My fiancee's mum shamelessly flirts with me! What do I do?
Q. Hi people. I have a bit of a problem and was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on how to approach the situation. You see, the thing is that my fiancee's Mum shamelessly flirts with me. When my fiancee is around she doesn't do it so ...
A. 6 March 2009: Tell your fiance about her Mom behaviour and stop going there. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is doing my head in!!!
Q. My boyfriend went nuts at me for phoning my sister, I owe her money thats why I phoned. But then he starts going off about me wasting my credit on people that arent worth it. It's my money he doesn't do anything to make money he's on dsp because of ...
A. 23 February 2009: Throw him out. It's your money. Spend as you wish. This man is a control freak and a loser as well. You dont need him. He has no right to criticise your family. ... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly!
Q. Hi, lately I've been feeling down. I am embarrassed with the way I look. I can't even wear a bathing suit without feeling humiliated. For one thing no one knows about it but I gotta talk to someone about it. I have hair on my belly and I'm so ...
A. 22 February 2009: Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder. For your hairy belly, use wax to get rid of hair.You will be hairless for at least a week because wax pull out the hair including the root. With regards to stretch mark, do some exercise to firm up the muscles ... (read in full...)
Irritated by my sister in law's behaviour!
Q. hi, i am a male of 26 yrs not married n my sister in law is 24 yrs. my sister in law is acting strange towards me. she is married to my elder brother. the problem is that she teases me very often which is embarrassing. the other day when i was goi...
A. 22 February 2009: Your SIL behaviour is inappropriate. It's time you get your own place. Do not tell your brother and family. That way it saves him embarrassment which may cause big storm in his marriage.... (read in full...)
Does rough sex hurt the baby?
Q. me and my boyfrien just had crazy sex and I may be pregnant so I need to know if hard sex hurts the baby and if u don't honestly know don't reply...
A. 21 February 2009: I lost my baby at first trimester. Even though the doctor said sex doesnt hurt baby but I beg to differ because after a session of really rough sex, I felt pain in the tummy. Next day also same feeling. Two weeks later, I had ultrasound and the ... (read in full...)
Dont know what to say to my girlfriends dad
Q. Hi my name is ray im 22 and my girlfriend is 16 her name is lisa ok we have been dateing for a year now her mom knows about it but we have to keep it from her dad till her mom calls me and lets me know that i can come talk to her dad but her dad ...
A. 19 February 2009: Perhaps u could tell us why the old man hates you before we dispense advice. ... (read in full...)
What should I do if my hubby bought his lover a valentine present and nothing for me?
Q. What would you do if you found out your husband having an affair and brought his lover a valentine present and nothing for you. He says he still wants his marriage to work and his affair meant nothing he just enjoyed the thrill the thought of him n...
A. 19 February 2009: He looks like he is experiencing mid life crisis. Henceforth, he needs attention to boost his ego. Buying gift for lover not wife is unforgivable. However, if he is willing to work on his marriage and you think he is worth keeping, give it a chance. ... (read in full...)
Is he using me till something better comes along?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are generally happy. The problem is that he has never told me he loves me, he says that he would probably cheat on me if the right opportunatity come along and he wants to marry someone who is from ...
A. 18 February 2009: He wants to have a fling with you but when it comes to life partner he will choose a woman from his ethnic and country background. He made that very clear and you should know that unless you are in denial and living in la la land. ... (read in full...)
I worry about our religion, could it work?
Q. Now this isn't racist or nothing like that..and i don't really want a lecture about what religion teaches etc. I'm a Sikh and i know Alot about my faith.So i'm not being brain washed or none of that rubbish. I'm nearly 19-done nothing with a g...
A. 17 February 2009: If you just want a relationship with him, then it's okay whoever he is. However, if the relationship proceeds to serious and marriage comes into question (you might not ready yet but for him as 28 years old probably he is looking), then you better ... (read in full...)
Abusive drunk father, living next door, support needed please!
