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*nique-angel
writes:Now this isn't racist or nothing like that..and i don't really want a lecture about what religion teaches etc. I'm a Sikh and i know Alot about my faith.So i'm not being brain washed or none of that rubbish.I'm nearly 19-done nothing with a guy. All the guys i've ever met have been total..waste of spaces. But i started talking to this muslim guy yesterday He's so sweet..there is a connection we talked most of yesterday. First time a guy actually cared about the upset that my friends were having.my family etc he wanted to get to no me.wasn't nothing sinsiter.But at night we started getting flirty i said to him i want to flirt back but i don't want you to think im a s__t... he replied saying he think im sweet and that theres a good thing btw us and a connection , he's got a good feeling and that he would never and doesnt think that i am one.We ended up talking and i said i done nothing with a guy and we started having phone sex i felt comfertable we were both whispering.but i put phone down when we started gettin into it.and said im sorry im a s__t now and shouldn't have done it.i felt guilty first time masturbated and loved it!!he emailed me saying sorry and that he doesn't think i am one and im a nice lady.he doesnt want me to think im a s__t.and texted me this morning to ask how i was and he was understanding.I genuinely think he cares and i'm not rushing into things but like he says "we connect"..but i am worrying about our religion.he says theres no barrier just us2 that counts. But i know that if i fall for the guy more then there might be problems. He's 28 muslim i'm 19 sikh.What do you think??all my sikh friends are against cross relationship they think its all about converting! But i'm not even thinking that far.he texts me at work saying im thinking about you babe and awwthanksxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): my sister in humanity, I advice you first to control your emousions toward this gay, and as A human, even Muslim,Hindo,Sikh, Christian, what ever, it is not astable life to have love with any one that who will not pay for it from his time, responsibilty, or cost.
to be a wife for a responsible husband and enjoying love and sexuality behind your closed home doors is the write way of life that God(allah) the creator of humanity teach to animals and normal humans since first ages.
a Muslim man advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): You may be a Sikh and he may be a Muslem, but your relationship is far from both religions. He is not a true Muslem and you are not either a true Sikh if you practise that kind of relationship.
As a Sikh you should not have anything sexual with a man before marriage and also as a Muslem he should not even try to date you nor touch you.
If he continues his flirty/sexual behavior then he is stepping out from his faith. And if you allow that kind of behavior you are not following your faith either. You may feel lust towards him and he may feel lust towards you, and that is about it.
If you do get married to him, then your family would leave you behind since Sikhs do not approve marrying other people from other religions. Is he really worth leaving your family?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): you need to assess what you want in life, i am hindu and just recently split up with my sikh ex gf. She broke up with me because of pressure from her family to get married and now she broke my heart only to tell me she is meeting someone in a couple of weeks after 3 years of being with me.
What do you want becasue if you get with this guy you will end up having sex especially after you just had phone sex, so he will be expecting it, now think about what you want, if you fall in love with this guy it will be hard on both of you and your families will go beserk specially yours, he is my age so i gurantee he is looking for just sex, now you have come on the scene he will use you, if you are willing to take the risk and have fun then do it but if you fall in love it wont be a proper relationship because it will be undercover, and depending on both your families you will have to think about what you are giving up....if you do fall in love and want to get married!!!
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reader, Auntie Stoned  +, writes (17 February 2009):
If you just want a relationship with him, then it's okay whoever he is. However, if the relationship proceeds to serious and marriage comes into question (you might not ready yet but for him as 28 years old probably he is looking), then you better listen to your friends. Marrying him means conversion because according to his religion, the partner must be a Muslim and in order to bring up the children as Muslim, the mother must be a good Muslim even though in the older days, Muslims can marry People of the Book. But for Sikh, it means conversion. Think carefully, my dear.
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