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writes:Do you think true love exists? I used to believe in true love. But love always hurted me. I hate love. I trusted my boy-friend so much. He broke it. I'm 16 years old. My ex was 27. It was online relationship. I was dating him for 2 years. I broke up this year. My dad is also cheating on my mom. He always hurt us. After my break-up, I fell for my friend. When I proposed him, he said he is a player. He is 23. I'm so depressed. I'm so hurting inside. Why do I still have feelings for my ex and this friend? He doesn't love me and we are just online friends. I know he is a player. But still I can't change this feelings. And I said yes to him for just sexual relationship. He is not forcing me for anything. I'm the only one who said yes. Because I have been hurted so badly, I have never seen any true relationship. In any relation the other person always break your trust and cheat on you. I'm confused. My heart is saying that true love exist and I should say no to my friend for just sex. But my brain is not listening. Is there a true love? Does true love exist? Is there such thing as love? Do you think I did right?
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reader, Yusha  +, writes (16 July 2011):
 As I think you're just mess up with the wrong guy... Love can't be done, It's Happens.. So you have to wait, and Think before going through a Relation... Cause it causes your loving sight less affection... And One day you will have no feelings fore love and won't be happy... So give it a space and live a normal life.. Trust me it's really so Awesome to Wait and Think about our Dream Persons !
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (15 July 2011):
 I used to think the same way, but yet I've known that true love exists. Don't give up hope just because your relationships didn't work out. The person for you will come when the time is right. So move on and get your focus off the negativity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011): When you said you proposed to your friend, what do you mean? You asked him out? Or that you proposed marriage?True love does exist, but as the other reader said, its not easy. I'm sorry for what your dad did, but some men are unhappy and do stupid things. Even if they're in love with their wives. As for your ex and friend, I'm sorry. I would stay away from them and any other online relationships. They can't be trusted, you don't really know them. And your ex was 11 years older than you--wow! I'm sorry I have to be the bearer of bad news, but usually only men of that age go after women of your age for sex. (you aren't the only one, I can count how many times this has happened before) And your friend was not much younger. What i say you should do is go out with guys your own age, and find a guy who really, truly loves you. I know hes out there. And every broken heart brings you closer to your true love, so you're one broken heart to pure happiness. Feel better :)
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reader, BlondeBabe x  +, writes (15 July 2011):
 Love exists but no one ever said it was easy.
It's one of the most complex emotions as it can have you in tears but give you the most happiness. I can fully sympathise with you and it's awful that you've had to deal with so much heartbreak already.
But now what I think you should do is let both of these guys go, with them still in your life you won't get over either of them. You need to distance yourself to allow yourself to heal and even though it's a difficult thing to you will be a stronger and happier person in the future for doing it.
Your true love, or as some call it soul mate, is out there you just haven’t found them yet. Unfortunately most have you through a lot of heart ache to find the right one. But you will, honestly. Take the negatives from this and learn from them.
All the best and good luck sweetie,
BB x
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