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20 January 2011: when i was younger i used to think about life how it would play out if i would meet the right person my soul mate well i don't no weither i can say soul mate is the right word but i found him in the strangest place believe it or not in a doctors ...
Is he/she cheating
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18 November 2007: if you thing your girl or guy is cheating look at what they act like if there acting superstitious always saying oh im going out or at my mates tonight then they might be hiding something from you its not neserserily that they are cheating but ...
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Am I being dumped or is this salvagable..or do I want to run.
Q. So I was or maybe still am seeing this guy, I met him about a 7 weeks ago. For the last three weekends we have spent the time together. He told me that he was out of his relationship his marriage for a long time, but i found out he was actually ...
A. 23 January 2011: get out of it as quick as you can this sounds like a dumping to me and he sounds like he can't make his mind up about you or this other woman maybe you sound be the one to make it easier for him as he will go for this other women anyway this is the ... (read in full...)
I pushed my fiancee into having a boob job and now I regret it
Q. I'll probably get criticised for this............... I always had a thing about boob jobs on women n although my fiancee had nice size breasts and a fantastic figure i constantly went on to her about wanting her to have one. Stupid i know. ...
A. 21 January 2011: men what is up with you people we do what you want and you still don't like it get over yourself you think that know she has this confidence she will find someone better well let me tell you this she obviously loves you enough to get that done the ... (read in full...)
Am I bisexual because I want to kiss a female?
Q. Lately i have been having this thought about wanting to kiss a female for the very first time, i am sure this is normal but i guess i never have because i think females dont like me, is it because i dont have the lesbian look or is i have to come ...
A. 21 January 2011: I thought the very same thing i wanted to kiss a female i eventually did it felt good but i still didn't see no harm in it as it was a close friend yes we used tongue but i didn't get turned on by it. but it still bothered me i wanted to no if i was ... (read in full...)
I can't get a new guy because I'm too fat. I lost my ex over it. Best dieting tips please?
Q. I want to diet but if I don't satisfy my hunger, I get migranes! Also, if I'm nervous or bored my stomach growls so loud, it's embarrasing!. I want to diet because my ex refuses to say I'm hot, or sexy because I'm so fat. And I can't get an...
A. 21 January 2011: well that isn't your problem your boyfriend isn't good enough for you if your a big lady so what it's your choice you will find the right person your just have to stop looking and never doubt yourself always have your head held high because everyone ... (read in full...)
Why do women often think too much into how to act with their guy?
Q. Why don't girls realize how easy it is to be a "catch?" I see so many posts that involve girls who will resist some sexual acts, or just being sexually aggressive, because they don't want their partners to think they are a slut. That's just not ...
A. 21 January 2011: this is really on the ball point my sister is in the worst relationship i try to make her realise it's actually her fault she is unbelievably clingy so obsessed and well basically the total opposite of what you are saying have you any idea how to ... (read in full...)
Should I go for a sugar daddy?
Q. Hello everyone Ok i meet a guy online,the site was for ''sugar dadies and sugar babies'' lol so he contacted me and we had a coffee he is wonderful,rich,smart and very nice to be around with,he is 47,i am 19 yeah he can be my dad.lol he is willi...
A. 21 January 2011: well you like this older male who's rich, smart and very nice to be around one question YOU have to ask yourself is do you like him for just them reasons or would you like to be his sugar baby because on what your saying it doesn't actually show any ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to think of my girlfriend when masturbating?
Q. should i masterbate thinking about my girlfriend? i have just started dating her but i had a crush on her for years? i kind of feel bad thinking of her in such a way ?help please........
A. 20 January 2011: this is perfectly normal my fiance when we were first dating said he does the same thing i was quite happy made me feel beautiful and loved so i think its fine for you to think of your girlfriend in that way and if you told her it would be almost a ... (read in full...)
My family didn't even say thank you for the presents I sent them!
Q. I am living out of my country 3 years ago, my family members are all in my own country and I don't have any relatives here, just my husband. This Christmas I decided buy and send some presents from here to my country to ALL my family members....
A. 11 January 2011: Do you know, i never got a thankyou from my family members either and they live in the same contry as me and i gave it to them face to face i confronted them about it and they said im awfully sorry but with christmas and new year its just so busy at ... (read in full...)
Why is my mum like this?!
Q. help i really don't know what to do, i don't feel like i can let my mum be so controling all the time. Everyone in my house tip toes around her, she is self employed but never puts in effort to get work so we live off my dads wage. She has ruined e...