Q. Hi. Well my question isn't about relationships, at least. Not with a boyfriend. My family is a complete mess. I'm 14 years old, I have a brother aged 16 and another who is 23 - they both still live at home with me and my Mum. I also have an older ...
A. 16 February 2009: I feel terribly sorry for the condition you have to put up with. Your mommy need to move away and get a protection order against your dad. Living next door to your dad and his parents is not a good idea. You and your siblings need to get away from ... (read in full...)
I'm very nervous to give my first handjob.
Q. I'm very nervous to give my first handjob. I'm worried I'm not doing it good enough, or I'm hurting him. What should I do? Any advice?? thanks!! (:...
A. 15 February 2009: Listen to Steve. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to follow in my family's footsteps...
Q. Hi, How can I argue to my parents that I don't want to follow their religion any more? We talked about Islam recently and they say I MUST follow it "for my own good" although I said I was atheist. My siblings are all being mean and pushy to me and ...
A. 14 February 2009: Apparently somebody is being low in the department of IQ. I'm aware of where she is from. It happens too often in Europe and England is in Europe. Ever heard of honour killing? Bet you never because you are hiding in your nutshell thinking that you ... (read in full...)
Why did his ex get the naughty pictures of him and not me?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a while now, we live together. He has 2 kids and an ex-wife. Well, here about 3 weeks ago his ex sent me 3 pics that he has sent to her of him naked in our home (that we moved into together)!! She had been trying ...
A. 13 February 2009: Sounds like he hasnt got over his ex. Thus having sex with her and sending nude pics. I would suggest you move out and live on your own. Let him sort out his life first. Then only come back to you if he still wants you. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to follow in my family's footsteps...
Q. Hi, How can I argue to my parents that I don't want to follow their religion any more? We talked about Islam recently and they say I MUST follow it "for my own good" although I said I was atheist. My siblings are all being mean and pushy to me and ...
A. 13 February 2009: Sounds like you are not going anywhere arguing with your family. I have heard of many cases in muslim community whereby those who refused to embrace Islam were punished in various form. Get out of that house and seek help from authority and shelter ... (read in full...)
What can a parent do if their kids chose a wrong path?
Q. How can I be happy ,if my son is a drug addict? Do I have a right to stop contacting me? i love him and I did everything I possibly could for him. He is not alone , his brother is down the road with him. They are adults now. He kind of took him down...
A. 12 February 2009: You have done and sacrificed alot as a parent. Your children are already adults. Let them go and take responsibility over their own decisions. Take care of your own marriage and health. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
Cold and heartless
Q. I left a message telling my ex that my mother died of cancer after we broke up. She never replied to say anything that might show any sympathy or compassion. Can someone be so heartless???...
A. 12 February 2009: She is already your ex not responsible for your emotional wellbeing. Get a life and move on instead of blaming your ex for not giving you moral support. ... (read in full...)
Can someone tell me why I still love this man?
Q. how can i still love him after he did what he did? i was with my ex boyfriend for a little over 2 years, and we have a beautiful daughter together. but he use to hit me, all the time, for no reason at all. and i still love him. i feel that even ...
A. 12 February 2009: Have you heard of Stockholm Syndrome whereby victim comes to sympathise and love their captors? You are one of them. This man abused and treated you as punching bag. You still feel for him because you are afraid of living alone and losing a father ... (read in full...)
Is he just saying he loves me just to get into my pants?
Q. hi... i really need advice. i have been in an off and on relationship for 8 months already with a marine. he recently came back from iraq when me and him met.he suffers from depression and ptsd. its been really hard to keep our relationship going. ...
A. 10 February 2009: Missy, he has a problem that is emotionally and mentally draining. Are you up for it? He keeps coming back to you because he has nowhere to seek suppport outside of the military. This happens to alot of soldiers coming back from Iraq and ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about being circumcized?
Q. im an 18 year old guy from Australia, i was wondering if i could have some uplifting advice on being circumcised....as i am. i worry about what a girl will think if i am..should i worry if i am circumcised or not?? ..and my mates always crack jokes ...
