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writes:ok im going out with this boy and i really do love him i love him so much but at times i feel like im doing something wrong every one knows about us and i dont mind that its hard to explain but i do love him so much but at times i feel like its just abit to much to cope with but weve gone out for quite a while but its just getting to much but i do love him so much and i dont know what id do with out him but its just a little wierd but i do love him ive said i love him like a million times but its true but im confused of what to do because i love him then it sort of fades away then comes back . what should i do to reassure myself? Reply to this Question
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reader, BlondeBabe x +, writes (17 March 2015):
 It depends on what you mean by 'too much', do you feel scared because of how you feel or do you feel like it is wrong to like him. You cannot fall in and out of love, just as easily as that. If you love them it's an intense feeling that doesn't really fade. You shouldn't need to reassure yourself, you should know in your heart and mind that you care about them and that's enough. If you feel like it's too much then I would end it. But if you don't want to, try talking to him about how you feel and you might find that he feels the same him and it might be better to be friends.
Trust your instinct and trust your heart but you just cannot fade out of love.
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reader, Sionell  +, writes (3 March 2015):
 Love can't make you go crazy. If your gut is telling you its not okay, I believe you should change your terms of relationship and be friends only.
You can get more out of life by just being friends with guys than being in a relationship. I wish I knew that earlier.
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