A. 11 January 2011: I used to feel the same way infact my mother was actually worse. Have you always felt like the middle child, like no one is listening to you or even wants to? I know it doesn't seem like the best thing to do asking he why she acts that way but if ... (read in full...)
Porn, relationships, and confidence of women today.
Q. Okay, so i'm just going to talk about relationships and porn and let me know your opinions on what I have to say, if you're a woman that doesn't mind her man looking at it then fair enough but don't come ranting how us women who aren't are ...
A. 27 February 2010: Yes these women have gloyfied bodies and gorgoes tans but this does not meen they want a women like that they do it because of the looks but try to understand men need women with a good peronality too someone they love for who they are if them ... (read in full...)
I keep looking at other women!
Q. Hey people ive got a problem, i currently have a girlfriend but every time im with her, i subconsciously look at other women's behinds or breasts?! i know its a bad thing but i dont do it on purpose! weve been together for about months now a...
A. 27 February 2010: Look This is not bad at all the reason why she understands is becuase very man does this it is natural i bet your girlfriend does the same thing it doesn't meen you want to leave your partner it just says you are a natural human being and also says ... (read in full...)
Will I get thinner with age, and will this help my relationship problem?
Q. I have always been rather paranoid about my weight for good reasons, but recently i have begun to notice a differnce after looking in the mirror. I'm 13, and in biology we are learning about metabolism etc. I wondered if during adolesence your ...
A. 18 November 2007: maybe yh personaly i dont even no what that word is
just dont give up and dont go on a diet cause youve heard about what happens i bet they go anorexic... (read in full...)
We are virgins and want to loose it to each others, but how do I know she is really ready for this and not just does it anyway?
Q. Hiya well i have 3 things i want to ask you but they both really come into one. Well me and my gf have been going out about 8 months and are very much in love we know each ther inside out because we have been friends since we were like 5. I stop ...
A. 18 November 2007: well this is ok and you can tell that she wants it if she has a smile and she sujested it didnt she so i dont really think she doesnt want to do it but you can tell by watching that look on her face when you talk to her about it if she has a wierd ... (read in full...)
Should I be patient, or walk away.
Q. I am seeing a married man, and have been for nearly a year. I also work with him. He has been married for a number of years and has two children (18 and 14). He has told me that he loves me, is not in love with his wife and he even left home ...
A. 18 November 2007: well it depends is he cting like he loves you and not his wife so he can get more action ? but if youve been seeing each other for nearly a year he isnt yes he probably loves you but he loves his kids and dont want to lose his kids it is hard in ... (read in full...)
She insults me for no reason
Q. ok.I have this "friend" of mine..I know she is not an evil person, but has probably many things unsolved and is coming 3 times in public place(ex club) to shout on me inslutnig me without reason. I found myself no more capable to bear that, and i ...
A. 18 November 2007: keep away from her tell her i dont want to hang around with you and find something really clever and nasty to say and say it infront of all her friends and everyone make sure you shout it and if she tries to hit you say dont bother ill brake your ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my family to treat me like this??
Q. Hi, well in my situation is about my family they blame me for everything thats wrong or if somthing bad happens and then they start screaming and shouting and arguing all through the day and make me feel guilty and pick on me and on top of all this ...
A. 18 November 2007: i youst to go through the egsact same it is i no this is a personal question but have you started your period if yes this could be the cause of you thinking veryone is aginst you and if they beat you up as you say then this is wrong extreamly dont ... (read in full...)
I got angry at my mother, so I stormed out of the room offensively. Is this normal?
Q. Last night I got very mad at my mom and yelled at her and called her a bitch. She was listening to me talk about all the losers I've been dating (one was my ex-fiance I dumped a month ago). She just kept saying things like "I told you you shouldn't ...
A. 18 November 2007: yes they would but you have got to understand that your mother cares about you and she has seen you hurt so she is hurt but yes people do act the same ... (read in full...)
My bf is very controlling, I feel I'm living with my parents again. I don't want to leave him thinking of my son's stability. What to do?
Q. hey cupid...I think I hate my boyfriend. I mean he is a great guy who wants to take care of me and he is the father of my son. But he wants to be in control. And I dont just mean some times I mean all the time. He alwasy wants to know were I am and ...
A. 18 November 2007: you need to talk to your boyfriend about the situation if he loves you he will understand but if your just staying with him because of your child things will get worse and you will regret it ... (read in full...)
I was due to move into his house. Out of nowhere, he doesn't feel the same. What can I do?
Q. Hi There, my ex- boyfriend dumped me a week ago after 18 months together. I was due to move into his house and bought a car for this purpose. I hadn't seen him the weekend before because he said he was sick. During the week when he rang I was cool ...
