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... Send *ezman a private message | | | *ezman's profile:hey there :) im a 16 year old student who believes that minds are like parachutes, in which they only function when they are open :P.
give me the next challenge because i'll confidently step up to anything :) i love listening to other people's opinions.
if someone looks like they need a smile,
why dontcha go ahead and give em one? :D
oh and also i hope me being 16 doesn't effect any of my suggestion because all i want to do is listen and give my opinion with an open mind :)
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Is cybersex classed as cheating?
Q. when i was with my boyfriend i was having cybersex online with another man, is it cheating? ...
A. 30 May 2008: So why were you having cybersex in the first place? Ask yourself why you had cybersex whilst you were in a relationship. Its not technicaly cheating i dont think but its following the same princible :/ I guess the real situation here is a... (read in full...)
I just found out about my best friend indiscretion and I do not know if I should get angry at her or simply just ignore it...
Q. My best friend complains that i dont tell her things. She wonders why ! I have just found out that something that i did tell her , she went back and told another person what i said. and she wonders why i dont tell her things. I'm so annoyed . I dont ...
A. 30 May 2008: you are not being over-sensitive and you are also not in the wrong. If your friend is telling your secrets to others then you need to confront them about it. You will doing a big favour to them because if you dont tell her then who will? Don... (read in full...)
I want her so bad but don't want our friendship to end!
Q. Im a male and have a good freindship with a girl that I find good looking and I was to do her.she flirts with me and I with her. I want to do her so bad I get hard almost everytime I see her I jacked off thinking of her about 2 or 3 time. I want to ...
A. 30 May 2008: If you just instantly come onto her, she may not find it too attractive and be assured that you will be jeapardising your friendship with her if you do. You have to act naturally, be charming and give the impression that you dont just want her fo... (read in full...)
I don't trust people, but I just realized how lonely I really am
Q. Hello everyone, Well my problems has nothing to do about sex. I know a lot of people and im a pretty fun person to be around but I have a problem trusting people as friends because from multiple past experiences friends have been fake back stabbers...
A. 25 May 2008: it seems to me that you are not alone. you just think you are from past experiences. i noticed that towards the end you mentioned that you are still known but it's in fact you who chooses not to mingle with other students. i understa... (read in full...)
I like her sooo much, but I'm confused by this!
Q. Okay, im now a junior in highschool, and ive liked this certain girl since my freshman year, i dont know why, but i do soooo much. I got a job at a grocery store, and then she started working there, but the twist is that she started talking to one ...
A. 23 May 2008: you like her alot.
do you want the feelings to go away? why?
maybe you think that because she dated your friend it would be wrong of you to like her.
its not wrong and if shes flirting with you then she definately has an interest in you.
you ... (read in full...)
Can I date my child's teacher?
Q. This isn't a totally serious question, and is somewhat tongue in cheek ;o) buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut... Went to my childs parents evening last night and quite liked one of his teachers! I picked up a bit of chemistry. Funnily enough, when me and my child...
A. 23 May 2008: me, being a teenager, would find that very strange if my single parent were to go out with my teacher. i dont think i would actually mind but how old is your child?
i can understand how it would be steryotypicaly embarrasing for a child if their... (read in full...)
Is he just playing with my head?
Q. well its sort of a long story, theres this guy who i was quite close to a while back, he's suddenly got back in touch 2 days ago texting me and stuff. general convo but askin if i still like him etc nd said that he "loves me, simple as"... but ...
A. 23 May 2008: he sounds like a confusing guy, one minute he says he loves you and the next hes going out with someone else?
its a long shot but do you think he meant that kind of love? and not just friendship?
i think that he was just lolling to your ... (read in full...)
Should I try again with my ex or should I give the new guy a chance?
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for a little over two years in a semi long distance relationship (he lives about a four hour trip away from me). During that time, we broke up once for several months because of several reasons we constantly struggled with ...
A. 23 May 2008: To me
it seems like your ex is finding hard to move on.
he cannot let go therefore he has convinced himself that he will change. The relationship will be forced though, if you chose him then you will find that for the first month or two he will ... (read in full...)
We've been talking again since the awkwardness after our 'hookup' but now my closest friend likes him too!
Q. Someone please help me...there is this guy that I have been noticing for a while, and about a month ago I hooked up with him. Afterwards it was really awkward and we didn't talk to each other for the longest time because people told him I hated him, ...
A. 22 May 2008: i think that your feelings have enhanced for this boy because your friend is taking an interest.
maybe you think that because you two hooked up, there may have been something and now that your friend has taken a liking to him you may be worried ... (read in full...)
Dragged into a silly argument, should I ignore her or get even?
