Was it wrong of my to ask for her number? Am I now the creepy old man?!
Q. Hi all, I have always personally thought that age differences in relationships don’t really matter (within obvious parameters) as each person is individual and if you love someone then you love someone. However I have always considered the id...
A. 9 February 2019: The issue of age difference, I think, depends on what you each are comfortable with. As people get older, the age difference doesn't matter as much, but maybe now it seems inappropriate or unusual because of how young she is. I would advise against ... (read in full...)
I need to know how he feels.
Q. I have a long-time friend who I've had a crush on FOREVER, but most of the time we have known each other, I was in a relationship so nothing ever came of it. He has confirmed that he returned the feeling but I guess as I did decided to try to forget ...
A. 27 February 2018: Thank you. I guess part of the problem is since we have been friends so long, I expected to be able to trust him to be honest, but I think you are right that he is playing games and wasting my time. I just feel like I would rather cut it off ... (read in full...)
He's awesome. But Why doesn't my boyfriend want to come to my graduation?
Q. Hi everyone, I have been dating an awesome guy for a couple of months now...we met through mutual friends and began working together, after which we became closer and realized how much we have in common (similar educational background, same musical ...
A. 12 May 2011: O.k. so when I talked to him about it today, he was like, "I intended to go all along" and now is going both to my graduation ceremony and dinner. He said that I jumped to a conclusion that he wouldn't go, and he just didn't say anything, but I ... (read in full...)
He's awesome. But Why doesn't my boyfriend want to come to my graduation?
Q. Hi everyone, I have been dating an awesome guy for a couple of months now...we met through mutual friends and began working together, after which we became closer and realized how much we have in common (similar educational background, same musical ...
A. 11 May 2011: I just thought I would add that yes, we are dating exclusively. He was the one who first introduced me to friends as his girlfriend, and while we are not what I would consider "serious" we are only seeing each other and call each other girlfriend ... (read in full...)
Can I have sex with my cousin?
Q. hi, , i am 28 attracted towards my cousin sister ,shweta ,she is 33 yearrs old and married.she is very nice to me.i dont know how to approach her?,once i met her last month after gap of 1 yearrs then i touched her feet ,but she hugged me from ...
A. 23 December 2010: Don't do it!
1. She is your blood relative. What if you ended up accidentally getting her pregnant? There are many risks. What if your family found out? Yes, you did it before when you were young and didn't really know any better, but it seems mayb... (read in full...)
Confused about this girl...likes me or not?
Q. Confused about this girl...likes me or not? im gonna try to cut some stuff out to make this nice and simple i bumped into this girl i knew from high school about a year ago, she added me on facebook and not much happened as we were both in a relati...
A. 10 December 2010: If she was truly interested, she would make an attempt to connect with you or see you again.
It is possible that bad relationships in her past may still keep her from being able to trust you, but that is not something that you can change. Only whe... (read in full...)
Who do you prefer, a good boy or a bad boy, both girls and guys opinions matters
Q. Hey this is just a short question. I've been curious, is it true that girls only go for bad boys? I'm usually considered as the good boy which a lot of my female friends told me. So it has always been on my mind for awhile. Girls and guys ...
A. 10 December 2010: I think a lot of women are attracted to "bad boys" for the wrong reasons: because it is a challenge, because women feel compelled to nurture and guide others, because we want to feel needed by someone. These are all selfish reasons.
All we reall... (read in full...)
My friends are all attached, I'm still looking and not finding anyone
Q. All of my friends are either in a long term relationship or already married and here I am, a few months shy of turning 25 and never had a relationship. Never even dated. The only experience I've had with being anything more than "just a friend" ...
A. 14 November 2010: I'm sorry, I don't have an answer for you because I don't think there is an easy answer to this question, the one I have myself been asking for a year now. I just thought it might help to know that there are others out there thinking the same thing ... (read in full...)
Workmate gave me a bruise because I wouldn't do what he said
Q. hi so i have this guy friend at work and the other day we got into an argument cause he wanted to take his break with me but he wanted to take it at 5 and i wanted to take it at 430 so then he got mad and squeezed my arm and when i said to let go he ...
A. 14 November 2010: It sounds like that guy has some serious anger issues. That is not a normal reaction to something like that and very inappropriate. I would tell the manager, I'm sure he would be fired.... (read in full...)
I want to tell her I'm moving on...but I can't bring myself to do it.
Q. Short short version. My girlfriend of two years and I broke up this last week. She had become more and more cold to me over the last few weeks until she finally told me she didn't know if she loved me anymore. I care for her more than anything, ...
A. 14 November 2010: Even though she was the one who wanted to break up, she may be having a hard time with it too. Obviously you are very hurt and you two were together for awhile and probably really close, it is hard to hurt someone like that and not feel bad about ... (read in full...)
