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writes:A guy that ive kissed twice is soon to return from a month abroad. After our first kiss he rarely contacted me. He later apologised for this, putting it down to shyness and promised that he would contact me when he came home. Now as I await his return, I'm worried that history will repeat itself and the contact will be sporadic. What do guys reckon i should do...wait for him to do the contacting or maybe help things along myself? Its frustrating, i know we both like each other but as a friend put it, she's never seen a guy 'as bad as him before' meaning shyness wise. help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI happily thank anyone who replied to my question. the guy in my question returned early in december and we met up the following weekend. he has been great since, ringing or texting almost every day and we have met up at least once a week since. he is still shy and reserved in ways but we've made a lot of progress and I sure hope to wait around to help the reservedness unravel further! Tahnks again , much appreciated
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reader, AnnaW219  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 ok so this guy is shy maybe he just things you dont like him dont think that he doesnt like you because that may not be the answer maybe he wants more than friendship but a relationship if your in a realtionship and just started maybe hes worried about you finishing him because he loves you so much cases like these most always get better. just hold on to him and show him you love him just dont let go you want more anwers contact me
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): I would wait if I were you. I mean you should put more trust in his word to you. If he said he would call then you should trust him that he will. Why waste your time liking someone that you don't even trust??
So if you don't trust his word to you, then you should just move on now rather than later.
A guy who likes you will pursue you. You could call him if you want but it is not going to change the way that he feels about you. So just let him do the pursuing. He knows your number.
P.S. The whole shyness thing is just an excuse.
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