A. 18 November 2007: well he might be a little anxious i meen people tell you
oh your moving to quick if you want id look at my article it gives info about cheating that maybe what he was doing if you didnt see him for ages you best off asking him and if he has got ... (read in full...)
Playing hard to get?
Q. hi guys... i went to this party on friday night and this guy was there who i've liked for a few months now! he's 23 and i'm 17 but he's got me head over heels. All his mates say he only goes out with a girl if she's drop dead gorgeous but he's been ...
A. 18 November 2007: well chick this guy is probably scared you dont like him or he just doesnt have courage when hes drunk maybe you should tell him how you feel and see what he says but do it when he's sober and not around no-one i dont think this guy is playing hard ... (read in full...)
Is my friend's strategy valid? - to make women like him.
Q. I recently spoke to one of my guy friends about how he gets girls/woman to like him ( because he always seems to have woman on the go) He said that he gives them attention and then cuts it off and this makes them want more? What do you think? Doe...
A. 18 November 2007: well i have a met a lot of guy like your guy mate and yes it does sometimes but only for guys i no that sounds stupid ill tell you what you should do act your self if you want guys by your side but i tell its better having just one. but it can work ... (read in full...)
How long should you wait until sex? I'm 12.
Q. I am 12 i have a felling to have sex but i know it is wrong and i wont do it. Just to tell you now my b/f is not pressuring me but we both know it is wrong so we will wait. what age should i wait until? My b/f and i have been going out for about 5 ...
A. 18 November 2007: ok your 12 i had the exsact same feeling and i did it love dont do it and can i ask how old is your boy friend?
if same age then it is ok wait till your a bit older and i bet yopu aint been going out with him that long thats ok i lied just to get ... (read in full...)
I don't want my ex to have our child with a new guy.
Q. Hi all, Heres the situaton... Me and my ex had been together for 2 years 10 months and have always been happy, but also argued alot... Anyway about 2 months ago me and her broke up. almost 2 days after the brake up she was with another guy...and s...
A. 18 November 2007: ok i wouldnt have said about the taking the child off her and if he doesnt no then tell him but pratend its on acceident aswell if you want her back then tell her and tell her you dont want her new bf near your child or get a blood test because it ... (read in full...)
Can long distance relationships work?
Q. I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 plus long distance, can it work, is it wrong? Basically, I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 and i need to know is it wrong baring in mind that we're in it for dating until she's old enough but even so is it wrong beca...
A. 18 November 2007: 2 years distance please when i was 13 i was with a 16 year old adn im 15 now he is 18 so we've been together for to years ive got a kid with him but thats ok im not scared at all i was but im not now you will soon get over the age dif and the long ... (read in full...)
Is this age gap important?
Q. is it ok to have a relationship,when the boy is 17years old and the girl is 21years old?age gap?...
A. 18 November 2007: 4 years is no were near bad my mum is engaged to a guy who is 5 years younger than her and if you love him and he loves you theres nothing to worry about i meen i have talked to people on here who have a guy who is 25 years younger than them and a ... (read in full...)
Is there a reason he's keeping me a secret from his friends and family?
Q. the family of my boyfriend does not know about me!! my boyfriend is 36 years old and im 21, he is a trustworthy men, really honest... sometimes too much, some months ago something was happening, relative often he was telling me stories about hi...
A. 18 November 2007: maybe he's not over his girlfriend yet it is ok a lot of men aint and maybe he is waiting for the right time to come to show you to his family and friends. maybe aswell he doesnt want his parents to upset you maybe they are really picky and his ... (read in full...)
Is it stupid to follow his way of life because I want to stay with him?
Q. I am 42 just divorced my husband. I lost all my confident and directions. All I do is stay in the house shut myself out from the outside world. Then I met this man. He is 17 years older than me. He gets me out of the house and helps me to think ...
A. 18 November 2007: right again the age it isnt so big people do this veryday get married and just get together with a guy older than them dont freat and have you tried talkin to him about this way of life buisness have you ever thought he just wants to be alone with ... (read in full...)
Do I really love him for who he is or just for who I want him to be? Was he using me all this time?
Q. hi everyone i'm 21f my problem is my bf is 49 years old! we've been together for 7 years now i love him so much i had sex with him when i was 15. and now i read that i'm attracted to him cuz he fills the space that my father left when he passed a...
A. 18 November 2007: if you've been with this guy for 7 years he would ahve finished it by now if he was using you and he didnt love you and if you didnt love him you would have broke it off dont worry it's probably getting you worried because of the age difference an ... (read in full...)
