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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been feeling out of place lately. I am not a teenager anymore. I am not in that 21 phase anymore. I have a career and my own home but am not married. I haven't had a serious relationship in years. I've been feeling so lonely lately. My siblings and cousins are all married and starting new lives. My friends are all engaged or almost engaged and don't seem to have time for me anymore. I just don't feel important to anyone anymore. I am not in a hurry to get married until I find the right person, but I feel very alone all the time, even depressed. I know its stupid and most people have worse problems, but I can't get over it. And in this state, with no sidekicks its really hard to be fun and confident enough to meet new friends. Any advice on how to get over it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): I think you are fine, anon. The fact you have a career and your own place is a great thing and should be a confidence builder. There are many ways to meet people you might have much in common with. But, don't "pressure yourself". Let it happen. You are very young in years and have a lot of time. Explore your world. And there is a lot to say for being independent and single at your age.
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (7 July 2008):
 I know exactly how you feel...I have felt the same way lately. I think it's just part of being at this age. After school, everyone who used to be in your life every day starts to drift away, or get married and start families.
It's weird. And lonely. You should try to meet some single friends who have things in common with you. Try getting some single people from work to go out and do something together.
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