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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

It bugs me that this older guy I date...is a virgin! How do I stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Hi I'm currently dating an older guy and I just found out he's a virgin and for some reason I'm having a hard time being okay with it, I always assumed older guys = more experience and now that i know he's got less than me, it bugs me. how can i...

Gf and I are planning 1st time sex..I want to get this right. Advice, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6435 days ago

29 April 2007 (M) - Hey, me and my gf are planning on having sex for the first time, we have been together for 7 months and are both virgins,we have contraception sorted and are both totally ready. Obviously she doesn't paticually want all of the really bad pain and i ...

He took my virginity, but now he doesn't want to see me anymore. I am in love with him so what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6448 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I have known this guy for well over 2 years now and we've been best friends. We got together about a year ago we started having oral sex on a pretty regular basis. About 2 months ago, he took my virginity and it was absolutely fantastic! We've done ...

After seven months i am finding it difficult to cope with going out with someone i find really attractive and really care about but who i can't do anything with.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6448 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - Hi there, i've been seeing my girlfriend for seven months. She is 22 and a virgin and i am 27 and not. She refuses to even let me see her naked even though she has a lovely body, she won't even talk about sex.We kiss and cuddle but thats as far as ...

Together 4 months, ready for the next step (sex) But how do I tell him!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

20 April 2007 (F) - Hi i've been with my bf for 4 months now and feel ready for the next step with him (we have done other stuff but not that) i think he is too (it will be his first time not mine) just i don't know how to bring it up with him. Things had bee...

Do you think she slept with this other guy before me when she was 14 ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

16 April 2007 (M) - I found a picture of my girlfriend and her boyfriend when she was 14. He was acting like he was going to grab her breast, and she didnt look like she minded too much. She was put on birth control at about this age because of her devastat...

Most of my friends have had sex and I feel left out. What's wrong with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6456 days ago

14 April 2007 (F) - I am 17 a virgin and I don't have much experience with guys. I do go out when I can with my friends to parties and stuff and I see guys that I like but I just don't get attention unless they are old perverted men or not out of primary school. It may ...

Will he be turned off if I tell him..I am a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6450 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - Hi, im currently seeing a guy who is older and im planning on telling him that im a virgin ( which i definetly am going to do). The thing is will he be turned off by this? We have been going out for 3 months and im ready to have sex with him. ...

My gf is a virgin so if we have sex how will I tell if the hymen is broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6458 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - okay, so i read the question about how to have sex with a virgin without hurting her because my girlfriend is indeed a virgin. my question is, how can i tell when/if the seal is broken?...

I'm 15 and still a virgin, but feel as though I'm the only one!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6457 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - hey im just after alittle advice, im 15 i have always been quite popular at school and i have had many boyfriends(not to be big headed) but all my friends have rushed into bed with guys and many of them have slept with 4,5,and 6 boys. they call me ...

Im 14, still no period and Ive got pregnancy symptoms, do you think I am pregnant ?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

13 April 2007 (F) - As I said before I'm 14 years old and I think that I may be pregnant! I knew that I would be getting my period soon but, not sure exactly what day. I lost my virginity on February 16th without a condom for the first time, that same night I ...

She's still a virgin but she's much more experienced than I am.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6463 days ago

12 April 2007 (M) - Hey I just got my first girlfriend im inexperienced compared to her she is a virgin tho, but i keep thinking of her with the other guys why is that? Other girls that i speak to there past doesnt bother me even if they've done worse then mine? is it ...

We are from the USA and my bf thinks that we wont be able to mess around below the waist as I will be classed as a minor even though I'm 17, anyone know if this is true ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

11 April 2007 (F) - I'm 17, he's turning 18 in a month. We both want to stay virgins, but he's telling me we won't be able to mess around under the waist because I'm still a minor, and I would have to ask specifically for it every time with nothing from him. It sounds ...

I'm still a virgin an I'm scared first time sex will hurt! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I am 18 and i am still a virgin. i dont no what to do and am scared it will hurt. what if im too tight? ...

I want to remain a virgin until my wedding night, my bf just thinks I'm messed psychologically, should I just give in on the sex before marriage thing ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

10 April 2007 (F) - I'm to be married within the next 5 months and things are all ok. I always believed in not having sex before marriage and held up all these years.So my fiance has tried many times to have sex with me and since I refused he has actually stopped ...

