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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I always said I wouldn't and then I did, and I would do it again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I apologise in advance for the long response but please bear with me. So here's the situation, me and my friend recently met this guy. In our town he is very well know as being quite the eligible bachelor. He is everything a girl could ask for (he ...

Did I break my hymen inserting a tampon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - So the other day I was inserting a super and i think I might've broken my hymen. It was one of my last days and i was going to the beach so I put in a super. I used a cardboard one and had some difficulty putting it in. When i peed it kinda stung ...

I have been touched but not ready to reciprocate, what should I do/say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and yesterday he touched me 'down there' (just outside my clothes) for the first time. I'm not ready to reciprocate just yet, but I feel selfish because I'll receive but not give. I was getting to ...

Is Oral, sex ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Here it goes.. I was saving myself until I got married for the right man. I was making out with my boyfriend and I ended up giving him oral sex. Does that make me a non virgin anymore?...

I don't want to lose my virginity just like that, but I am getting to restless waiting for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - hello friends im a 20yrs old guy and being a virgin is eating me up,, i mean i dont want to lose it just like that,, like waiting for some special person,, but sometimes i get too restless,, but i dont feel like going to a prostitute. i dont kn...

How can I face this girl and tell her that I lied? I'm a virgin too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - I'm a 21 year old male. I'm entering my senior year of college and am altogether a fairly normal person. I'm not tall, but certainly not short. Not an athlete, but I'm in excellent health. I'm not much a pickup artist, but I'm not exactly shy ...

Is it normal to be this worried about sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Hi, my best friend has had sex with 3 guys and she's the same age as me. I've only gone to 3rd base, which made feel very vulnerable. So, sex scares me. Not just the pain stuff. It's being that close to someone. Also, that you can't take it ba...

Why shouldn't I be embarrassed about being a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - Hey, I just have a quick question. I asked everyone here a while back whether I should tell my girlfriend that I'm a virgin or not and people kept telling me I shouldn’t be embarrassed about it. Why? Why shouldn’t I? Most guys loose their the vcar...

I need to know how important is it to guys that your Gf/wife is a virgin? And why?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - I was just curious... Does it really matter to guys that the girl they want to marry or want to spent the rest of their lives with is a virgin or not??? I mean I don't see the reason why this has to be a big issue with couples.... For me all I ever ...

I just found out the guy my wife lost her viginity to had a bigger penis

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - hi just found out the guy my wife lost her virginty to was my 2nd cousin after 22 years of married life when she blurted out his name by mistake i asked her his name and found out he had a bigger penis and said she was sorry had i known this i would ...

How can I tell him that I'm not ready for sex yet and want to wait?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - my bf and i are both 15 and virgins and he wants to be a dad so bad, he said the first time we do it he wants to get me pregnant, and i dont want to have a kid till im in my late 20s and i kind of want to wait to even do it. how can i tellm him i ...

Embarrassed to tell girl I am a virgin - Should I be?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

20 June 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a 23 year old virgin and couple of weeks ago I meet this chick and for whatever reason she thinks I'm awesome :) anyway we've started to hop into bed and fool around but haven’t gone all the way yet. The thing is she doesn’t know I'm a ...

Should I try being a FWB? None of my relationships work out. Need help please.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - well ive recentley gotten out of two relationships the first i was with him for 2yrs. and loved him deeply but one day he just up an left without a text or call or a reason to him leaving .An i didnt know why he left i still to this day dnt know why ...

Is it normal not to bleed?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

17 June 2011 (F) - Hi I would like to seek some advice. My bf and I had intercourse for the first time. We're both virgins. But I did not bleed. I thought virgins are supposed to bleed on their first time. Is it normal?...

Too scared to date the girl I like because I am sexually confused! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

17 June 2011 (M) - There is this girl at school that I like and I wanna make a move and try to talk to her but the thing is I'm scared and sexually confused. I'm still a virgin because I'm sexually confused. Somedays I want guys and then girls. Most on the time I want ...

Did it too early?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. We had sex after only 2 months... but we're still together. Months and months ago we would always fight- but it's gotten better. We still have a few issues between us though. And I'm thinking that if ...

Teenager in sex distress.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

14 June 2011 (F) - ok i'm 14 goin on 15 and i'm dating a soon to be senior in high school, we've been dating on and off for the last almost year and a half . i have recently been getting really horny around him and he's been getting boners whenever i'm around ...