I'm divorcing my husband. Will I be able to love again?
Q. Im divorcing my husband. We've been married for 22 years and have a daughter. Our marriage has up and down and I've been trying very hard to save it. It's so painful to make the decision to end it. At 45 I suddenly realised life is too short I ...
A. 18 November 2007: maybe you do love him but you are scared to face the facts of what life will bring it will go well for you ... (read in full...)
Is she serious?
Q. Hi, I am 23 years old, i met a woman online, at first it was just fun and as the relation got deeper and longer i felt more and more for her, she is sweet and lovely, she got 4 kids, the youngest one is older than me by two years, i dream to meet ...
A. 18 November 2007: dont think that this guy that is older than you going to wreck it because if he cares about his mum then he wouldnt as well it depends if you write back and tell me what she says i can tell you if its just beacuse she wants fun dont let the age ... (read in full...)
I'm torn - do I break up with him or not?
Q. Im 18 and my boyfriend (24) who i have been with for a year have hit a bump in our relationship. Clearly you can see there is an age gap between us, and that is part of the problem. He's wanting more out of our relationship, more of a commitment. ...
A. 18 November 2007: simply ask him if he could move some where close to you and then move in so you can do this corse and still see your family and friends you'll get through it if you love each other so much... (read in full...)
I am very worried, why hasn't he called me back?
Q. I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much ...
A. 18 November 2007: dont look on the bad side maybe he's lost your number or broke his phone you never know call back and if he's making excuses maybe he isn't ready for a relationship right now maybe he's just slit with his girlsfriend but he dosnt want to tell you ... (read in full...)
I'm a teenager, I'm obsessed about sex and only like older males. Any advice?
Q. I'm a 15-year old girl, and I have a problem. I'm completely obsessed with sex (sure, since I'm a teenager) and have decided that I'm absolutely ready to have sex now! The problem is, I am not at all attracted to boys my age (or even boys close to ...
A. 18 November 2007: we all do that when we are teens we need to try it out but you want a guy thats had more practice dont just do it because you want it that aint the right step i was 12 when i first had sex that was because i wanted it so bad i go turned on and im ... (read in full...)
She was my babysitter.
Q. My questions are regarding an older woman. She is eleven years older than me. Perhaps some background would be helpful. The woman we are talking about I have known for a very long time. She was first my babysitter and then she helped me with ...
A. 18 November 2007: maybe she changes the subject because shes scared that you have maybe noticed she loves you if she didnt care for you then why would she let you hang about with her and 11 yrs is nothing at all if you like her ask her if she likes you when sno one ... (read in full...)
Sexual remarks, flirtation and mind games from my teacher. I know it's wrong, but I'd go on anyway. How do I control myself?
Q. hi im 14 and hav had a major crush on my science teacher for well over a year.at first i hated his guts -he looked at me consantly and said/did innapropriate things(winks;sexual remarks;touching), i always felt really uneasy.however one day during a ...
A. 18 November 2007: hi chick listen its may be hard to stop but dont give in to temptation hust simply move away from hium if he comes near you ignore him in everyway and ask your parents to come and get you because your teacher is some what busy in school and stuff ... (read in full...)
What shall I do about my shy guy??
Q. A guy that ive kissed twice is soon to return from a month abroad. After our first kiss he rarely contacted me. He later apologised for this, putting it down to shyness and promised that he would contact me when he came home. Now as I await his ...
A. 18 November 2007: ok so this guy is shy maybe he just things you dont like him dont think that he doesnt like you because that may not be the answer maybe he wants more than friendship but a relationship if your in a realtionship and just started maybe hes worried ... (read in full...)
Are my feelings for my gay friend more than friendship??
Q. Hi this is a difficult one and maybe a bit of a long story I’ve just met a guy in sixth form been mates with him a few months, he’s gay I do have lots of gay friends, so initially where just friends all the way we are very similar to each other, and ...
A. 18 November 2007: he may be gay but he may have the same feelings have you ever thought about asking him he is oviously a realy close friend so he won't freak out i bet loads of girls like him or maybe its just because your a really close friend and your just dont ... (read in full...)
We have a child together but he doesn't want to leave his wife, how do I cope with this?
Q. well this is going to be long. Nearly two years ago I started an affair with a married man ( i was married too). After 5 months or so I was pregnant. I knew it was his child and he never doubted that. He stood by me and our relationship grew. We ...
A. 18 November 2007: hi im anna does his wife no Yes- why no keep him close to you as a friend if you want him as more that this then just tell him this as well if he is not talking to you totally ignoring youi and letting you down and your child down then call him... (read in full...)
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