Ex said baby wasn't mine, but it resembles me and I feel guilty
Q. My ex n i broke up when she was 2 mnths pgnt.She later said that its cz pregnancy wsnt mine. We lost contact, she gave birth, baby is 5mnths. Have only seen baby's pics, we resemble. I feel guilty all the time, i cant move on, I dont know what ...
A. 10 September 2012: Get a DNA test.
If its your baby, step up and be the father every child deserves.... (read in full...)
Ladies only: would you decline to have sex with a man with erectile dysfunction resulting from surgery?
Q. This one is for the Ladies here ONLY!I am asking this for a friend of mines. Thanks Ladies,Say if you was to go out with a guy you met and things became hot and heavy between the 2 of you,then the 2 of you end up at a place that you have picked ...
A. 8 September 2012: I actually was in a relationship with a man who had ED, he was in his 20s no matter what I still liked him and the sex. I understood completely... (read in full...)
I can't get over this male model but he doesn't like me in that way. Should I lose my virginity to him?
Q. Hi, I am a lost person at the moment. I had a thing with a male model we romanced three times with one almost leading to sex but I refused because I knew he did not like me. I still like this guy, even when I forgot him I dream about him and that ...
A. 7 September 2012: If you really have to ask, no. You are going off whats good for the moment but not the rest of your life. What if you got pregnant? Knowing he doesnt like you in that way you should have more respect for yourself to choose someone who deserves you. ... (read in full...)
I am upset that I am being criticized for my parenting!
Q. My daughter is about to be a year old next week and does not walk nor try to. She just crawls and she goes to the furniture and stands up on it. She was born 2 months premature and her doctor always said that some things she might do a little bit ...
A. 25 July 2012: Thank you everyone for your advice, most times I do just walk away without saying anything. It feels good to vent and know that there are others in the world who's kids didn't walk just yet. I'm still very proud of her regardless if she walked today ... (read in full...)
Unexpected pregnancy, my children would be less than a year apart!
Q. hi everyone im in a very hard posistion atm, last nite ive just found out im pregnent, the only trouble is ive already got a 3 month old daughter, and the baby would b due around 21st march 3 weeks before my daughters 1st bday,, the thing is...
A. 21 July 2012: There are benefits to having them close together but there are also cons. You just have to weigh out the options, i do totally understand my daughter is turning 1 at the end of the month and way before decided that I wanted to wait before even ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I want to adopt, but friends and family are against gays' raising children. Advise please?
Q. Hi Im a gay woman who is in a very healthy relationship of 3 years and recently I have became really broody and would like to adopt in the near future with my girlfriend, we have discussed children before and she also would like to have them one...
A. 6 July 2012: All kids need a loving home, whether the parents are gay or straight. If you guys are willing to provide a wonderful new life for a child without it, then follow your heart. You will always have nay sayers in any aspect you life you just have to do ... (read in full...)
My partner wont let me touch my own baby girl! How do I get him to stop this?
Q. me and my man just had a baby girl about 3 months ago. he will not let me touch her,i have held her only 2 times since she was born and fed her once and that was at the hospital. last night i thought he was asleep so i went to her crib and picked ...
A. 4 July 2012: How in the hell is he going to stop you from holding your own baby? I would of gone ballistic every mother has a right to her child. You need that bond its very important.... (read in full...)
My marriage is crumbling, I have a crush on a guy I went to high school with and I'm contemplating leaving my husband not for the other guy but to make myself happy. Am I doing the right thing?
Q. I'm in a strange place, and I was hoping someone could shed some light.. I am twenty-three years old and have been with my husband now for three and a half years, married for about ten months. Our relationship has been good for the most part. W...
A. 4 July 2012: First and foremost, cut down contact from this other man because you are stepping outside your marriage which is wrong. Secondly talk to your husband let him know what's going on and how you are feeling, stop holding back thats why people can be ... (read in full...)
The man of my dreams has turned into a monster! Why do I always end up with abusive men?
Q. My partner of two years is moulding me to nothing. Where do i start.. The 1st year things were great i got sweet phone calls and txts and when he would come home he would tell me just how perfect i was he was perfect i had a constant smile on my ...
