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Archived questions from: December, 2019 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Are my wife and mother being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1821 days ago

31 December 2019 (M) - Am I paranoid or are people selfish? I recently had a road traffic collision and as a result I was prevented from doing my usual sports or activities by my wife and mother, physically I was fine. They both said I shouldn’t drive for my health ju...

My boyfriend acts single and doesn't respect me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1823 days ago

30 December 2019 (F) - Hello My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now. I’m having issues because his social media. He brings his exes to it a lot. Particularly one that I caught him having an emotional affair. As well as a bunch of flirting. He...

My Ex Girlfriend has told me the only person who will raise our son is her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1824 days ago

29 December 2019 (M) - The mother of my child and my ex girlfriend got a new boyfriend. We’ve been broke up since October 28, of last year. So roughly 14 months ago. About, May of that time period, only a month or two after our son was born. We were at my senior ...

I found out my husband is cheating, I want to be able to do the same.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1824 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - Question 1 ive been with my husband for 10yrs we both did our share of cheating and I thought we were passed it I promised to never cheat again I recently found out he still cheating but here I stay but now that I know his secret how can I tell him ...

I'm miserable in our relationship of 7 years.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1810 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship now for almost 7 years and I am so miserable there is no excitement I try talking to him on a night just general chit chat and I get totally ignored by him he shows me attention when he wants sex when he gets it he goes to ...

I've ruined my familly, I can't look at them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1825 days ago

28 December 2019 (F) - I had a family and it was beautiful. I never actually cheated physically but I talked to a guy for a month or so. It was never sexual, at least not from my standpoint. It was sweet. I liked the attention. I liked the new excitement. I like...

My boyfriend's good side is wonderful, it is why I have stayed so long.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1826 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Over the last year, I've spent 5 months total with my bf. Let me give you a timeline. January-gone half the month working February-gone half the month because he was mad at me but we took a trip to Florida where we reconciled but then I flew acro...

My boyfriend cheated, and I don't know how to rebuild the trust.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1826 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Hello, I have been with my partner just over a year. We were work colleagues for around 6 months prior to that, and our relationship didn't start in the best way - my then boyfriend was working away and I had an affair with current boyfrien...

I struggle to trust my judgement when it comes to guys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1826 days ago

27 December 2019 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I’m really interested to hear what others think is a ‘normal’ amount of messages to be sending in the very early stages of dating. For context: I’ve been seeing a new guy that I met online for the past month, we’ve...

My boyfriend is going away for a month, how do I get through this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1828 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - My boyfriend will be going away for a month soon. I can't go. I am worried he will cheat on me. I fear I will not be able to cope with the constant anxiety and stress about what he is doing. Can anyone provide tips on how to stay SANE? An entire ...

Split for a month and I slept with someone else.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1820 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles I am in a real dilemma, I have been with my man over four years,we have had our ups and downs and he often goes away for a few days and ignored me. A few times we have agreed to split and the last time we did was for a month. I...

My boyfriend and his crazy ex .... I'm wondering if I should just leave them to it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1831 days ago

23 December 2019 (F) - My partner and I just got back together, and he has female friends and he slept with all of them. This one in particular that he keeps in contact with I really hate her because she was his gf before we got back together and she did some really nasty ...

My partner spends a lot of time partying with his friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1831 days ago

22 December 2019 (F) - So me and my partner have been together around 4 years. For the most part it’s been good. My issue is his time spent with his friends. They get together about 3 times per week. His friends are mostly single and they party. Whenever they see ...

The yelling and shouting between my boyfriend and I has gotten much worse!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1827 days ago

22 December 2019 (F) - Boyfriend and I are starting to have blow up arguments. Half of the time I can't even remember how they started. He starts to yell and scream and I have started to return the yelling and screaming, at first I use to just deal with it. Then he ...

My partner doesn't seem to care.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1831 days ago

21 December 2019 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship now for 6 years but I feel so lonely I went out last night and kissed some bloke in front of everyone I was really drunk I get shown no affection from my boyfriend or shown any love at all we don’t have sex and he’s Been in ...

I’m the third wheel in my own relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1834 days ago

19 December 2019 (F) - Hey guys :) I'm from Philippines. Have you guys been in a situation that feels like you're the 3rd wheel in your own relationship? I'd be honest, I think I am or maybe I'm just paranoid. To make the long dramatic story short, I'm in a relationship ...

