A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi all and i'd like to thank you in advance for any replies x I have been married for almost ten years and have a 6 year old son. From time to time my husband flies off the handle at very small issues with me, he yells and curses at me over that is then followed by silence for days and an awful atmosphere, he really makes me feel like he hates me. I have tried on numerous occasions to talk to him about this but he wont, he tells me im being stupid and makes me feel small. He very rarely apologises eventually he just starts speaking to me again. I know im not perfect but i would never make him feel the way he makes me feel, i couldnt be nasty to him or call him the names he calls me as i dont think its a nice thing to do but also i dont know how he would react. Can i have some help please? xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Auntie Stoned  +, writes (6 February 2009):
I could understand how you feel being married to an abusive man. Get him to go for some professional help because ultimately the way he behaves towards you is affecting you and most likely the son will pick up after the father's behaviour. If he refuses, issue ultimatum and see a lawyer. You owe your son to a better life without an abusive father.
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