When are you not a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

9 April 2007 (M) - do you have to orgasm to say that you've had sex or do you just have to have been in and out...

Been reading books on dating, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty... but being a virgin at 20 is still eating me up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6459 days ago

9 April 2007 (M) - I am a 20 year old male virgin. For the past seven months the fact that I am still a virgin has been eating away at me. During the duration of this time, I have been reading non-stop books on dateing, attraction, seduction, motivation, anxiexty ...

Why can't he live with the fact that I don't want sex, I just want to make out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6467 days ago

8 April 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend were making out toppless and it seems that almost everytime we do he starts to pull at my shorts, i hum uh huh or no, and he says ok (deep down we both wanna wait for marrage) well i continue making out and he says "r u serious?" ...

28, a virgin, and scared beyond hope - normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

8 April 2007 (M) - So it seems that I'm going to be 28 soon, it's been 6 years that I have asked that infamous question "why am I single" and to this date, I'm still clueless. I remain single, virgin, daily masturbation routine, and pretty-much forced to live life ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm a slut for not saving myself for "the one" !! Am I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

7 April 2007 (F) - i lost my virginity to a guy i wasn't in love with or in a relationship with (though i was really attracted to him). i have no regrets about not "waiting" or "saving" myself for "The One." to me, the sex was a purely physical thing. does that make ...

We are both virgins and his penis is too big, so we cant get it up!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6445 days ago

6 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and I are both virgins and his penis is too big that we cannot get it up ! what can we do ?...

She sometimes smells "off"... and can I just buy lubricant!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6149 days ago

6 April 2007 (M) - my girlfriend is fishy how do i tell her i dont mean to be mean but the only way i can explain my gfs virgina is the smell of fish i dnt no why but it smellz very odd and can put me off sometimes how can i tell her or is there a way i can gt rid o...

Is this what I should be doing, sex-wise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

6 April 2007 (M) - i need help!!!!!!!!! i am 15 and my gf is 15 and i have no idea what i am going to do she has asked me to be her first and i was like oh thank you baby but now im freaked out so i found this site why because i know nothing i have seen some porno but ...

Some info on lubricants please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6470 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - This is my first time, and im a little nervous. Could I apply sexual lubricant on my vagina without washing it out? Does it hurt when the lubricant is applied? Will it be too oily?...

I want to wait until marriage until I have sex, But im getting tempted lately as I love my BF, what do you think ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I want to wait until marriage to lose my virginity, for religious reasons, some, but mostly to protect my heart and out of fear of getting pregnant. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 years, and he's great. Lately, I've been thinking of ...

Will daily masturbation lessen my first sexual experience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6470 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - Hello again.. I recently inquired about daily masturbation, and the replies were very reassuring and comforting. Thanks to those that replied. Now I pose a second question, will daily masturbation lessen my first sexual experience? I...

I'm 14 and really want to have sex with my 21 yr old boyfriend!!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6453 days ago

4 April 2007 (F) - hi, im 14 years old and i have a 21 year old boyfriend, i see him all the time and i love him alot. its not really a problem though cause if i didnt want to see him i would of told him to **** off. anyways, my friend has been to his house with me,...

I'm 22 and still a virgin. Can you tell if someone's still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (M) - Please, Please, Help me! I'm a 22 year old virgin and I'm about to have sex for the first time. My g/f has has a lot more experience than me. I'm a guy so of course I dont want to come off as incompetent sexually. I also dont want to tell her I'm a ...

I love my boyfriend very much but I'm scared to have intercourse with him...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

2 April 2007 (F) - Hello, I'm a 19 year old female and I am a virgin. I have been dating my bf for 6 months now and am very much in love with him. Everything is perfect between us except that he is ready to have intercourse and I'm not. I don't know why because I ...

With my boyfriend for 2 yrs, Sex is painful, I'm still a virgin, worried my relationship will end because of it! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

1 April 2007 (F) - hi im 23yrs and have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs,we love each other very much and have a srtrong relationship only i have one major problem im finding it very painful to break my virginity weve tried loads of times but it hurts me to much,im ...