Is my boyfriend lying to me? Can you use Facebook chat on your phone?
Q. Can you use the chatting part of facebook on your phone? My boyfriend has his wall hidden from me, i guess. i cant see it, just his photos. i asked him about it and he said it has something to do with the facebook app he has on his iphone. However,...
A. 18 April 2011: Yes you can chat on the phone. Sounds like you don't trust him though. Maybe you should ask yourself why.
If it was something more important or serious would you trust and believe him?... (read in full...)
Should we have a threesome?
Q. I am happily married for 12 years and sex is great.me and my husband fantasies lately of getting a man in and the thought arouse both of us but I am unsure.we have been kinky before but never had intercourse with someone else.we also are more ...
A. 18 April 2011: If you don't want to do a threesome, then don't do it. You will only regret it later.
If on the other hand you would like to do it then by all means.
Don't be forced into anything.... (read in full...)
My dad is having an affair, how should I handle this?
Q. Hi all, Sorry 4 the length. I had to explain in detail. I am so confused. I got an anonymous call with a hidden i.d a woman informed me that my father has a mistress and is willing to marry her. He is 58 years n has been married to my mum for 3...
A. 18 April 2011: I am so sorry you are caught up in such a nasty situation. What your dad is doing is clearly wrong but, i have to agree with Dirtball; you should stay well clear of it.
You may think you are doing your mum a favour but, if you tell her and they brea... (read in full...)
My 3rd cousin is checking me out. Does he want me to help him with relationships?
Q. I have a small concern and issue. I havent seen my cousin for many years. He is my third cousin so we are that distant. Well we moved to a new town and we just happen to run into each other. Him and my fiancée are really good friends. Well I have ...
A. 25 March 2011: Well, if your fiance is supportive of you and you really do want to 'help him out' then by all means. But, what if your fiance uses it as a reason not to marry you? I mean, think it through. You are an adult.... (read in full...)
Am I asking too many specific questions about her sexual past?
Q. My girlfriend and I are very much in love and very open in talking about our sexual past, although I tend to ask a lot of questions and she does not. I know she feels a bit uncomfortable talking about detail, so I don't ask too many questions, but ...
A. 25 March 2011: When my partner and i started dating, i asked her some of these same questions. Many years on, i still ask her a couple of questions. And no, i do not have issues with my confidence. Most folks want to know a bit about their partner's past. ... (read in full...)
While on a break, my BF met his ex, she straddled him and exposed her breasts! Now he's unsure about us together!
Q. my boyfriend asked for a break to clear his head.. on the break he told me he went to see a girl he's slept with before and she straddled him and took off her top showing my bf her breasts and told him how much she wanted him. But my bf said he ...
A. 7 February 2011: Well, maybe the episode with the ex gf unsettled him a bit but you certainly did not help matters by blowing up like you did.
I mean, if nothing happened, why did he tell you? Have you thought about that? It wasn't like you caught him in the act.... (read in full...)
My daughter is causing me so much stress just now...
Q. Hello, I posted on here recently regarding problem with my daughter and her BF who is here 2/3 nights a week. I got some really helpful answers regarding him paying his way. However since that time, another serious problem has happened and I ...
A. 7 February 2011: You daughter is 23; let her go and find her own place to live.
Where i live, people her age already own a property or two.
I'm surprised she is not only living with you, but her Bf as well!
The way she has behaved towards you is unacceptable... (read in full...)
He called me his ex's name!
Q. Last night my boyfriend and I were in bed and I was kissing him and he turned round and said 'No *****' (Not my name) so I imediately jumped up and said what did you just call me?? He tried to grab me and hug me and said sorry but at least I was ...
A. 3 February 2011: It happened to me once and her excuse was that the guy was the first guy she had sex with.
For me, the relationship was over !
It could be nothing but, it could also be that he still has some issues to resolve regarding his relationship with her... (read in full...)
Is he avoiding/ignoring me because I wouldn't have sex with him?
Q. Just wanted to get a guy's perspective on this: I've been dating a guy for about 2 months, we seemed to get along, joke, talk about sports (yes I like sports), and he's been affectionate with me, however we haven't had sex. He's been dropping hi...
