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writes:im on the verge to cheat on my boyfriend. i posted a situation about four days ago and now i feel like cheating on my boyfriend. im the type of woman that wont even give a guy a second due to the commitment i made to my boyfriend. but since everything fell sour i have these urges to cheat. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): If you cheat out of spite for your boyfriend's reaction to you you will cheapen your self-respect and realize that you have let someone else control you.
You should always react out of inner strength and fortitude. What you plan on doing will lead to depression.
Get some balls and ask for what you want! Be demanding of others and especially YOUR SELF.
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (4 September 2009):
 Please don't do it! Do you still love your boyfriend? Are you still attracted to him? Sometimes when things aren't going so great in a relationship we start to wonder what it would be like to be with someone else, but don't get lost in that until you end this relationship.It's not worth it, I have been there before and later I felt stupid for cheating. Even though my boyfriend never knew, it caused even more problems in my relationship because I felt so guilty and confused. You probably need to spend some time away from him so you can see how you feel without him. If you love him, you will miss him and want to see him, if not then maybe it is time to break up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): if you cheat you will regreat it self respect is very important aslso is onisty if you thinbk like that you dont realy love the cuy you are with
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): Split up with your boyfriend, then you can do what you want. But cheating is not the answer!
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