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female
age
30-35,
*ampyricHybrid
writes:My boyfriend of a year and a half has been talking to his best friend. He's been doing this behind my back, I'm pissed about it. My boyfriend's best friend and also his twin brother were doing methamphetamine's on my boyfriend's father's front porch. My boyfriend's Dad came out and caught them and they told him that they were my boyfriend's and my drugs. Keep in mind, their parents are divorced, my boyfriend lives in another town with his mother. They then proceeded to call his mother and tell her that I'd been allowing this to happen and encouraging it. I talked to my boyfriend's twin brother about it, he's the one who didn't even try to defend my boyfriend nor I. And, yes, I was very angry with him about it. I asked him why they had done this and he said he had done it because he wanted his brother to be with him and not me, he'd also included that his brother was a failure and would be better off living with his father, who is very abusive. Keep in mind my boyfriend's brother is a drug addict and a very persistent thief. My boyfriend then talked to his best friend and asked him why he had done this, his answer was that I was trying to take him away and that I did not care about my boyfriend. First of all, I have put up with so many b.s. things from my soon to be brother in law and my boyfriend's supposed best friend that it's pathetic. I love my boyfriend very dearly, and we are getting married soon. Why does he insist on talking to his best friend, after all he's done? He encourages him to steal, drink, and do drugs, all behind my back.
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reader, Auntie Stoned +, writes (8 February 2009):
Blood is thicker than water. When you marry a man, you marry his family and his friends. Are you ready for the rough roller coaster ride? The best friend and twin bro already stabbed in your back before you even become his family, making you a scapegoat. And your bf didnt even stand up for you. I suggest you delay this marriage plan.
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