Q. today at school there was a little argument between my freinds i just sat there and let them get on with it becasue i thought it was silly. then i got dragged into it and my freind called our other freind (who wasnt in the argument either) "you are...
A. 22 May 2008: does she know that she hurt you? i was bullied when i was young but then i arranged a meeting with a teacher and the people who were bullying me, i cried in that meeting and then they realised they were hurting me, i havn't been bullied since. ... (read in full...)
How do I beat the competition? I really like him...
Q. Right as you all know i'm male and i really like some guy, thing is i've recently found out he likes this other guy as well as me and can't make up his mind!! What should i do to beat the competition?! Any ideas?!......
A. 22 May 2008: i think first of all that you shouldn't force it on him for him to like you because that would be a bad start to the possible relationship.
to be honest i think the best thing to do is to make sure that you spend lots and lots of time with the guy ... (read in full...)
My Poem
Q. I don't know how to tell you How I really feel. I'm not sure that I even know that it's really real. I can't breath and my heart is in pain. My legs are weak and I'm crying again. You'd never know, because I'd never say. You'll never k...
A. 21 May 2008: wow...thats an amazing poem :)
i really like it :)
write more please :D
jez x... (read in full...)
Please help me to cheer myself up again, I feel so down and nothing's going right for me.
Q. Its hard to explain this but recently i have felt down about things and nothing seems to be going right. . .it's like having pernament bad luck! I feel like have a constant worry about nothing at all. . . Well basically i want to know if you have...
A. 21 May 2008: i write songs...play instruments...listen to music...
sometimes i go on walks and instead of just walking i try and notice everything. every leaf, tree, ant, bird song :)
watch a funny movie, that always cheers me up.
have a good cry, cryi... (read in full...)
Can't get my Ex out of my head...
Q. I thought i was over her. My ex and I broke up about 5 months ago now (dated almost 3 yrs). At first all i could think was getting her back but i knew i had to give it time Get my life in order and give each other some space. WE never ended ...
A. 21 May 2008: you really like her...
but how does she feel about you? she has found someone else now. this means that its going to be veerryy hard to win her back...so i wouldn't go there. i know you understand that you two may not have a relationship with eac... (read in full...)
Is the way my ex is acting mean he might still have fellings for me?
Q. Am really confused with the way my ex is acting,i still have feelings for him and have always got the feeling he feels the same way, even more so recently. Could do with some advice-please please help! We split up about year and half ago and hav...
A. 21 May 2008: well done
that takes so much courage
i envy you!
i completely agree with you, sometimes friendship just doesn't work because if you stay friends forever then you just wont get over him!
im so happy your doing this
jez x
BEST of ... (read in full...)
I feel she isn't putting any effort into our relationship
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and I feel that she isn't putting as much effort into our relationship as I am, I give her plenty of attention but she only gives me a little, I don't like to seem selfish here but I don't ...
A. 21 May 2008: ok dude thats just scary i feel that your in exactly the same situation as me because i was going out with my girlfriend for 7 months and then we split up :S
but anyway that doesn't mean that you'll split up soon!!! it has no relevanc... (read in full...)
I made him give me advice about dating a boy, without knowing I referred to him. Now that he knows, I'm not sure what to do next.
Q. Basically, I'm 15 I really really like this guy, he's 16, and I've told him. But before I told him I was asking him for help on 'How to tell the guy that I like him', he had no idea that it was him. When I did ask him for help he said 'If you're n...
A. 21 May 2008: im happy to hear that :D
i really hope this relationship works out for you :):):)... (read in full...)
We haven't seen each other or talked since he texted me saying, 'We need to talk!' What's going on?
Q. me and my bf have been on and of so much in the last year but recently have been on for 2 monts which has been lovely weve spent loads of time together and had a reali laugh but i randomyl got a text last week saynig we need to talk we both want ...
A. 21 May 2008: brilliant! thats good news. its good that he's arranged to see u.
let us know how that turns out :D
yeah again with my friends its the same situation, they just keep on getting drawn back to each other. as long as you still have feelings fo... (read in full...)
How can I move on from my ex?
Q. im so confused about my feelings at the moment. my ex broke up with me about a year and a half ago. she meant so so much to me and i was affected so much. she broke up with me when i was in year 10 and since then ive had dreams about her an...
A. 21 May 2008: thankyou very much your advice is good to hear.
i dont know why i cant talk to her.
i know shes far from perfect :P
come to think of it i dont think we were really friends in the relationship anyway. thankyou i think im starting to lik... (read in full...)
So, can anyone explain why the adults seem to talk amongst themselves and ignore jazzy me?
