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I want a boyfriend but I still want to be me!

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Question - (17 December 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend but I am more than ready... How do I make myself more attractive to guys but still be me???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010):

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Thanks everyone for the advice. I have learnt from you guys that I should just be myself and you are right. I don't know why I didn't see that all along.

Thanks readers :) xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010):

There is nothing more then being attractive then a girls personality and just being you. Even sexy you. Trying hard, too hard. Its noticable. You dont want that ok.

Women are a beautiful thing, but the way a girl can look at you can your just drawn in by the eyes. or when she talks, its sweet and you cant help but listen. How much she can care for another person, the loving thing that just pours from her heart. Its a wonderful thought to me.

Im thinking of my mom, how she was. The best women i can ever remember.

You dont need to change anything for a guy to like you.

xoxo

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A female reader, ConfusedWITHlove United States +, writes (17 December 2010):

Yu shouldn't have to make your self more attractive! just be you! The guy who sees you for your beauty and for who you really are is a keeper... Guys notice if your trying to hard. Stay true to yourself. And dont let guys interfere with who you are, they have a way of doing that

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010):

The most important thing to remember is to be you and stay being you. Being you will attract the guys that find you interesting. No matter who you are, how pretty you are, or how popular you are, their will still be a guy that may over look you. This is why you have to stay you. You are unique and special...this is what makes you...you! All the guys that don't like you are not for you. Many times girls feel like they have to be someone else to get noticed...but, when the mask they wear comes off, everything is a total disaster. You don't wanna be one of those girls who wears a mask just to get noticed. You wanna be you. Guys love it when a girl has good self-esteem and seems to be very happy. Guys are attracted to girls that are not desperate or crave for attention. OH BTW....lip gloss, cute jewerly, cute hair clips always seems to get attention.....it makes you look like a little lady....good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010):

There is nothing more attractive than a confident, happy person who is simply themselves. I have known very attractive girls who can't get a boyfriend - and average looking girls who are popular with the boys. The key is approachability. So be yourself but be open to being friends, be easy to chat to, and most of all don't try to hard.

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A female reader, BlondeBabe x United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2010):

BlondeBabe x agony auntNever try to be someone your not, guys just arent't worth that. Somewhere there is someone just perfect for you just the way you are you just have to find them.

A natural, happy girl is one of the most attractive qualities for a girl to have rather than the fake look so many choose.

Just be the person that you know you are.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (17 December 2010):

Honeypie agony auntBe yourself. Someone will like you for just that.

Never try to be something you are not, just to "get" a guy.

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