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male
age
26-29,
*oushite
writes:So me and my gf has been dating for 9 months now...we have intercourse a while back...it was my first time but not hers...when we did it we didn't use a condom i came in 3 seconds...yes i have a horrible premature ejaculation...luckily i pulled out...ok so my first time was a complete disaster we didnt do it at all later on in the day...as of right now the sex is good, 25 min was my most with a condom on...now my problem is that my first time experience always comes into my mind...it's like haunting me...i can't let it go...i was a complete mess and i feel so bad...i always get a nasty feeling when it comes to mind...why does this happen?? how can i just move on about it?
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (12 September 2011):
Mate you need to lighten up and learn how to laugh at yourself.Every guy has some kind of story like this. It doesn't define you as a person, or mean that you are not good enough. Just see the funny side of it.I remember when I was about 16 and picked up this stunning girl on holiday, sneaked in to the pool area in the hotel, went to have sex and just couldn't get an erection no matter what (I was way too drunk). At the time I was devastated but when I look back on it I have to laugh, more because the girl took it personally and thought it was because she wasn't attractive!Put it down to experience and don't take things so personally.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (12 September 2011):
 Hey, it's not all unusual for a guy to cum very quickly the first time he has sexual contact, and again the first time with a new partner. By itself this does not have to mean anything other than you being very attracted to the girl. Only if it's a persistent occurrence should you be worried.
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (11 September 2011):
One way of thinking about it is that it's a real compliment to the girl. You only shoot that fast if you're insanely turned on, right? So obviously you found her super hot.
You'll move on once you've had enough better experiences. I doubt there are a lot of women who want more that 25 minutes, so you're doing fine.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (11 September 2011):
 Start thinking about the 25 minutes that you've lasted. Start thinking more positive- and tell yourself that it was your first time...and also just a one time occurrence that you had prematurely ejaculated.
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