A. 9 February 2009: Circumcision is good for hygenie. Besides, it makes your member looks like spaceman instead of smelly wrinkled worm. Take your pick. hahahahaha... (read in full...)
Any ways to grow taller?
Q. Are there any ways of growing naturally taller at the age of 20? I feel very short and it hits my confidence in general....
A. 8 February 2009: Look at Michael J Fox and Herve 'Mr. Tattoo in Fantasy Island'. Both are short but tall in confidence. Most important is your personality that attracts people to you. Even if you are tall like the pole but look like a loser, nobody wants you around. ... (read in full...)
Why does he insist on talking to his bf who doesn't even care about him?
Q. My boyfriend of a year and a half has been talking to his best friend. He's been doing this behind my back, I'm pissed about it. My boyfriend's best friend and also his twin brother were doing methamphetamine's on my boyfriend's father's front po...
A. 8 February 2009: Blood is thicker than water. When you marry a man, you marry his family and his friends. Are you ready for the rough roller coaster ride? The best friend and twin bro already stabbed in your back before you even become his family, making you a ... (read in full...)
I don't want to fail but I don't have the willpower to study
Q. Im 15 and leavin school this year in a few months, my exams start in may and i starting to panic im not at all prepared and i feel like i may fail. i cant revise because i cant physically sit down and read over things or do activities because i just ...
A. 8 February 2009: At 15, my guess is you are in lower secondary school. Therefore, the school syllabus is not too hard to catch up with more than 3 months to go, you still have time to do revision if you are willing to slog and put all your time into it. Forget about ... (read in full...)
My husband left me after 16 years, has this happened to you and how did you deal with it?
Q. Hi all, I just need a bit of advice and to see what peops did if they were in my situation. My husband left me after 16 years of marriage for a nother woman. He had been seeing her for over a year before he told me and stayed for another 6 months ...
A. 6 February 2009: Well, I've never experienced it but if I were in your position, I would have told him good riddance. For all the 16 years you have dedicated your life to be with him, he obviously did not appreciate you at all. What has happened to the vows of ... (read in full...)
My husband insults me and makes me feel small, I never do this to him, can you help please?
Q. Hi all and i'd like to thank you in advance for any replies x I have been married for almost ten years and have a 6 year old son. From time to time my husband flies off the handle at very small issues with me, he yells and curses at me over that...
A. 6 February 2009: I could understand how you feel being married to an abusive man. Get him to go for some professional help because ultimately the way he behaves towards you is affecting you and most likely the son will pick up after the father's behaviour. If he ... (read in full...)
I think my husband could be bi-polar.
Q. Does anybody know anything about Bi Polar Disorder? I think my husband has it and he has reached a point where I can no longer rationally speak to him. He seems to have no capablity to take adult responsibility for any of his actions and although...
A. 6 February 2009: Your husband is selfish and has this syndrome of attention greedy institution. I believe it is the way he was brought up. Was he an only child and without a father? Because the mother behaves in certain way, the child she brought up would most ... (read in full...)
My brother is going down on his girlfriend and he is only 13, what should I do?!?
Q. Hello If you don't want to read what fully happens, skip to the paragraph above the last sentence. I have a brother. He is 13, and has a girlfriend. My aunt visited my mom so they decided to go shopping. I was told to watch my brother...
A. 5 February 2009: Tell your mom and her mom. 13 years olds are too young to understand and engage in sex. They should concentrate on school not sex. Inform the parents before somebody get pregnant. You are doing your brother, your parents and her parents favours for ... (read in full...)
I don't want a life of emotional abuse! But how do I leave him?
Q. I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. We've been together well over a year, but in the last 4 months things are different. I have written here before about how he started changing and is almost kindof emotionally abusive (name calling), and ...
A. 3 February 2009: This man has a problem but he chose to take it out on you. Do you want to be married to a man who thinks that it's fun to emotionally and physically abuse you? Your low self esteem is a clear evidence of how the abuses affect you. Leave him now. ... (read in full...)
Is it acceptable for a 27 year old to date a 17 year old?
