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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is it a stigma to be a 31 year old Male Virgin? And is my drastic solution the best one, in the circumstances?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I don't know how to put this as a question: I just want to know if I'm not alone in the way that I feel? My story: I'm a 31-year-old guy and still a virgin. I am deeply pained - being a virgin at 31 feels like a stigma and to a large extent i...

Crushing on the prostitute I lost it with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - Basically, i lost my virginity to a prostitute in Berlin this summer, I dont regret it or have any moral problems with it whatsoever, I dont care that it wasn't with someone 'special' or that she didn't having any 'feelings' for me or any bullsh*t ...

Are my emotions after sex normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - Is it normal for a man to feel gushy with a person he just had sex with? An is it normal to feel like things have changed after having sex with a person ? Or to view the person in a different light?...

Did she lie to me about being a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - hi.. M 22yrs old n my g.f is 18.. She told me that she is a virgin but when we had sex.. She got such tight pussy but she didnt bleed but felt pain in another day.. She never played any sport nor cycle.. Is she lying to me? Plz tell me sm1.. Shall i ...

Why is it that when I have a chance to lose my virginity, I can't perform!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - um so heres my problem. i am 16 years old, and a virgin. that isnt exactly the issue, but what is is that on a number of occasions in the past few years i have had the chance to have sex, and it just hasnt worked out. with the first girl we both ...

How can I know that my virgin girlfriend is really ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - My gf and I met through mutal friends, I knew she was a virgin and planned to stay that way until she met`the perfect guy`` before we started dating.I am 23, she is 21. Its been over a year (14 months) and I respect her decision about sex. I will ...

What does it mean if a guy cannot find someone he clicks with no matter how hard he tries?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

24 September 2011 (M) - What does it mean for a guy who has never had a girlfriend and he is still a virgin and no matter how hard he tries he just can't find that woman he can click with, even just for the time being nothing is happening in his life, no one can give him ...

Lost my virginity and worried about the amount of bleeding

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Hey well i was wondering some thing, before i have used "toys" and i bleed after it some times and some times i dont but when i do its usually not very much. But tonight i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend and after awhile i noteced blood ...

Car or bed?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex for the first time this weekend. We have two options, either in the back seat of my car or in my room while my sister is home. Which do you think would be a little better?...

I want to have sex but yet I feel so torn!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I have some rather irrational feelings with regard to losing my virginity which I'm hoping someone can help me understand. When I stop and think that other people are having sex (for this purpose I'm referring to penis in vagina intercourse... sorry ...

Going to be 30 and still a virgin! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I need some advice, I am the big 30 next year and I hate to say i but still a virgin. I don't get much male attention and I have never had a proper boyfriend infact I have only ever had one date and after a couple days I found out that he asked me ...

I just want to find somebody who likes me for who I am, can I have some advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - I want sex! im 18 i have never done anything with a boy, im quite a curvey size 16, the problem is when im in clubs i have no confidence to go talk to guys, i feel like if they do come talk to me or want to dance they are making fun of me. Its very ...

I hate that my first time was with a player

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

15 September 2011 (?) - I ended up liking this guy and i lost my virginity to him. Anyway it turned out that he was just a "player" and he broke my heart. I carried on sleeping with him like a sort of FWB for a while. It was all new to me, the feelings i felt at the time ...

Tips for the wedding night?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4847 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - hi..m a girl of age 23..and i have a boy friend. His age 25. its been 1.5 year for the relationship and now we planed to get married on december this year. i never had sex with anyone..m still a virgin..and m just wondering how its going to be on ...

I'm a virgin but my girlfriend has been with 10 men already - and shown me a video of herself and an ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

13 September 2011 (?) - me and my gf have been togehter for 6 months...she is my first gf whereas i'm her 11th bf...she has told me that shes been sexually active with all the 10 guys..i have had no past sexual experience...last week on my insistence she told me all about ...

He's my first, but all these other girls ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

13 September 2011 (F) - im 19/f and my boyfriend is 20/m we have been dating for nearly 4 months now, but to us it feels much much longer then that. We knew each other for 4 or so months before we even started dating, and back then, i fell for him the moment we met. ...

Virginity, sex and relationships

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

13 September 2011 (M) - Good evening, I have thought of something that rather disturbs me and has for quite sometime. I'm currently 22 years old and I'm a virgin. I know I shouldn't feel embarrassed by it, but it seems that virginity is lost in highschool to th...

My horrible first time experience haunts me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

11 September 2011 (M) - So me and my gf has been dating for 9 months now...we have intercourse a while back...it was my first time but not hers...when we did it we didn't use a condom i came in 3 seconds...yes i have a horrible premature ejaculation...luckily i pulled ...

I want to give my virginity to my ex, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

11 September 2011 (F) - My ex-boyfriend/ sort of bestfriend, cheated on me when I was in hospital. He then broke up with the other girl after 2 days. For roughly 5 weeks me and him were basically unofficially going out. But at prom he tells me he is with her again, and now ...

