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Is it friendship only or has he more in mind?

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Question - (11 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *kayem25 writes:

Am I reading too much into this?

There's this guy in one of my classes who I talk to and kind of flirt with a little bit, but I haven't really hung out with him outside of class until last week. He left class before I did and he was waiting for me outside and we live in the same area, so we were walking and talking together. Out of nowhere he asks me if I want to go to lunch with him and before we part ways he gives me his phone number, saying that if I ever want to hang out, that he'd be down with it. Earlier in the week he invited me to a party that he was going to, and when I get there he pours me some of his drink because I got short-changed (nothing sketchy about it, he was being really nice and wasn't trying to take advantage or anything).

I'm just really confused. I don't know if he's just being nice to me because he wants to be friends with me, or if there's something more. I tend to over analyze things, so I'm not doing myself any favours in this situation.

Thanks.

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A female reader, kkayem25 United States +, writes (14 November 2008):

kkayem25 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for all your advice! I guess this is just one of those "wait and see" situations that I'm OH so fond of ^^.

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A female reader, BadAsh6705 United States +, writes (11 November 2008):

BadAsh6705 agony auntIn my experience guys don't usually start talking to a girl like that unless they are interested. If he invited you to a party that means that he wanted to bring you around his friends which is pretty important. It sounds to me like he is definitly interested.

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