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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi there, i've been seeing my girlfriend for seven months. She is 22 and a virgin and i am 27 and not. She refuses to even let me see her naked even though she has a lovely body, she won't even talk about sex.We kiss and cuddle but thats as far as it has gone. She says shes not ready and wants her first time to be with someone she loves, i've told her i love her already and i do but she never says it to me unless she is drunk. After seven months i am finding it difficult to cope with going out with someone i find really attractive and really care about but who i can't do anything with. Please, what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007): Take it from a fellow 22 year old virgin... when you've waited this long it's very hard to let go with anyone. I guess the things that men do that make me think I like them are people who can make me feel good about myself. Maybe, like me, she hates her body. Maybe she's using the love thing to try and push you away. In our 22 year old twisted world we want to lose our virginities but at the same time it teriffies us. Be patient. It's all you can do.
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