A. 4 July 2012: It's how you carry yourself, men may see that you're vulnerable and take advantage. Starting small and seeing how far they can get and you putting up with it instead of leaving they enjoy it. It's called emotional abuse but that's only if you allow ... (read in full...)
My big problem is that I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend.
Q. Hello , well my big problem is that i'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend i really do love him and everytime i think about him my heart beats so fast , anyway i think you got it . And i feel really bad cause when everyday i talk with my best ...
A. 1 July 2012: Stop it! It's not worth losing your best friend over a guy.. there are plenty of fish in the sea so why are you trying so hard to catch hers? Completely and utterly wrong in so many ways. You are not a true friend. You would want her to be happy ... (read in full...)
My fiance cheated on me, and is still talking to the guy and others.....but I cant leave because of my daughter and living arrangements! What should I do?
Q. so my fiance cheated on me with a guy she went to high school with. she says i wasnt giving her enough attention and that i would never listen to her when she tried to talk to me(when she never did in the first place) we talked about it and cried a ...
A. 25 June 2012: Definitely go to the family courts and set up some kind of custody hearing. I know how hard that must be on you, my fiancee wasnt able to sign her birth certificate either due to me not having my state id, but nevertheless I would never hold it over ... (read in full...)
Is getting pregnant at 15 the right thing to do?
Q. Well, im 15... And me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months, now heres my issue, when we hit a year... My boyfriend wants a BABY..... Okay look, I absoulutly ADORE babies, I LOVE them. And I have no problem with pregnancy at this age.... ...
A. 22 June 2012: Kids should not have kids! Just my opinion its a horrible idea and you have no idea what goes into being a parent. You adore babies? Yeah that's because they are not yours and can easily give them back to thier parents. The cost of a baby is ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's still possible for me to meet someone who will want to be with me?
Q. Well, I'm 20. I live in the US. I'm obese I guess. I weigh 297 and I'm about five and a half feet. I've never felt loved or accepted. I've never had a boyfriend. I've never been kissed or had sex. Guys have tried but seems that the ones who try are ...
A. 22 June 2012: Self confidence is key. After I had my daughter left with 190 pounds which actually I dont feel to bad about its just I wanted to tone it out, not for anyone but myself I figured all the time wasted on facebook or me watching tv I could be doing ... (read in full...)
Ifeel like she expects us to take care of her baby!
Q. Hey everyone in need of some good and honest advice because im not really sure what to do or how to feel. So here goes... I have a 9 month old daughter and I have a friend with 4 kids being 6,5,2 and a 5 month old. Now she doesn't work and uses go...
A. 27 May 2012: I realized I'm really only doing her the favor and that she needs to grow up and find a way to support her kids without me. If it really comes down to it she will find a way and that I can just store the clothes for if we have another baby. Thank ... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him to change or just break up with him?
Q. Dear Cupid, Ive been dating my bf since Feb 14(: He did some things.. He saw me crying this morning about what he did,, At the END of the day he said sorry, he said he will change, and loves me blah blah! I told him he better change, and he s...
A. 2 May 2012: Hmmm there is no such thing as accidental cheating! Sorry just doesn't work that way, he obviously made his mind up he wants his cake and eat it too, which means that he knows you will keep forgiving because a simple I love you makes your heart melt ... (read in full...)
He respects me when I hold my ground, but when my feelings are hurt, he's heartless
Q. My boyfriend is really heartless about my feelings. When we have a argument he leaves and ignores all contact from me. Its sad to say but for some reason when I hold my ground and act like a b***h he seems to want me more. However at times when my ...
A. 2 May 2012: You say you love him? But how much do you love yourself? Why be with someone who takes from you instead if giving you a stable foundation? Men beat us because they think with thier brain and we think with our heart, if your heart cut off emotions ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend squeezed a girl's breasts!
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been dating my boyfriend since Febraury 14th :). It's been 77 days, but the thing is while spring break which was 3 weeks ago. People dared him to sqeeze a girls breats, and he did.. He always flirt in my school. Im a little t...
A. 1 May 2012: You' re between the age of 13-15 focus on school and move on... (read in full...)
She has destroyed my life with her sexual past that I never knew about.. Just to marry her!!
Q. Ive been married 13 years, have 2 children. my wife has been very good to me all 13 years. but never thought in a 1,000,000 years this would happen to me.. I feel like my marriage was nothing but a fairytale. So this is what...