I would like to know if online dating has actually brought up good kinds of dates for those of you who have used the service
Q. Hello everyone, I would like to ask advice from those who have had experience with online dating. After being in a "serious" relationship for a couple of years and suddenly finding out that my boyfriend was a liar who kept things from me, I was cr...
A. 7 June 2010: Hi, I'm sorry to hear that your ex was such a jerk. I hope that you are sufficiently over your last relationship before you try to get into another one because it is almost certain that some of those feelings will come up and may cause problems. ... (read in full...)
Why would my friend have sex with him when she knows I do too?
Q. Hi everyone, thanks for reading. There is a guy that I like, and when we first met he had a girlfriend, so we were really just friends, but after they broke up we would make out sometimes and we have had sex a few times over the past 6 months. ...
A. 22 April 2010: Thanks for your responses. Being the responsible person I am insert sarcasm here , I decided to wait a few days to see how I felt before confronting my friend. Now, I'm pretty sure that they didn't even sleep together...she said they didn't, and I ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend but he has a girlfriend!
Q. So heres the thing... Me and my best friend have fallen in love with each other. He has a girlfriend but they are in a long distant relationship for over two years now. We realized that we love each other like 6 months back, and ever since then we ...
A. 7 December 2009: I agree. This guy sounds like he is causing much more pain than happiness in your life. I think you would be better off to forget about him and move on. It seems like he is trying to manipulate you and make you feel bad for him, but there is no ... (read in full...)
What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.
Q. I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have...
A. 3 November 2009: I don't think it's really perceived in the same way these days. There are some piercings that are seen as a more sexual statement like tongue, nipples, etc., but I don't think the belly button is too bad, or the nose definitely. So many people have ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my best friend but he has a girlfriend!
Q. So heres the thing... Me and my best friend have fallen in love with each other. He has a girlfriend but they are in a long distant relationship for over two years now. We realized that we love each other like 6 months back, and ever since then we ...
A. 27 October 2009: I think what you should do is next time you talk to him, tell him that it is too hard for you to be only friends with him, and you will not wait around forever. Tell him that you will not contact him for awhile (maybe a month or a couple of months) ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friend of 7 years that I like him as more?
Q. Hello! I just recently got out of a relationship that lasted for 2 years and we lived together, so pretty serious, but it didn't work out for us. We mutually decided to break up although I was the one who brought it up because I started to like one ...
A. 27 October 2009: correction- there were a few things said which were pretty obvious tonight like he said I am beautiful and that all my "weird things" fit in well with him, and he likes them! ... (read in full...)
Always the "friend with benefits", never the girlfriend
Q. Hey all, So here's my problem. I keep getting involved with these really great guys. Problem is I always end up as the "friend with benefits". Now it's not that I don't respect myself or anything, but I always tend to get involved with them at the...
A. 17 October 2009: First of all, I would not consider guys who use women "really great guys." Sometimes if a man has just come out of a relationship, it could be because the girl left him because he was not a good boyfriend!! I know this is not always the case, but ... (read in full...)
What is up with her?
Q. I dont get it. Why do women tell a guy that they aren't interested in them, they don't feel the same way, reject them... then all of a sudden they end up liking you? I had a girl tell me she didn't feel the same way, it hurt so much i didnt tal...
A. 17 October 2009: Honestly, to me it sounds like this girl just likes the attention she gets from you. Girls are weird like that sometimes, even when we aren't interested in a guy, we still like them to be attracted to us. Obviously she likes you as a friend, but I ... (read in full...)
I really like my Teaching Assistant, I googled him and we have so much in common!
Q. Hi Everyone. I have a question about whether or not to show that I like my T.A. (teacher's assistant for those of you who don't know). I am a senior in college and he is a Ph.d student. I am 23 and he is 28. (Oh, I know this because I Google...
A. 11 September 2009: I would say you need to find out somehow if it might make him uncomfortable before you outright flirt or anything because he might find it inappropriate in the classroom. Maybe if you have some questions about something from class you can see if he ... (read in full...)
How can I help my drug addicted son?
Q. How can I help my drug addict son? We sent him to rehab, we helped him, to not live n the street, we sent him to many programs, but he can;t change. He did change a bit, but he is suffering greatly, and not ready to make good choices. My heart is ...
A. 4 September 2009: He can only change if he wants to. I believe that even when addicts want to change, they have to have no other options left because the comfort the drugs gives them is more enticing than taking on the challenge of trying to change. If you have tr... (read in full...)