Girlfriend's snapchats have left me uneasy about trusting her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1835 days ago

16 December 2019 (M) - Ive been with my partner for 10+ years, we have a child together and Ive always trusted her. Recently I discovered she had a snapchat account that is mainly her female friends but with 2 other male friends. I am certain she had some kind of ...

My boyfriend thinks I cheat on him. Will he get over this as time goes on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1844 days ago

9 December 2019 (F) - My bf gets upset easily and accuses me of being with other men. I went to a friends house and he got very upset and started saying I was with another man. Idk why he gets so jealous because I made it very clear he’s the only one I am interested in . ...

He said he loved me, then he went to Mexico and now he barely speaks with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1848 days ago

6 December 2019 (F) - My bf and I were starting to become super close . He told me he loved me and than he went to Mexico with his parents . The first few days he msg me and sent me pictures . Now he has been gone 5 days and he barely speaks to me . This morning I told ...

How do I move forward without hurting anybody?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1649 days ago

5 December 2019 (F) - I have been married to a man for 25 years. We have four kids (two now grown up, and two teenagers). Our marriage has been difficult; we argue a lot and have drifted apart emotionally. We are not highly compatible on any level, but have stuck ...

She gave me her number but isnt answering.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1849 days ago

5 December 2019 (M) - Hi! Thanks in advance for your time. Briefly, I was out Friday and met a nice waitress in a lounge restaurant. We clicked. Good conversation along with sexual tension. She kept telling me she'd come back to our table to chat and she did with one...

My boyfriend's sister in law says they are in a "live in" arrangement.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1849 days ago

4 December 2019 (F) - I and my boyfriend were like best friends . And our relationship was at its best . He's very loving , caring and understanding. And his brother's wife keeps calling him more often , all day and night which I hate the most and I told him that I d...

I'm attracted to a married man, I believe he is attracted too and it creates undercurrents between us.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1846 days ago

4 December 2019 (F) - I'm unhappy because I find myself attracted to a married man for the past few months. I much prefer my carefree life before I knew him. I got to know him through work and in the beginning I just looked upon him as just another man. Then he started ...

My estranged husband is still trying to rule my life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1850 days ago

3 December 2019 (F) - My "estranged" husband is always trying to keep tabs on me and I feel like it's an invasion of my privacy. We are separated and no longer live together. We have a young child (under 10) who lives with me and will stay with him on the occasional w...

I've been tracking my wife via her phone and she lies about where she has been.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1846 days ago

3 December 2019 (M) - I’ve had suspicions my wife has been cheating on me for some time. There were signs all over the place that I just couldn’t ignore. In the end I decided to track her day to day using the ‘Find my iPhone’ app whilst I was at work and the kids were at ...

I broke up with him because he put everybody else first, now I am missing him like crazy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1851 days ago

3 December 2019 (F) - I have broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years and it was quite a nasty break up and a lot of shouting names and verbal abuse. Basically he started putting other people before me the past month and became unreliable and kept cancelling on me. So I ...

My husband accused me of stalking his ex, who he has cheated with in the past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1850 days ago

2 December 2019 (F) - Hi My husband and I have been married almost 3 years. We have had some interference by his exes which I thought was finally done. What I mean by interference is he talks to them on whatsapp. They don’t share any children together and the...

I think my wife of 24 years is seeing other men.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 874 days ago

2 December 2019 (M) - Dear Cupid, I and my wife have been married for 24 years with children. We have been trusting each other so much so that she even tells me when some man tries her for sex i do the same, when a woman,mostly her friend, starts sweet-talking me. Howe...

Is my wife exaggerating everything just to try and make me feel bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1850 days ago

2 December 2019 (M) - Last week my wife injured her pinky toe after we (her being barefoot and me with shoes on) clipped each other's feet as we walked past each other. It was a freak accident. She was in a lot of pain and there was a bit of blood. At first she was ...

I'm having sex with my ex who is married to someone else.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1849 days ago

1 December 2019 (F) - Hello everyone, so I'm in a situation that I've never been in one before. And I don't know where to start so I'm going to try to keep it as short as possible. I have a daughter that is 8 years old. Her father and I have been split up since...