A. 3 February 2011: For most guys, the motto is clear; no sex, no relationship.
I certainly played by that rule when i was still single.
But i mean, if you don't feel like having sex with this guy, then don't.... (read in full...)
Why did he stop running back to me?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend and now he has a gilfriend. I'm fuming because she's prettier and nicer then me. All of our mutual friends adore her. She's nice to me to and that pisses me off. How could my boyfriend move on from me so fast?!!! He ...
A. 3 February 2011: When hillary Clinton forgave her husband for his philadering, factions of the Womens Lib were up in arms; 'how could she forgive him? Dump the cheating rat etc...'
Fast forward a few years and everyone is saying how wise and sensible she was to stic... (read in full...)
Boyfriend seeing another girl?
Q. My boyfriend and I had spoke about this before and we decided to try it. We were both down for it happening. Well we had sex with another couple. They are friends of ours. And when we did it we had fun. We were of course a little on the drunk ...
A. 2 February 2011: I also had this fantasy but luckily i did not act it out. This, is one of the dangers of acting out fantasies.
I am not saying he is cheating on you. All i'm saying is, there is actually a possibility.
If you guys were open enough to have fun with... (read in full...)
I'm acting on my fetish with other women -- should I keep it a secret?
Q. I am a male in my 40,s with a foot fetish. I am becoming more obsessed with this and now even pay local ladies to enjoy their feet. I do this even though i have an understanding fiance who lets me enjoy and play with her feet. It is somewhat ...
A. 2 February 2011: I have heard men complain that their wives or partners are not understanding or willing enough, but you have one who is and yet, she is not enough.
If she accommodates your fetish then why go to the others? Your fetish desires could be spir... (read in full...)
He works so much I feel like a single parent
Q. The roads are treacherous and icy today, the kids are home from school. My husband, although having the option (from his boss) to work from home, got up before the crack of dawn and spent over two hours to get to his office in a commute that ...
A. 2 February 2011: How do you behave when he is home? You mentioned that you guys have been for counseling; was it also work-related?
The reason i'm asking is because i had an uncle who would go straight from work to the pub (not to get drunk) or restaurant beca... (read in full...)
I had a miscarriage and am afraid to tell my boyfriend
Q. I was 3 months pregnant and started having really bad tummy pains... My boyfriend, who i live with, said its just something to do with the pregnancy and told me not to worry about it, whilst he was doing his paper round i decided to talk to his mum ...
A. 30 January 2011: I'm sorry to hear that you lost your pregnancy but, you have got to tell him. You sound like you don't want to lose him and all that but, you cannot build a relationship on being dishonest. You can't make him stay with you if he does not want to.... (read in full...)
He comments that I smell great. Does he want to date me?
Q. There is this guy at my gym who will on occasion tease me about my workouts. He will make comments about the machines I am on and the weight I am lifting. Then one day I am getting a protein shake and he walks up to me and say's god you smell ...
A. 30 January 2011: Oh yes, he is interested in you alright. I mean, if you like what you see and what you hear then, go for it. Pay him a compliment the next time you see him. ... (read in full...)
I feel like he is pushing religion on me, but he keeps asking me out
Q. A man asked me out that I met at a party. We met up for drinks and it appeared to go smoothly. he invited me out for a fancy dinner a few days later. I accepted. I am 48 and he is 50. The evenign started out soo good until the subject of religion ...
A. 30 January 2011: It has been said that most of the ills in the world today has religoin as its source.
I am a christian but this is my motto; live and let live.
No matter how nice a person is, what one should not do is try to shove ones religion down the throat o... (read in full...)
Can we still be friends after what he said?
Q. Me and a guy friend were talking online and the conversation some how turned to our past. (We used to be sort of friends with benefits) he's with another girl now so we agreed to stay friends even though i found it very hard. The FWB thing ended ...
A. 30 January 2011: Staying friends with him is cool but it is optional. If for any reason you feel you are getting the short end of the stick, then by all means tell him so and put an end to the 'friendship.'
Staying 'friends' after a relationship or in your case... (read in full...)
He won't like it that I went out to the club -- should I tell him?