She says I was her first for everything except phone sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

13 June 2011 (M) - ok so i feel bad for not trusting my girlfriend but every story iv heard about peoples first times and such dont match when we first had sex and she swears up and down she was a virgin weve been dating for 2 years and 4 months i found out about 6-8 ...

Will first time sex still hurt if the woman has been fingered before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I'm in my late twenties and have never gone all the way sexually with anyone. The furthest I've been was to let my ex-boyfriend finger me and since then I've masturbated doing the same. Now I'm currently in a relationship with a man who makes me ...

I'm 17 and never been kissed. I need a confidence boost. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, okay, so... I'm really glad i found this site because this crap is eating me alive. Here is the whole story..short. I am 17 years old. I'm not that pretty and I'm big. Not massively huge but big. My appearance really makes me insec...

How do I say goodbye to someone I never really had?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

11 June 2011 (F) - I am 18 years old and i met this guy at a wedding long story short we hooked up a few times after the wedding and he became my bf and we start having sex the first time we did it i didnt want to but he said if i didnt dont ever call him back i loved ...

Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

10 June 2011 (F) - Im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m me and my boyfriend were fooling around last night, im a virgin and im about as innocent as they get...meaning before last night i hadnt even had a guy finger me or anything. The furtherest id ever been before...

Problems after knowing that girlfriend lied about her virginity.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

9 June 2011 (M) - It goes like that.. I have always been hearing rumors about my girlfriend being a slut and having sex with her 3 year ex. I did asked her in the start and she claimed to be a virgin, and of course I trusted her. Well, talking about the 3 year ex ...

I gave her my all, but was it enough?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

9 June 2011 (M) - I just turned seventeen this week. I met a girl over the summer and fell in love with her. Just the way she looked at me and the way she would smile just blew me away. a month and a half into the relationship I lost my virginity to her, wasn't p...

How should I feel when I don't climax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - I am in a mostly happy relationship with a guy a 3 years my junior. We are, more him than me, both virgins. He is religious and I am not, so he enjoys seeing and hearing me being pleasured as a means of sex. However, he seems to want it much more ...

Tension in a 3 year relationship and I'm a virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - Ok, this may be a longer question. Please Help me out!! My boyfriend and I have been togheter for over 3 years. We love each other dearly, his family loves me as well...I was included in the family portrait. We are only 19 and 20. We have broken up ...

Is it wrong for me to read these books even though I'm technically more pure then most girls my age?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

8 June 2011 (F) - Hello! I'm going to get straight to the point and not beat around the bush. I'm a 18 year old virgin and I love to read romance novels. Not just the nice sappy ones, I like to read the sexy intense one with wild sex in them. I love historic novels ...

If I use a vibrator does it mean I'm no longer a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

7 June 2011 (F) - Ok, this might sound obseen but i ought too ask, ive recently brought a virating 80mm bullet with some lube! now im a 20 year old virgin, if i incert this into my vigina this shouldnt pop my "cherry" right? i get this must sound stupid but i dont ...

Can anyone tell me what I'm doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

6 June 2011 (M) - So... My lovelife hasn't exactly been the best... My first girlfriend I dated for two years and she had intimacy problems. She said she'd rather play video games then hold my hand and we never kissed. After two years of dating, I thought if i rem...

Virgin, small-penised male afraid of receiving oral... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

2 June 2011 (M) - Hi everyone , i am 28 years old male ... virgin ... Yes i am , i am also heavy weight guy around 186 cm hight and 150kg heavy , my woman told me while talking about sex that she LOVE to give me head and she really get turned on by that , i my self ...

How can I survive these constant thoughts about sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

2 June 2011 (M) - Hi, I like to know how can this be survived, I have a problem of thinking about my sexuall fanticies everytime especially when I'm on my bed, feeling like some beautiful woman could lie on my bed (or even her's) with me. This desire has became a ...

Do all virgins bleed? My boyfriend is now doubting that I'm wasnt a virgin because I didnt bleed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

1 June 2011 (F) - I am 20 and had my first sex with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend doubt that I was not a virgin just because I didnt bleed.. Do all virgins bleed??? has my virgnity gone because I used toys before I has sex with my boyfriend??...