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*adAsh6705
writes:Hello! I just recently got out of a relationship that lasted for 2 years and we lived together, so pretty serious, but it didn't work out for us. We mutually decided to break up although I was the one who brought it up because I started to like one of my best friends and I got tired of being in a relationship that was going nowhere. Well, now that I am single the guy that I like and I have been talking a lot more, and texting all the time, flirting, but never saying anything too obvious...I think because we have been friends for almost 7 years it is weird to realize that you like someone that way, and it is hard to tell them. So, this weekend he invited me to come visit and stay the weekend where he lives (it's a few hours away) and we will be going out together for halloween, so I'm thinking this is the perfect time to make a move! BUT I am so nervous! I want to just kiss him or just do something to show him that I like him! What should I do?
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (27 October 2009):
BadAsh6705 is verified as being by the original poster of the question correction- there were a few things said which were pretty obvious tonight like he said I am beautiful and that all my "weird things" fit in well with him, and he likes them!
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (27 October 2009):
 Just tell him. I bet he feels the same. I'm only 16 but I've had a lot of relationships in my life and one thing I've learned is that if you love someone you have to tell them. Even if he doesn't like you at the moment he may begin to like you after you tell him. This is how it was in my last relationship. I had this... girl that I knew. I didn't like her at all, in fact I found her to be very annoying, but she always wanted me to be around her. If I wouldn't sit with her at school she would come sit with me. Then she started dropping hints that she liked me and I realized that I like her too. Long story short I asked her, we dated for seven months and it was the best seven months of my life. In the past couple days she has said that she still has feelings for me and I am working on getting her back. Anyhow you should just tell him.
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