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writes:Hi, im currently seeing a guy who is older and im planning on telling him that im a virgin ( which i definetly am going to do). The thing is will he be turned off by this?We have been going out for 3 months and im ready to have sex with him.Im just curious to know if this will put him off me?males opinion would be appreciated as wellThanks xxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, penta  +, writes (25 April 2007):
 I would wait until you've dated longer; you want to make sure that your relationship will last and the difference between 17 and 25 is a lot. When will you be 18? Can you wait just that long? It's still a long difference, but at least you'll be an adult.
You might bleed on your first time, but you might not (I didn't). If he goes slow enough to get you really wet, it won't hurt as much and the excitement could take the brunt of it.
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reader, jmac1344  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 I'd be more comfortable knowing I wouldn't look horrible in comparison.
Unless he's got alot of experience, in which case he probably still wouldn't mind.
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reader, AdamPayseno +, writes (24 April 2007):
 As the other posters said.. It would make him more into you.. You and him would have a special bond..
Dear, I think almost every guy out there has started Sex with their girlfriend and realised.. Woops, Period?!
Bad timing indeed, but it happens..
If you go for it.. Tell him that your nervous and for him to take it slow.. If he's worth your first time.. He will accept that theres blood, and it shoulden't make a difference..
Second time is better then the first.
Third time is better then the second.
Enjoy, and Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): HI , i am the person who wrote this, the guy i am currently seeing is 25 while i am 17. thanks for the advice, it has put my worries to rest
just one more question, guys opinion if you will, do they mind if you bleed for the first time?
Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): How much older is this guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): No, this won't put him off you, in fact it'll do the exact opposite. He'll like the fact that you think that he is special enough to lose your virginity to.
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reader, zgeek +, writes (14 April 2007):
 lol he will be the opposite. he will not be turned off he will probably as whats her name above said-"He will be even MORE into you!!" I don't think you really need to worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): He won't be put off, honey! He will be even MORE into you!!
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