I have these urges to cheat
Q. im on the verge to cheat on my boyfriend. i posted a situation about four days ago and now i feel like cheating on my boyfriend. im the type of woman that wont even give a guy a second due to the commitment i made to my boyfriend. but since ...
A. 4 September 2009: Please don't do it! Do you still love your boyfriend? Are you still attracted to him? Sometimes when things aren't going so great in a relationship we start to wonder what it would be like to be with someone else, but don't get lost in that until ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 20, is this ok?
Q. ok i am 15 going to be 16 in 2 weeks and i have been dating a guy who is 20 we have been together 4 2 months now is that ok ??? cause sometimes it doesn't feel right when we first met we didn't talk much but we liked each other a lot from the moment ...
A. 26 August 2009: If it is legal where you live then I don't see a problem with it unless it will upset your parents...I went through this in high school I was 15 and I started dating a guy who was 21. He was the older brother of one of my friends, so we knew a lot ... (read in full...)
Should I try and make it work with my boyfriend of 2 years, or move on and see if me and friend have a chance together?
Q. Ok I'll try and make this quick. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We've been happy throughout most of those years, but of course have had our downs too. He is a year and a half younger than me and I can definitely feel the ...
A. 24 August 2009: Hi, I have recently found myself in a similar situation as well...I have been with my boyfriend almost 2 years and we live together, but I still keep in touch with a "friend" of mine who I have always been attracted to although we have never been ... (read in full...)
Would you share your experiences of losing your virginity with me? It would really help!
Q. im a young person really looking for some answers about life and sex...i myself is a virgin and i kno this boy like it will be two yrs we kno each other..we started off on a really bad friendship and now we are pretty close and we kno each other ...
A. 11 August 2009: I think that you should really take some time to think about if you feel that you are really ready to have sex. When I was in love for the first time with my boyfriend, I thought that it would be fun to have sex, but to be honest it is a pretty ... (read in full...)
What's the big deal about letting a man ejaculate in a woman's mouth?
Q. Why is it that alot of people have a problem with the question of a woman giving oral sex and letting a man ejaculate in her mouth or her swallowing? I ask it and some feel the need to humiliate or belittle or call me a jerk or use the word "de...
A. 10 August 2009: Personally, I don't think it's degrading or disgusting or anything, but it's just something that I don't enjoy doing. I have tried to do it with my boyfriend before, and something about it makes me gag. It's not that it tastes terrible or anything, ... (read in full...)
If he does like someone else so much why was he hooking up with me a week ago?
Q. Thanks anyone for taking the time to read this/respond. I am kind of confused in situation with a new guy I hooked up with recently. I have kind of known him for about a year because I go to the place where he works all the time, and we talked ...
A. 10 February 2009: haha! my plan is already working...he called me again tonight. ;o)... (read in full...)
If he does like someone else so much why was he hooking up with me a week ago?
Q. Thanks anyone for taking the time to read this/respond. I am kind of confused in situation with a new guy I hooked up with recently. I have kind of known him for about a year because I go to the place where he works all the time, and we talked ...
A. 8 February 2009: Well, honestly I just enjoyed sleeping with him, so I don't care if he doesn't want a relationship. I just got out of one and I am not looking for that right now. After we hooked up I didn't call him for like 3 or 4 days and then I sent him a ... (read in full...)
He won't commit, but says we're not breaking up either?!
Q. My boyfriend of two years is leaving the state to return to school. He says he loves me and doesn't want to break up, but also says he doesn't want to maintain a relationship while he's in school and doesn't want me to move to be closer to him. ...
A. 8 February 2009: I can relate to this because I am kind of on the other end of the same situation...
I have been with a guy for a year and we were pretty serious, lived together and everything, but I started feeling very overwhelmed with schoolwork, my job and havi... (read in full...)
My ex is a beautiful godess and I can't find sexual pleasure in other women since I met her...
Q. I have a problem that doesn't seem to be going away. I broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years about 14 months ago (long story short: we were fighting a lot, neither of us were happy, I suggested taking a "break", and we never got back together- ...
A. 9 January 2009: I think the real issue here is that your idea of her is not only to do with her body, but when you two were intimate there was more going on than just a visual image of her body. If you were close and connected then that has a lot to do with how you ... (read in full...)
Relationship confusion
Q. I have posted here before, but now I know that I have not gotten over it. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and only recently found out he watched porn. Prior to finding out and when questioned he would tell me that the last time he...
A. 9 January 2009: I think you are definitly overreacting about this!
Pretty much ALL MEN look at porn sometimes. And women too! Imagine that. Well, think of it this way: Generally guys crave and think about sex more often than women. He knows this. He knows th... (read in full...)
How many of you believe that there is something after we die?
