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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I chose between 2 great guys? Stuck between a rock and a hard place

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I dated a guy for 6 mos....we'll call him Bob. Bob and I are both from military backgrounds, stable financially, both have one daughter and 2 grandkids and we're both in our 50's. I am an eternal optimist and a hopeful romantic. I am very ...

GF went on holiday without me and packed her sexy lingerie. What does this mean?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - My girlfriend went on holiday without me, she says for a break from everything, but she took her sexy lingerie with her. When asked why, she replied that she did not even notice, just grabbed a handful of undies and packed them. What does this...

My wife thinks I'm seeing other women. How can we sort this out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - Hi all. I got a prob that I think I’m stuck with. I been married for year and half and things ain’t too pretty. My wife is thinking that I’m seeing other women and hiding things from her. I have a friend, T, that lives south of England, I’m...

Anyone been in a relationship with a Bf in Turkey? I'd like to help him get a Visa to visit me here. How could I help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - So me and my turkish boyfriend have been going out for just over 5 months now. I met him back in august when i was there on holiday and spent a month with him, I then went back in December to see him again for just over a week and I met his pare...

Am I too traditional? If a guy was attached, is it ok for him to go out one on one with a female friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Hello all, I was wondering if a guy was attached, is it ok for him to go out one on one with a female friend? Personally I wouldn't go out with an attached guy one on one even if we're just friends because I find it weird, and maybe a little disr...

I feel uncomfortable about our little argument.Was I wrong, or was he, or were we both wrong in some way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I need help, I might as well explain the whole story... Okay on Friday night me and my bf were texting quite late and he didn’t reply for a while so I said 'g2g night love you xxxx' and he still didn’t reply so I guessed he fell asleep which is ...

Are my expectations too high? What do I need to bring a great connection or real passion into our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Recently I have been thinking that there might be a better guy out there for me than my current boyfriend but I don't know if my expectations are too high? We get on well most of the time and I do feel that I love him, but I don't feel like the...

They stop caring after a short time. I think that I DESERVE romance! Is it too much to ask?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I'll start by saying this: I've never been overly obsessed with romance, like I've never chased it, if it happens then it happens. I'm 19 and I've never had anything romantic, I've never even been on a proper date, the guys I go for get comforta...

Facebook and Badoo contact: He's a friend of friends. But how can I tell if he's really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4320 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Hello I saw a guy (we can call him P) on my facebook first site and this guy isnt my friend but is a friend of my "friends" on facebook. These our common friends added me years ago on facebook and I accepted their friend request. We dont kn...

Where do I from here? Unhappy marriage. I've fallen for a married man I met on a dating site.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I have been married for over 23 years , with 2 kids and have been unhappy in my marriage for over the last 15 years as my husband had a drinking problem As a result I have lived in an abusive relationship. He gave up drinking about 4 years ag...

He's denied he's doing it, but I smelt it. I love him. But I hate him using weed. Should I talk to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for six months, and I am very happy with him, but the fact that he smokes weed is always lingering in the back of my mind. When we first started dating, he quit in order to impress me, according to his friends,...

Troubled relationship: What's the best way to handle my guy and this immature guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - PLEASE HELP!!!! It will be four years this year that I'm with my current bf...in distance relationship. We've been madly in love since we met last fall I was supposed to move to his country and continue university there but since we didn’t mana...

Can I continue as his wife? How could he preach to me about principles? When in reality he was continuing with his best friend's ex partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Am 34.I have been married for a year and half. My husband cheated on me three months ago with his best friend's ex. I WAS REALLY HURT. But believing he was really sorry, I decided to forgive him and we moved on. This was the THIRD time he wa...

If he cares then how is it he can cheat on me and on her as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Hello people I love this forum and I have this story with a someone and I can't understand anything at all I’m a girl and once I found a man we had sex and enjoyed each-other it was amazing. He was cool and awesome I had his phone we texted a lot...

My husband is harsh and emotionally abusive to me. What can I do about the fact he makes me feel worthless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Dear friends. I am disintegrating and breaking into pieces emotionally. My husband is constantly making me feel small, even in front of other people. I can’t do anything without him criticizing it harshly. He will say it so harshly I feel like cr...

Since I am a virgin, is this normal that I cannot face ever having sex for the first time with a woman unless she is a virgin too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - I feel like it's not right to date a woman who already has dated and had sex with another person. I can't imagine having sex with her if someone has already had intercourse with her. I'm thinking and hate imagining that i'll be somehow touching...

Am I over-reacting? My friends all went to the movies without me, even though I thought we'd agreed to the next day.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - hello people, i need a friendship advice.. just today morning me and my 3 other friends decided to catch a movie but we couldnt due to unavailibity of the show.. they all asked about the next show. but i had some work and i told them we will wa...

He abused me for years. Then he found a new Gf. Now he is ill he wants me back. What do I say? I said "no" but he's not listening.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I was in love with this guy in my early teens and he was 16 at the time. We were together for many years had two kids and then he winds up being over protective very mentally, verbally,physically abusive toward me. The abuse started after I had ...

What should I be telling my Gf? I want her to agree to sex with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - Hi guys! My girl friend and i have been together for almost two years now but i never slept with her although she shows certain signs of wanting that but she just can't tell me in words, and i too feel the same. Help guys, what should i tell her ...

Why does he only phone me from work? Why doesn't he answer when I call him? Could he be playing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4299 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Okay PLEASE HELP. So I am 19. Keep in mind I have always had a very old soul and countless people have told me this. I am not your average teenager I should probably be older I act like it... Anyways. I have always liked older guys. Recently, ...

I've had this major Crush on a boy since October. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4322 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I fell for this boy back in october and ever since then things have been different. I always think about him. When we're hangin out my day turns into abosolutely perfect. I feel just amazing spending time with him. Everything about him is perfect t...

I had an instant attraction to her. Is it too pessimistic or too soon to start thinking that I have no chance with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago at a retreat. I was instantly attracted to her. We didnt talk too much because of the activities, but we did talk a few times and notice each other. I always noticed her looking at me and vice versa. After the...

Do I say something about my friend's thieving girlfriend? Or say nothing? Or tell one of his family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I have a bit of a moral dilemma. I found out that a friend of mine is dating a girl who was arrested and fired from her job for retail theft in the store she worked in back in September. I have never trusted this girl because something just wasn...

Am I Just Going Through Baby Fever? Any thoughts ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Hey everyone! I didn't know where else to get advice and you all always help me through everytime so I'm going to give it a whirl again. I am 20 years old going to be 21 in 3 months and I think I am going through baby fever! Everyone is havin...