Q. So my frineds and I go Out To eat And after That they want To go To the club of course I'm the driver for tonight I'm engaged and I know if I tell him that we when to the club he is going to flip but I'm not drinking nor am i dancing with any guys ...
A. 30 January 2011: The question is; how would you feel if you find out that he went to the club with his friends?
It is not about control, it is about trust.
Tell him where you went.... (read in full...)
What can I do about my noisy stomach!
Q. I have a problem at school with being nervous during class because I think my stomach is going to make noises because it's so embarrassing. When the class is quiet my stomach starts to make noise but I realized that the only time my stomach makes ...
A. 30 January 2011: the same thing happened to me when i was at Uni. You are spot on when you say it is due to being nervous although, hunger can also be a cause of rumbling stomach. Interestingly, my stomach is rumbling as i am typing this, though this is due the fact... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to hit me.. Is this normal?
Q. For some reason, I have a strong desire to be in an abusive relationship with a guy. I want to be hit, thrown to the ground, or pushed into a wall. I'm not sure if this is normal or not though. My boyfriend seems like the kind of guy who may do ...
A. 29 January 2011: I do not want to sound judgmental but, you need to see a doctor and explain exactly how you feel.
There are millions of women running away from physical abuse and there you are actually looking for it!
I have read and actually heard that there wo... (read in full...)
Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?
Q. Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...
A. 28 January 2011: It's the same old line men feed to women; she is trying to eat her cake and have it.
I am sorry you are in love with a married woman but, maybe you should start thinking about yourself.
Look for someone who is single and free. I tell you, it is le... (read in full...)
I cheated and my boyfriend ended things
Q. Hello, right now i feel like shit,i have been a bit bad and cheated the odd time. Its lead to break up after break up,he wont let it drop. I have never admitted it as he will end it,i know he wont come back if i do. He turned off his phone last ...
A. 28 January 2011: Why don't you just own up? I think it would make life a lot easier.
Maybe, you guys could start on a clean slate.
Ask yourself why you cheated and see if you could avoid doing so in the future.
There is no place for cheating in a relationship... (read in full...)
My husband is hot tempered and abusive. Please give me advice!
Q. Please help me. I got married 5 months ago. My husband is easily angered, abuses me, and sometimes he physically beats me in the process. He can be happy when he is happy, but can be very very angry when he is not. During courtship, I didn't ...
A. 27 January 2011: Well, i'm sorry to hear of the pains you are experiencing after just a few months of getting married.
I would have adviced you to leave him immediately but, you stated that you do not wish to do that.
As far as i am concerned though, a man who lift... (read in full...)
Should I be asking so much about my girl friend's past lovers or should I let it rest? It bothers me so much
Q. Ok. I met my sons mom in 2003,.,we now have a 6 year old son together. back in the begining when we first met we had one of those open conversations about the past.The things she told me didnt bother me at first, then because of the timeline she ...
A. 26 January 2011: I asked my wife similar questions when we got back together.
This is one area where fear of how you might react may lead a woman to tell half the truth.
If you love her and you can take the TRUTH, then tell her that you can take the bitter truth. T... (read in full...)
How genuine is my guy? I've helped him so much, and yet I feel excluded from his life.
Q. My guy is a plumber by profession. I love him very much and we been in love for three years. When he had little money on him last year i rented an apartment for him, fed him through last year. Yet i don't know much about his life. He excludes me ...
A. 26 January 2011: I'm sorry to have tell you this but, the guy is just using you.
Dump him like yesterday !... (read in full...)
Was I wrong as I was not behaving professionally?
Q. I recently had a stomach infection. When I went to see my doctor, who knows my family very well, advised me to be hospitalized. He used to check my whole abdomen daily in the hospital and I never felt shied from him. He was also very friendly with ...
A. 20 January 2011: If you are that self-conscious, ask for a female doctor or go with someone close to you.... (read in full...)
I am hooked on this mystery with a very private man!
Q. I have not been so out of wits in relationships...this man totally confuses me to the extent that i have no idea if he is using me, or lying to me, or he is so into me that he worries and withdraws.... we met on line and were attracted to eac...