Q. is it just me? i live with quite a few adults and sometimes i just feel ignored! i know im walking in deep water here seeing as most of the agony aunts are adults so i dont mean any offense to any adults when i say this. i dont know, can an...
A. 20 May 2008: oh dear...in the original post i accidentaly put that im doing this for kicks (slaps self)
im NOT doing it for kicks im just confused lol soz
jez... (read in full...)
Why can't I make friends?
Q. I've never had much luck when it comes to keeping friends, and i kow it's all my own doing. But if i knew exactly what i was doing wrong, i would change, but i don't. Even though i have quite alott of mates, nobody seems to get close or want to...
A. 20 May 2008: i noticed that in the first years of high school many of the girls in my form were having random arguments and they would always be splitting up, leaving it into the hands of my form tutor. i've found that there's always a group of friends inside s... (read in full...)
I feel bad about it, as I denied all the rumors to my ex as well as my friends?
Q. I'll try and keep this short! Basically i have known 'R' for over 5 years now, as a friend. We had kissed at a party years ago, which was no big deal. We have always got on very well, and meet up every once in a while to catch up. Anyway, i ...
A. 20 May 2008: i dont think you should feel bad about it. you've broken up with your ex and your open for a relationship. you weren't feeling for 'R' until recently because you're commited to your relationships and you just admited that you wern't conscious... (read in full...)
We haven't seen each other or talked since he texted me saying, 'We need to talk!' What's going on?
Q. me and my bf have been on and of so much in the last year but recently have been on for 2 monts which has been lovely weve spent loads of time together and had a reali laugh but i randomyl got a text last week saynig we need to talk we both want ...
A. 20 May 2008: the chances are there is definately something on his mind. it may seem like hes not bothered but you must understand that he may be having phase of some sort.
what im trying to say is that its not that you've done something to upset him, he has p... (read in full...)
I made him give me advice about dating a boy, without knowing I referred to him. Now that he knows, I'm not sure what to do next.
Q. Basically, I'm 15 I really really like this guy, he's 16, and I've told him. But before I told him I was asking him for help on 'How to tell the guy that I like him', he had no idea that it was him. When I did ask him for help he said 'If you're n...
A. 20 May 2008: ok well obviously you cant just rush in and make him like you, it may take some time. why do you think he doesn't like you back? if he likes another girl then your chances are slim but if hes completely neutural then u may have a chance. yo... (read in full...)
I need to know if he fancies me or is just being friendly...
Q. i need to know if a guy i know fancies me or is just being friendly. he tickles me he'll talk to me loads he'll randomly text me to ask how my day was he'll laugh at my jokes he teases me he has nicknames for me this might be a sign i'm...
A. 20 May 2008: i dont know why your confused. this boy really really likes you!
he obviously feels comfortable around you
he would text you just for the sake of wondering how your day was
and if his little brother blurted it out then maybe his little br... (read in full...)
I feel she isn't putting any effort into our relationship
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now and I feel that she isn't putting as much effort into our relationship as I am, I give her plenty of attention but she only gives me a little, I don't like to seem selfish here but I don't ...
A. 20 May 2008: ive been in the same situation, my girlfriend never called and i was the one to call her etc. important: you have to find out if she still likes you as much as she did when you started going out with her. i understand that you may not want... (read in full...)
Do I ask him out? Do I wait for him to ask me out? What do I do?
Q. Ok, I really like this guy at my school. I ended up telling him (even though it was through a game of truth or dare). His Gf just broke up with him a week ago and I dont know if he likes me back. Do I ask him out? Do I wait for him to ask me out? ...
A. 20 May 2008: it all depends on how he reacted the first time he knew, if he seemed afeected by it then i would recommend just hanging around with him more.
do you share an interest? talk about it, be open and friendly and im sure he will get to like you.
... (read in full...)
I'm only 10 and my friends are talking about sex. I don't understand!
Q. I am only 10 but all my friends are talking about blow jobs. . . But i dont know what they are could someonw please help me so i know what my friends are talking about ?...
A. 18 May 2008: i think its best if you ask your mum about those things before you go to anyone else. have you spoken to your mum yet?
your friends have obviously found out about sex before they should have...dont let yourself get pressured into talking about blow... (read in full...)
We had sex at a party the other night, but she says she does not want a relationship... What should I say?
Q. theres this girl im majorly falling for and i dont know what to do, we've met a few times and we had Sex at a party the other night, but she says now things are too fast and she doesn't want a relationship at the moment... but i cant get her out ...
A. 18 May 2008: calm down and collect yourelf. be careful for your brain may be a wiser choice than your heart here. so how long did you like her before you had sex? you're doing the right thing, to not be obsessive. just make sure that your open and tru... (read in full...)
Should I be upset that my husband sends over 100 text mesaages a month to her?
