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writes:Hi, I am an 18 year old girl, and I am single. I met one of my mums friends husband last year and I instantly felt a connection with him. He had just been made redundant so he got a job at where me and my dad worked. He is 31 and probably not the greatest looking guy in the world but for some reason I can't get him outta my head. Is this normal, is it a crush or am I in love. Also I met my brothers friends dad the other week and it's the same with him. I would say he is around the late 20's age and he is In my opinion gorgeous. Finally I have known this other guy since I was born and he is 40ish. He is married and has two kids and I hardly ever see him but he came to my 18th birthday party the other week and I instantly felt something. I can't stop thinking about all three of the guys and to be honest I want to kiss them all right now. By the way I'm a virgin, would that change anything? Is it normal for me to get these feeling towards older married men at my young age. And why isn't there any guys out there that are my age and treat me like these men do. Thanks.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (8 September 2011):
 ok so you like older men... that's fine
find some that aren't married.
maybe you go for the married ones because they are safe?
it's just crushes hon... it can't be love and for you to even have to ask that tells me you are not ready to pursue an adult relationship yet.
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reader, soon567 +, writes (4 September 2011):
Stop, youre getting ahead of yourself looking at married men. Why? You may have an attraction for older men, but why not just get to know someone for whom they seem to be regardless of the age.Heck you may find one you really like whether he's 1 day older than you or 10 years older. No matter who you choose make sure you like that person for whom they really are and not a number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2011): Howz your relationshi with your own father?
Aren't u a bit too young to be wanting to mess around with married men?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2011): I am with an ex married man who has a child and there is quite a big age gap between us but you know what im so happy!! We are getting married and will have children. Because we truly love eachother we have worked whats in the past is in the past except his child so you need to know whether you truly love a person esp if there already married!! and have children! To be honest it doesnt sound like you love any of these guys because if you did you would only have ONE in your head. At first i struggled with the fact that he had a child but our love and the fact we have never been happier overcame that so i have proved it can work. Just dont get into being a secret with him because you will regret that! Talk to him about your feelings.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (2 September 2011):
 It's fine to love older men but don't be tempted into starting anything up with a married man.
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reader, angellovesgeo +, writes (2 September 2011):
 gurl.... you sound like your looking for a father figure to be honest. alot of woman do that. idk why. but there married and unless they told you that they like you or feel the same you should drop it now because your makeing your self look like a home wrecker. not saying you are but thats what ppl will see. best advice ican give you. hope it helps
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