Q. How many of you believes that there is something after we die? And what will happen? Reincarnation? Or became a spirit? Or nothing at all? And if nothing , does that make you depressed, that you have only this chance on earth? Life becomes very...
A. 24 November 2008: Wow! Great question...I really like talking about stuff like this, but some people get "weird" when you bring up such personal topics.
Personally, over the years I have come to my own conclusions about such questions. I'm not a religious person, ... (read in full...)
What to do about sex when you're in a long distance relationship?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years now, and starting this June we have been in a long-distance relationship. I get very horny sometimes and just want to have sex. And when I get horny, I think all kinds of thoughts. I'm sure it is p...
A. 11 November 2008: There are options...
You can try phone sex if you feel comfortable with that, or get him to send you some sexy pictures of him to look at and uh..you know. Send him some of you. Call him and tell him how horny you are for him and tell him what you... (read in full...)
Do I really love my boyfriend? Or is my pride more important to me?
Q. my boyfriend and i get into little arguments once in awhile. we've been together for 7 months. it usually starts because of something he does or say that just irritates me. and the way i deal with it is just not talking to him. i know that's unfair ...
A. 11 November 2008: I think you just need to figure out how to express your feelings better. Instead of cutting him off when your mad, take a deep breath and just stop for a second and try to think clearly about why you are mad and be as short and simple as possible. ... (read in full...)
Can't believe I'm asking this, but what do I do after she CHEATED on me, to get her out of my mind?
Q. My ex-girlfriend of over a year cheated on me and its been 2 months and I still think about her everyday. How do I get her out of my mind and move on? This is seriously dogging me and it sucks that she cheated on me yet I still have feelings for ...
A. 11 November 2008: It is understandable that you feel hurt and that you still have feelings for her, but this was only the first of many relationships that you may have in the future. Just remember that there are many, many, MANY other girls out there that will treat ... (read in full...)
My girlfreind is so depressed because of me .
Q. Me and my girlfreind have been going out for one 13 months now and i really love her alot infact i could pretty much say i cant live without her. Im 14 yeah young but madly in love. When i was high i mistakenly tried to make out with another girl. ...
A. 11 November 2008: You shouldn't blame this on yourself.
At that age, girls go throught a lot of hormonal changes that are confusing and can make them feel depressed. When I was 14 I contantly fought with my parents and rebeled in every way and a lot of the time I w... (read in full...)
I had a dream of a 13 year old giving some guy a blowjob, I think I want one too!
Q. ok, please don't jump the gun I am 23 year old, it just happened to me a few days ago, I was ill and so I was sleeping a lot, and I had a dream of a girl who 13 and I know her, she was giving someone a blowjob and no it wasn't me and now a few ti...
A. 11 November 2008: It may seem interesting to you because it is something "naughty" that you're not supposed to do. The same reason why people might find it exciting to cheat, it is tempting to do things we're not supposed to do.
Thankfully this was only a dream an... (read in full...)
Is it friendship only or has he more in mind?
Q. Am I reading too much into this? There's this guy in one of my classes who I talk to and kind of flirt with a little bit, but I haven't really hung out with him outside of class until last week. He left class before I did and he was waiting for ...
A. 11 November 2008: In my experience guys don't usually start talking to a girl like that unless they are interested. If he invited you to a party that means that he wanted to bring you around his friends which is pretty important. It sounds to me like he is definitly ... (read in full...)
I'm lonely now that my friends are moving on with their lives.. Help!
Q. I've been feeling out of place lately. I am not a teenager anymore. I am not in that 21 phase anymore. I have a career and my own home but am not married. I haven't had a serious relationship in years. I've been feeling so lonely lately. My ...
A. 7 July 2008: I know exactly how you feel...I have felt the same way lately. I think it's just part of being at this age. After school, everyone who used to be in your life every day starts to drift away, or get married and start families.
It's weird. And lone... (read in full...)
Family fights all the time, I am miserable, I must leave, is there someplace to live for free temporarily?
Q. Hi, Im writing becasue I can't seem to find peace at home and I don't know what to do. My parents have been married for about 23 years, but my mom's had to deal with infidelities, indecision physical and physiological abuse (IN THE PAST). I ...
A. 7 July 2008: You should look into living on campus at your school. You can use your scholarship toward it and if you need to, you can apply for other financial aid (grants, loans) to help pay for it. You can also ask at school about roommates, most schools have ... (read in full...)
I'm having dreams of other guys, what does it mean?
Q. Hi everyone! I am having some strange dreams lately, I have a boyfriend whom I am very happy with, but I keep having dreams that I am with other men. They are not sexual, but I have dreamt of being with my ex (I was sitting on his lap and he had h...
A. 22 May 2008: Haha...no one is more attractive to me than my guy!! :D... (read in full...)
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