A. 20 January 2011: I was going to ask you how old you were then, i saw you are between 36-40. Now, i'm not making light of your predicament (if i may refer to it as such) but, all the signs are glaringly obvious - your mystery man is MARRIED.
I'm so sorry but, ask ... (read in full...)
She's everything that I wish my wife was!
Q. My wife 10 yrs together/8yrs married and me have been separated for over 2 months now. The reason being was because of infidelity on my part. I take full responsibilities for my actions and while we were talking separation before anything had ...
A. 26 December 2010: Well, from what you wrote, it appears your wife is either waiting for you to make the first move ie. leave or, she does not have a clue in regards to her obligations in a marriage.
Either way, you have made more than enough overtures to get her atte... (read in full...)
Don't all guys like anal?
Q. Don't all guys like anal? My boyfriend of 2 years begged me to try but now won't even come close to that region...i feel embarrassed cause i thought all guys liked anal. help? :( ...
A. 19 December 2010: Different strokes for different folks. Not all men like anal.
Like some of the responses say, he tried it and probably found out it wasn't his cup of tea.
Try to speak with him though. ... (read in full...)
Did I make the right choice by asking him to leave?
Q. My boyfriend and i got into a huge fight about a week and a half ago. For the last month i have felt that he has been acting a bit strange. He seems a little distant, kind of quiet, sleeping alot. We do seem to be more irritated with each other ...
A. 19 December 2010: I agree with Danielepew, there is a background to what culminated in you guys arguing and you subsequently asking him to leave.
If you want to work things out with him then,you guys need to sit down and do some honest talking.
Did you do th... (read in full...)
Where did my beautiful loving wife go?
Q. My wife and I have 3 boys and have been married for 8 years. This year just after our anniversary my wife began an affair. She had become increasingly distant, and I finally asked her what was going on after 6 weeks without intimacy. She flatly told ...
A. 19 December 2010: I'm sorry i'm going to have to echo what most of the others have said; it is over bewteen you and your wife (more like a punisher). I know somewhere in your heart you are longing for a word of hope, a word of encouragement for you to hang on but, ... (read in full...)
Am I able to pull it off as my boyfriend's baby?
Q. Hi I'm in a tough situation,I think I might be pregnant with my ex boyfriends baby. My current boyfriend and I have been trying for a year for a baby and haven't had any luck. He cheated on me 3 times a while back and out of anger I went and cheated ...
A. 17 December 2010: It is indeed a difficult situation, not helped by the history of cheating and distrust between yourself and your bf.
It is certainly not a healthy relationship to have a child in, let alone bringing up a child.
Having said that, i am not p... (read in full...)
I cannot love him, even although we're married... Help!
Q. I have been married for the last 12 years, have wonderful 2 kids. My husband is a good man. We belong to different cultures. It was a difficult for me to adjust but I knew what I was getting into. I fell out of love with him a long time back. I ...
A. 17 December 2010: Well, i don't mean to sound insensitive but, if you don't love him and 'cannot love him' then i guess it's about that time you got out if the relationship.
Although, i must say, there are millions of people living in a relationship where there is n... (read in full...)
Not getting enough sex, would you involve a third person?
Q. What would you do in this situation? I am married now for 9 years and I do love my wife, but I think we are more of friends than lovers. We had a strong sexual relationship before we got married, having sex 4-5 times per week, many time...
A. 16 December 2010: I have a similar situation in my relationship.
I have suggested a third person but, my wife gets upset.
I would advice you to speak to your wife about how the lack of intimacy is making you feel and, casually bring up the idea of a no-strin... (read in full...)
My best friend and roommate's boyfriend has ruined our friendship! Should I move out?
Q. I need some advice, I have lost my best friend and it wasn’t even my fault. My best friend and roommate Beckie (not her real name) started dating this guy called Caleb (not his real name) who is basically a jerk, he cheats on her and he is ...
A. 16 December 2010: Well, it is obvious that your friend is captivated by her new bf.
If he is really such a horrible person, she will find out soon enough. I'm sorry about all the rumours going round but, don't worry, the truth will come out.
Be strong and find som... (read in full...)
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