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writes: I ended up liking this guy and i lost my virginity to him. Anyway it turned out that he was just a "player" and he broke my heart. I carried on sleeping with him like a sort of FWB for a while. It was all new to me, the feelings i felt at the time i'd never experienced before and i become attached to him. After a while people started telling me about his reputation and how many women he'd tried to get into bed. He even text a girl i know the same day as he did me.That ended a while ago and now he has a girlfriend. He hasn't changed at all though. He's text me a number of times saying he still wanted me. He's no doubt text other girls too. I've woken up to the fact that i'm one of many. Basically i just feel incredibly empty and alone. I hate the fact that my first time was with him and i'll never get that back.The worst part is i still like him. I'm deeply depressed and i just feel so alone. I've forced myself to make a doctors appoint to get myself checked out in-case he's given me something horrible. How do i stop feeling like this and move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTexting wanting sex while asking me the same day i meant!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2011): Dear, there are guys, just waiting to catch up only with virgins, and they get remorseful attitude havinf done with a virgin.
whatever has happened, has taken it's toll and you have lost your precious virginity and womanhood, now accept the reality and make effort no to repeat it anymore. wish you all the best,,, we are all huamns dear... leave it and get back to your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2011): Players do their thing because it works. It worked on you and it hasn't even stopped working on you now. You are still thinking about him and not some other guy.
Any good player knows he has a better shot at screwing an old ex who is still angry and conflicted about him, than an ex who doesn't speak to him or think about him at all anymore. You are still angry and conflicted about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2011): Get over him. He has a girlfriend and no longer wants you at all.
Can you answer, what is exactly wrong with txting more then one person in the same day? seriously, its just texting, it might as well as be talking....?
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