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AnnaW219
writes:if you thing your girl or guy is cheating look at what they act like if there acting superstitious always saying oh im going out or at my mates tonight then they might be hiding something from you its not neserserily that they are cheating but something is going on but only if they are doing it all the time not one in a while and as well if they keep getting phone calls messages and all the rest check them and listen to what she or he says what she or he sounds like if she or he was using the samevoice they used before then something is definatly wrong read my next columbs about all the stuff you need to no Reply to this Article
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reader, keep it real  +, writes (14 December 2007):
I beleive you feel that she is not being honest with you.Whether or not this is because you have seen people do things in the past that causes you to mistrust before you trust or that you did things in the past that made you realize that others were capable of lying to each other .Either way you are aware of the human potential to hurt each other in love.Its tread carefully though.I wouldn't jump to the conclusion she is cheating without the benefit of the doubt.You may ruin the relationship by mistrusting her to the point you beleive she is someone she just is not.I would keep a journal and see if a pattern emerges.It would be a shame to scare away someone who secretly went out shopping for a birthday present for you and you mistook it for cheating...
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reader, Chemer +, writes (21 November 2007):
 Not sure really if my WIfe was cheating on me. But she did go to the Gym more hours than I think even an Olympic gymnast would need. One day I fell asleep and looked at the time. She was supposed to come back at around 6 from work. But she was not in the house. I swear I checked all around. Anyway I fell asleep as I was so worried. When I got up she was in bed. She swears to this day that she came back at the right time and I got it wrong. But I am sure she went somewhere in secret.I always feel that Affairs are great when they are little Secrets and someone doesn't know what is going on. But when its all done and dusted it stops being fun.In the past I was a naughty lad and went with a lot of Married Women. I did not care so I supposed this is Karma paying me back.Of course on June 24th she told me that she wanted to leave me and that she didn't love me anymore. I was not really surprised the Marriage had finally come to a stand still. The candle had well and truly burned out. It was just one of us had to make the move.She used to go to the Gym with a bloke, but she swore he was GAY and nothing was in it. Yet I was never introduced to him which I found odd.I should have realized really as i used to be the other man and I have heard all the excuses under the Sun that the Women said to their Husbands. Late Night Shopping. Going to a Friends to stay the night. Gym, Sauna, getting Hair Done. Or even the funniest one was that one shop did not sell proper Electricity Meter cards so she had to go a few miles to get some. The thing is I used to think they were gullible. But now I realize if you love someone you will believe anything as I did believe the pack of lies Sarah told me.Hugs,Steve xx
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (19 November 2007):
 I totally disagree with checking peoples messages etc.
I had nothing to hide but I have previously ended a relationship as I have a lot of female friends, my girlfriend at the time read into things, paranoia was implanted, jealousy stirred up and trust ruined, on both sides. Never a good idea.
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