Hey,
Well something has changed, and his actions are evidence of this. I don't see how he could have lost interest in you just because you said you loved him, although I am not a guy so maybe I just don't understand. It really isn't fair how he i... (read in full...)
What if these guys don't like my photos on facebook and stop talking to me?
Q. I'm being shallow, but am I being stupid thinking this. I mean of course, most the time guys don't think in the same way girls do. Anyway, Facebook is of course what teenager use a lot of. Well, These two guys who i've been talking to for a...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
Just accept them, don't change your picture just because of some boys and do not worry about them either. Those pictures are you and I am sure they are not 'bad photos' as you may think because lets be honest you would not post them online i... (read in full...)
How do I confront him without sounding childish?
Q. So ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's currently on a lads holiday to magalluf. I recieved a text of 2 images from facebook where he is calling a girl who he's slept with hun and putting kisses on the end of the messages. She's the type ...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
Your not being childish by worrying about this, your boyfriend is of 4 months so the relationship is still fresh, I am hoping that you both trust each other and are commited to each other then in this case you will hae nothing to worry ab... (read in full...)
Please help, I'm in a love triangle and don't know what to do!
Q. Hi i am 23 years old and im Bisexual and im a relationship with a Girl but she has a husband she has a girl and a guy and i cant quit cheating on her cause i feel left out shes got both and i only have one i dont think its fair please tell me what i ...
A. 18 July 2012: Your only 23 years of age, and the relationship you want to be in is not a healthy one. Cheating with this girl is not the best option for anyone involved, she is married and has several partners where everybody involved including you is getting ... (read in full...)
We played doctor when we were kids and now my friend wants to do it again. Whats that all about?
Q. Hi, Okay, so me and a friend have known eachother all our lives and when we were young kids we'd "play doctor". We're both guys 19 years old now. Often he proposes doing it again, because it was a lot of fun, it wasn't anything serious just ora...
A. 18 July 2012: Each to their own I guess.
No it doens't neccessarily make you weird, but the fact that you feel weird about it may cause for some regret after the event. If you feel like doing it and its just fun then why not.
Although you might be in for some ... (read in full...)
I met up with my ex after not seeing for a year but I'm confused about how things went
Q. Okay so my ex and I first got together in 2006, we were like high school sweethearts and were together for just over a year, then out of nowhere he drops the bombshell that he doesn't think its working anymore, no real explanation. I've never had ...
A. 18 July 2012: Hey,
It seems like you both appreciate your previous relationship and seem to have no regrets. It ws his choice to end it, and you now seem like your ready to move on. It is up to you whether or not you want to keep in frequent contact with him... (read in full...)
Is she playing hard to get?
Q. So I've been talking to this girl for the past 2 weeks and I've told her that I like her and she said that she likes me too. We would always text each other everyday and flirt. But last sunday we were supposed to hang out, but she cancel on me...
A. 18 July 2012: Hey,
I guess if I was in your situation I would just stop texting her. See if she does end up contacting you again. She sounds like she doesn't really know what she's doing and hasn't made her mind up about you yet.
I guess you could try and call... (read in full...)
Why do guys just disappear?
Q. Alright, I have a question for all of you guys out there. First of all, there's a guy I like, and we both last night established that we liked each other, and we're going to hang out soon. And we've been talking for a long time, and clearly he's ...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
Ok so i'm not a guy so I can't answer from a guys point of view butseriously if I had a pound for everytime I wondered the same thing.
Yes your right there could be many reasons why he didn't get back to you. Just leave him, if he wants to ... (read in full...)
How do I make my self not care anymore?
Q. How do I make myself feel confident? I honestly feel ugly but I know im not. I dont really know how too explain it. Its like.. Im just always so self concious and insecure when I go out too places because I know someone is better looking than me ...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
Honestly I think everyone goes through a phase like this, I know I did, but somehow I always found a way to pick myself back up.
Very recently I have been very negative and down on myself, feeling like the whole world was pressing dow... (read in full...)
How can I forget about him and move on?
Q. I posted here about a week ago. I have been in a relationship with an international student for awhile but his parents suddenly made a last minute decision for him to return to his home country. So he left a few days ago. It's hard on both of us ...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
Wow, I really know how hurtful it can be to be surrounded by memories of somebody and you feel like you can't escape and soon they are all your thinking of even though its the last thing you need!
Honestly in a situation like this Time is... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty about making out with my guy friend, I feel like I've let my parents down
Q. I've known this guy friend of mine for almost two years already. During which we talk a lot and we've grown closer recently because he has been with me through my darkest days and all. Thing is, we made out while we were alone one day. It was ...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
Dont be so hard on yourself! It wasn't as if you went too far with this guy or anything, as you said he is a close friend and at a young age feelings/emotions can take over in moments. No matter what your parents think about cherishi... (read in full...)
The Ideal relationship at first. Now she ignores my texts.What should I do?
Q. I've been talking and getting to know this girl for a few weeks now and we've just recently told each other that we like each other....everything was great for the first week and now she is ignoring my texts(we used to talk everyday 24/7) or if she ...
A. 18 July 2012: Yes, I have been in many of these situations myself. I agree with everyone else, your friends are right just stop texting her. Nine times out of ten when I have done this the guy has always ended up texting me again.
Although I do also agree with... (read in full...)
What am I to her? Is she playing me and her BF? How can I make this situation better?
Q. Hi, I'm confused and I need some good advice from you people I will explain everything thing in a bit of detail so that I could get some good and satisfying help! I met this girl in an exam center through a mutual friend of mine.. She was my frien...
A. 18 July 2012: Hi,
Well I do not think it is fair that she is showing affection and feelings towards you if she does not want to break up with her boyfriend.
She sounds like she isn't really that happy with her current boyfriend but might be scared to leave hi... (read in full...)
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