How can I feel better? I'm sad about the breakup after I refused him more than we were doing sexually,

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I was in sexual relationship with a guy 6 months back. I'm 16 and he is 23. I agreed for sex because I was depressed after my break-up and I wanted to get over my ex. It was online relation. We used to sex chat. We never did it in real. He want...

Does he sound like someone who could grow up and see me as the girl he could build a life with or should I just forget him altogether?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - Met an american man while I was traveling in africa (i am canadian), dated him for 3 months, "just to have fun". I was 27 and a virgin with a couple of serious past boyfriends, he was 23 and a non-virgin with lots of casual making out/fooling around ...

Seems like I am the last virgin in my college. Have so many questions on virginity and sex. Can you help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

9 September 2011 (F) - Right well im 17 years old and im still a virgin, i feel like im the only one which in my college there is only a few. Ive had so many oppurtunities to have sex but something keeps stopping me. Im just so scared i dont like my body and i dont real...

Why is it so uncomfortable and what should I know to make intimacy better?

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9 September 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a few weeks now, the first time we had sex was before we were together (only by a few days) and i didn't think it felt that amazing, but didn't think nothing of it. I had sex with him last week, and we did a couple of ...

Friends our whole lives, should we try being in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

9 September 2011 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for virtually our whole lives. We were both in serious relationships with other people throughout high school that have both ended a year or so back. We used to mess around a few months ago, but just drifted apart fo...

I've changed my mind about sex before marriage and want to have sex with my boyfriend, but we just don't have anywhere to go! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) - Hi, im a 19 year old gal and have been dating my bf for 2years 11months i've never had sex before but we fool around a lot. Whn we met i told him i dont want to have sex until we married he agreed and took the sex idea out of his head. SO NOW im the ...

She lied to me about her sexual past and I can't get over it, please help me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

7 September 2011 (M) - Before my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time she told me I was going to be her first. While we were having sex I realized she was lying to me. Also, I did a lot of research about virginity and concluded that she was lying to me. She told ...

What does abstinence till marriage mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - i am a girl of 22 years old and im still a virgin but just started dating a guy few months ago and i think im ready to have sex, i believe in sex after marriage but the problem is i am not ready to get married and i'm affraid that maybe i am ...

Why did I bleed after being fingered for the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hello So, I am a virgin but was fingered for the first time, and it hurt a lot whilst it happened, in fact it was really, really painful(Yes, I know, I should have said something). However, the strange thing is, two days after this, I started b...

Could using a vaginal pessary have made me lose my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Had a vagina infection and am a virgin. Had to use inserting tablet and while inserting it hurt and for 3 days i bleed but not much just litle patches in my pant. Am i still a virgin? ...

Would doing this lead to sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi all, there's this guy i love very much. we've been dating for 9months now. am still a virgin. we have'nt had sex as agreed. we restricted ourselves to making out and dry humping. recently,he said he wants me to suck him and i said no, though he ...

I'm ready to have sex with him, but it's my first time...advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Hey guys this is a really personal question and I hope you can help me with it I,ve been dating this guy for nearly two months. He makes me feel amazing and beautiful and like i,m the only girl in the world I,ve met his family and I think they...

I have so much love to give. But how do I encourage my first Gay love relationship? Also low self esteem is another issue for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

4 September 2011 (M) - Hi I'm 16 and I'm gay. The thing is I've never been in a relationship and I feel so lonely all the time. I really want to be with someone. I'm not desperate, but one of my greatest fears is spending my life alone, and not sharing myself at leas...

People keep calling me frigid. It pressures me and upsets me. How can I better deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - Im ábout to turn 16 years old and i have never had sexual contact with a boy. Sure ive made out with a few, but never any further. Its not that im 'frigid' or anything i just havent found the right person. However, when anyone hears that i havent d...

I'm concerned about my vaginal tightness!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - Hi im 16 and still a virgin. (going to get a bit graphic sorry) When i masturbate i normally only use 1 finger, however recently i tried to experiment and found that i could fit up to four fingers with little discomfort. I now feel absolutely ...

Should I be scared of having sex for the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

2 September 2011 (F) - Ok so, im 17 and, this is the first time im gonna be having sex and im a little scared , i mean i dont know if i should be, should i be scared of the frist time ???...

Is he not interested when I'm with my friends? And, when the time comes, how do I know for sure he doesn't have an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

2 September 2011 (F) - Okaay im a little bit confused might be a bit of a long question. I have a boyfriend who is slightly older than me. We met strangley and randomly, he goes to my school as me (we're both in 6th form but he is in the year above and im starting this ...

I love 3 older married men and I'm only 18.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I am an 18 year old girl, and I am single. I met one of my mums friends husband last year and I instantly felt a connection with him. He had just been made redundant so he got a job at where me and my dad worked. He is 31 and probably not the ...