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writes:hi..m a girl of age 23..and i have a boy friend. His age 25. its been 1.5 year for the relationship and now we planed to get married on december this year. i never had sex with anyone..m still a virgin..and m just wondering how its going to be on the wedding night..m just thinking how to satisfy him..what guys like most..
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2011): Talk to your groom before the wedding and let him know you might be nervous and timid. Ask him to take things slow since all of this is new to you.A list of tips for you:*Hopefully you are having your wedding night somewhere private where just the two of you can be alone. Put out the DO NOT DISTURB sign, turn off the cell phones, do what ever it takes to assure your privacy.*Set the romantic and relaxing mood. Pamper yourself before your first night with your husband. Do the little things that make you feel lovely and relaxed. Light Candles, play music, etc. (Put together a little romantic kit and hand to your husband to set up while you are taking a bath or putting on perfume)*Let him know you want to please him and want the sexual intimacy of your marriage. The first few times might be awkward, but as you grow to trust him and all the new sensations, it will become easier.*Go relax with him. Many virgins do not have sex on their wedding night, because they are too exausted from the wedding. It is perfectly fine to just sleep in his arms, or touch, or explore.*Use your eyes as well as hands to explore each others bodies. *BRING LUBRICANT. Chances are you might not be adequately lubricated if one or both of you are inexperience. Putting a little on you and him will just make things SO much nicer. Dry sex is painful.Establish good habits from the beginning. Look at each other before, during, afterwards, touch, hug, kiss...If you really get overwhelmed or sex is painful. Let him know before that if you say stop or slow down that you mean it.The more relaxed you are, the better it will be!Congrats on your marriage and I hope you have a beautiful wedding and wedding night!
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