A. 3 April 2012: If she dated 5 white guys would you feel the same? The problems seems to be more in you than her. I can understand she was dishonest but you can be mad about something that happened way before your time.... (read in full...)
Do I follow my heart and chose one guy or stay with the other guy and always wonder "what if"?
Q. I have been in a relationship with Daryl for 2 years now. He has a child with another woman and we have definely had our ups and downs. I do not get along with his family at all. But I'm pregnant. I love daryl he's a good guy and he's been talking ...
A. 3 April 2012: I think its better to be in a happy either single or a guy which actually makes you happy opposed to stay in a relationship where your not happy, because your child will grow up in that environment. But before you go and make a huge decision get on ... (read in full...)
We've broken up ten times, but I can't imagine being with anyone else
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 17 months broke up last Thursday. we have a 8 month old daughter together. this makes the 10th time we have broken up. he said that things didn't feel the same. simply because the last time we broke up we got into a big fight ...
A. 23 March 2012: I think you two need to grow up especially since the fact you guys have a daughter together, that's not a situation to put her in the middle of. Either grow up and make it work or stay single and provide for your daughter and yourself ... (read in full...)
I've been trying to initiate a break up with my insecure girlfriend but both times she's had a panic attack
Q. I'm 17 and I've been with my girlfriend for just over 2 and a half years now, and it was going mostly okay up until recently. Recently, I've not been feeling very happy, for several reasons. First of all, it feels like I'm completely separ...
A. 23 March 2012: Honesty there is never an easy way to break up with someone, best thing IA just to be honest with her. When you're in a relationship for so long you get comfortable with someone, that it seems impossible to live without. Don't waste your time or ... (read in full...)
She can orgasm when she masturbates but never with me!
Q. Hello All, I have been dating the same girl for over three years now. We have been sexually active for over two. In those two years she has never been able to have an orgasm with me. We have tried everything-- we have had vaginal intercou...
A. 22 March 2012: Try some new positions. My fiancée has never gave me an orgasm and we discussed it, started trying new positions and getting closer, I know when I have an orgasm when masturbating is great, but sex is even better trying to get to the orgasm. I've ... (read in full...)
I broke up with b/f because he won't let me go out with him and his friends
Q. okay my boyfriend and i have been dating 16 months we have a 7 month old baby. the whole time we have been together i have only gotten to hang out with his friends a total of 7 times. everytime i ask him if i can go with him he says no because ...
A. 8 March 2012: Not a good reason at all. Guys need their time alone. ... (read in full...)
I want to tighten myself up
Q. am in a relationship for over five years now and we've been having sex for the past two year but i want to stop having sex,what should i do cos my vaginal is very loose and i don't know what to do to thighten it?...
A. 8 March 2012: Kegels. You tighten your vaginal muscles, like as if tour going pee and trying to stop the flow. Even have an apparently for it called kegel cat... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking my bfs are cheating on me!!!
Q. Hey people.. I've tried for the last 10 months to try and "move on" my previous relationships about them cheating on me. I've been in 3 relationships since and all of them ended horribly with me accusing them of cheating on me and "doing stuff". I...
A. 19 September 2011: Too be honest my current fiancee has cheated on me and really it drives me crazy every day I'm always accusing him and thinking he is up to no good. I mean it gets to the point where I'm always angry at him. Really insecurities are not easy to get ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for taking my daughter away from this cheat or should I try and make it work?
Q. Long story short! I don't know if I can make my relationship work. I feel miserable!!! We have a daughter together she is 1 month and 1 week today, too be honest when I first found out I was pregnant I thought our relationship was going to change ...
A. 19 September 2011: Thank you all for the advice! I just decided to end it and do whats best for us. Keep it simple. I'm miserable and I realize he is no good for me at all and I'd just rather not... (read in full...)
Do I confront her about this guy? Or is it just harmless flirting?
Q. Hello, hopefully you can help me with this problem I've been having. I've been in a relationship with this girl for over 4 years and we love one another a lot. I have been hurt very badly in the past and as such put up some barriers with th...
A. 19 September 2011: So first I think that you should confront her, I mean if she gets mad then you have something to worry about really but if she apologizes and you two discuss it then I wouldn't care too much. You have to realize depression is no joke and for her to ... (read in full...)
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