Q. I am a 27 year old guy and have recently found myself in a tricky situation. I really like the sister of my workmate. I have chatted to her a few times, and we had a really great time together at his birthday party. She is drop dead gorgeous and we ...
A. 2 February 2009: Keep in touch as friend first. Waiting for another one year shouldnt be a problem. Once she is 18, it is nobody's business what you two are doing. :D :D ... (read in full...)
How can I get his bunny boiling ex to leave us alone?
Q. Ive been with my bf for over 3 months now and were still having problems with his ex. weve both spoke to her to tell her to back off, we were nice about it at first , because i could understand her being upset, but its getting ridiculous now , shes ...
A. 2 February 2009: It is your bf's problem. Tell him to do something to stop that nuisance or you will give him the marching order. It might hurt you but save you the long term misery. ... (read in full...)
Could it be that I love her after 8 years? I'm married to someone else...
Q. Please help. I need help and advice. I am an unhappily married 46 year old man with two children aged 13 and 8. Heres how the story goes, 8 years ago now I met what I feel was the love of my life, my soulmate. I worked with her 8 years ago and ...
A. 2 February 2009: you already knew the answer why still hold the torch for her?... (read in full...)
Should I give in and have this abortion?
Q. right here goes im 21 years old im pregnant and facing one of the hardest desicions i think il ever have to make......my partner of 5 years and my 2 year old daughters dad has informed me he doesnt want another chid and wants me to have a aborti...
A. 2 February 2009: If he doesnt want another child, he should have discussed with you first before sowing his oats in you NOT after the baby has life in your womb. Let me tell you what, keep the baby no matter what. If he resents you, tell him to take a hike. There ... (read in full...)
He lost his job and he's homeless... should I let my new man move in with me?
Q. the man who i have been seeing for 5 months has just been made redundant and homeless as his flat is in the place he works. He has to be out by 10 feb. he has no job to go to and no home. i have my own place (where i live with my teenage ...
A. 2 February 2009: Do not let the man move in at all lest you end up having to support him and facing difficulty to get him out eventhough you might it clear to him only temporary. Furthermore, you do not know him for long only 5 months. Being your boyfriend does not ... (read in full...)
His Mother hates me because I'm Spanish and I can't stand the way she treats me!
Q. hey just wanted some advice, ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year 1/2 about to be 2 years and we love eachother very very much, we made future plans and all, the problem is his mother. she doesnt like me at all because im spanish. im dominican and ...
A. 2 February 2009: You need to stand up against blatant abuse and racism in here. Holding your tongue would only give her the impression you are weak and submissive thus encourage her to abuse you more often. Take a swipe at her real good then tell the son to take a ... (read in full...)
Letting go of seductive teacher - please help me
Q. Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I have a huge problem that has taken over my life, and I'm looking for advice on how to LET GO. I'll try to not make this too long. Basically, I have a female teacher(single, 40s) who I have finally realized is d...
A. 2 February 2009: This teacher has manipulated and hypnotised you. Get psychologist help before it's too late. ... (read in full...)
My brother moved in and he's so messy!
Q. My brother (and get let fired from his job) and his girlfriend got booted from they'll apartmant. They have been living with me and my boyfriend. My brother has been driving me insane. He hasn't been picking up after hisself, he leaves dashes and ...
A. 1 February 2009: Kick him out before your own life is ruined. He apparently took advantage of you, thinking that since you helped him out by letting him stay with you, you would pick up after him as well as a sister. He wont learn until you throw him out on the ... (read in full...)
Valentine's Day Gift! What to get or do?
Q. Hello everyone! I know that this might be a lame question but... Valentines day! I am a stay at home wife/ mother to be! My husband works and pays bills but I don't have any money. If I need something I ask and I usually get it. Yes I am a little ...
A. 1 February 2009: Since you have no money and you are sick, ever thought of giving him an unforgettable erotic massage and sex? Try licking the back of his ears. Some men are very sensitive in this area. It really turns them on because the process of licking send ... (read in full...)
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