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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi I would like to seek some advice. My bf and I had intercourse for the first time. We're both virgins. But I did not bleed. I thought virgins are supposed to bleed on their first time. Is it normal?
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reader, ForverRed27  +, writes (24 June 2011):
I agree with everyone else, you are completely normal. When i was younger, i broke my hymen while doing other things sexually. Be glad because you can skip the mess and the awkwardness of cleaning up.
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female
reader, Fate100percent  +, writes (17 June 2011):
Yes you are normal! I didn't either! Like every else has said, activities such as horse-riding, tampons, etc may have already broken your hymen without you even knowing. So relax you are normal! :-)
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reader, Sex_counsellor +, writes (17 June 2011):
 Not everyone does don't worry, It may have stretched or may have broken years ago when if you did certain sports such as gymnastics or horse riding. Nothing to worry about at all!!
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (17 June 2011):
 You are perfectly normal. Not all hymens BREAK either. Some just stretch.
Best Wishes.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 June 2011):
 I didn't. Many virgins don't. IF your hymen was not intact you probably won't bleed.
Hymens are fragile... many are destroyed when girls are young and doing things like climbing trees, running, horseback riding, bike riding or swimming... then there's the whole tampon use... or masturbation (or petting) using fingers or toys.... all of those things will destroy a hymen...
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reader, totty-flossy +, writes (17 June 2011):
 Its completely normal not to bleed! some girls do and some girls dont! I didnt bleed because i tore that little bit of skin when i was quite young due to me being a horse rider. Be thankful you didnt bleed :) less mess and makes the wole experience alot more enjoyable!! :) xx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 June 2011):
 Look everybody is different, some people bleed others dont. It doesnt mean that there is anything wrong with you. The bleed is usually caused by a little tear of the skin. But some girls tear this when they are younger without realising, maybe doing horse riding, or even riding a bike or using a tampon. So dont worry about not bleeding and count yourself lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2011): Yes, it is normal to not bleed. Not all virgins bleed on their first time.
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