Q. I am afraid that my husband of 21 years is having an emotional affair with a women at work. I have confronted him several times only to hear shes married, its nothing quit sweating about it, however, he works 5 to 5 and he tells me hes has no time...
A. 18 May 2008: of course you should be upset! thats not right at all! does he even realise how upset you are? you have to talk to him but you need to find a way to make him come out with a different answer aside from just pushing the matter to one side. go on ... (read in full...)
Can you explain sex?
Q. I am wondering besides humping what is sex? I am only 11 years old so, do not make your answers that detailed or gross. Thanks if you answer nicely....
A. 18 May 2008: what made you come here to as that question? i agree with softballplaya when she says that its probably best to ask your mother or guardian. you have to find your own view on sex without letting anyone else influence you. decide what sex i... (read in full...)
My parents split up and it's tearing me apart
Q. my mam and dad had been together for 20 years, about a year ago they split up and it tore me apart, i didnt eat or anything, but i realised why should i put myself through it, about 2 months after splitting up they decided to give it another go, it ...
A. 18 May 2008: im doing my GCSEs as well. first of all look on the bright side of life. it sounds ridiculous but it works for me. instead of dwelling on my sorrows and regrets i take a deep breath and think about all of the things i take for granted :) birds... (read in full...)
I am a bi male, how do I tell this guy I like him?
Q. Im 16 male Bi. Just wanted to ask, how could i tell this guy at school that im bi and that i like him. I have a 60% feeling that he might be bi too. I was crying for him and it feels like im alone. I dont know what to do!! Please help!!...
A. 18 May 2008: your not alone so never ever think that.
whos saying that you have to stroll up to him and declare your feelings there and then? set the scene.
are you two mates? you've got to make sure that hes the right guy for you otherwise you co... (read in full...)
Am I reading between the lines too much?
Q. Recently i went out on a date with a lad that my friend from work knows and he works with 2 members of my family anyway he ended it i was so shocked because we had such a lovely time. But whenever i go out on a saturday night know i hav...
A. 18 May 2008: heya, why did he end the date? if this is your average man then chances are he probably didn't tell his friends about the date just so that they would tell you. men are more to the point than women. if he liked being with you then he would ... (read in full...)
Is the way my ex is acting mean he might still have fellings for me?
Q. Am really confused with the way my ex is acting,i still have feelings for him and have always got the feeling he feels the same way, even more so recently. Could do with some advice-please please help! We split up about year and half ago and hav...
A. 18 May 2008: thats strange. you say that it was just out of the blue...but hes still giving off signals that hints towards him still having feelings for you. if he really does have feelings for you still, maybe theres a chance that he will pluck up the courage ... (read in full...)
Are my butterflies a bad sign?
Q. So there is this girl i have wanted to date for a long time. She has a boyfriend but things are looking like we may go out one day. I really like her but now i am nervous to date her. I mean i want to so bad i will be sad if we don't but i guess ...
A. 18 May 2008: orion, butterflies is just part of love and you can hardly ever avoid it. there are plent of questions rattling through my head! does she like you back? does she know you like her? how is her relationship with her boyfriend at the moment? your b... (read in full...)
I miss him so much, but I can't find the courage to tell him!
Q. Me and my ex are still friends, broken up for a while, he has a girlfriend (His ex) who has flirted with his best friend (As in would drop my ex in a second if his friend asked her out) I'm friends (With benefits) with my ex's ex best friend (the ...
A. 18 May 2008: i couldn't agree more with 'angel of love'
i know that your feelings for him are strong but you say that his last flirty comment was a few months ago?
dont forget that he might be just as confused with his emotions as you are.
if you both love ea... (read in full...)
Why do guys lie to me about their girlfriends?
Q. First of all, it seems as if, every guy I meet has a girlfriend. I dont know what to do, I try not to gain feelings for them. But, sometimes I feel as if im just by myself. Anyways, my question is, why do guys lie to me, about their girlfriends? And ...
A. 18 May 2008: there are loads of different guys out there and where do you meet these guys anyway? the way i see it, there are some guys who just use women as 'experience'. im a guy, im perfectly straight and i think its ridiculous how some guys treat girls.
... (read in full...)
Is the way my ex is acting mean he might still have fellings for me?
Q. Am really confused with the way my ex is acting,i still have feelings for him and have always got the feeling he feels the same way, even more so recently. Could do with some advice-please please help! We split up about year and half ago and hav...
A. 18 May 2008: i have two friends in a similiar situation :S.
however they're both open about they're feelings yet they cant carry on with their relationship because of trust.
my friends broke up for a reason and do you know that you have sorted out the reas... (read in full...)
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