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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

What do I say to bring this guy back around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4324 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I met a guy online, we clicked, hung out a few times - then got into some huge fight .. nasty words were exchanged even at one point! And we stopped speaking ( he didn't trust me and I didn't trust him but no one cheated or anything as we were ...

Girls: is this a way to spark a girl's interest? what would be the possible reaction, if guitar solo performances (my own), were included in the flashdrive with legal software being given as a gift by to a fellow student?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - Hello. I am here for a question that might open a lot of doors for me. Here is my story. I have been lonely for 2 years now after my ex girlfriend left me for someone else and several rejections since then have made me numb. I came to USA 2 ye...

A needy, clingy woman got my man. How come this happened?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I am so through with relationships and men. I am an independent woman, smart, beautiful and keeps myself busy never clingy. Met a good guy and helped him, even when he didn't have a job and no money, but now he's run off with a clingy girl. What ...

Friendly or Flirting? What are the signs a guy is genuinely flirting, and not just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Are these signs of flirting? 1. Staring or gazing at you. 2. Complimenting a woman on how she looks such as "Wow, you are beautiful," "I've been watching you--I see you and you are such a feminine woman," "You are one of the few people who ma...

Am I thinking too far ahead? Would Western parents accept a large age gap if their daughter married a man 10 years older?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - I am in Australia but am not a westerner. I like a girl 10 years younger than me,she is 18 years old. I think she also likes me. But I am not sure.Is it possible because of age different she might be thinking the less possibility of marriage. Does w...

It's complicated. He will visit me. But often pushes for more physical content than I want. But he discourages me visiting him. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Have been into a relationship with a guy for more than 4 years now we both love each other. He calls me and he pays me a visit. I need a new jobc so that occupies my time, but I'm less busy in weekends. Each time i pay him visit he kisses me on...

I think he's suffered a lot of abuse. How can I calm down my aggressive boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend just under a year. He's had a pretty unfortunate life up till this point and I suppose you could say suffered a lot of abuse from a young age (though I don't know any details as I avoid asking him about it)....

Am I not good enough for him? I'm pregnant but all he does is talk to his ex. Am I crazy wanting him to leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. I am currently pregnant and since I've gotten pregnant all he does is talk to his exs. I feel like I am not good enough for him and that he is looking for someone else. I don't wanna lose h...

Could I be bi-sexual? Can open-minded be considered a sexuality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4310 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - I've questioned what my sexuality or how to define my sexuality ever since I was a child. It's probably been about 13 to 15 years long I have questioned this. Can open-minded be considered a sexuality? I grew up keeping to myself, and really tryin...

He's disparaging about others.Am I being too insensitive here or would anyone feel hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Hi there, everyone So i just wanted to hear objective thoughts on something that hurt me. I don't know if i'm being sensitive about it or what. Here's the story. I recently told my friend that i'm into him because my feelings were bigger ...

I cheated and fell in love. Is this new guy the 'one'? Should I dump my Bf of 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - Hi, I live in Europe and I come to NYC 2-3 times a year for holidays, Christmas etc. My whole family lives here (parents and sisters). My friend came here once with me, and now he says that he doesn't feel like it because he feels like there is...

Still in contact with his ex! Am I overreacting? Should I let it go? I am quite convinced he is serious about us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I have had a beautiful relationship. We we met while we both were in London due to our work responsiblities. The four months we were together it was nothing less than heaven. He had to move to US after that and I had to return to India.Two days...

Should I give her time? She broke up with me because she says my actions are like a kid, and she is more free.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - My girlfriend told me that she needs space and broke up with me. She told me that she needs some time. It started when our friend texted her if I told my sister where i am because she seems surprised that I did no tell her that me and my girlfrien...

My husband is ignoring our latest baby. He wants to play video games. Does help his mother. Yet ignores us, his family. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - This may sound really dumb and not a big deal. But I know men have their down time.... But my husband is obsessed with video games, has been since he was a child. I'm a stay home mom, and my husband works all day. We have a sixth month baby boy, ...

I'm a mess. What can I do? I've been in love with my Gf for a long time. But I've fallen for a second girl at college and now this second girl is pregnant.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4317 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - Guys, I'm in a pickle. A very large pickle. I've been dating my very lovely and intelligent girlfriend for six years, since we were 14. Before I continue, I need you all to know that I really, absolutely and unabashedly love my girlfriend with all...

He thinks we're in a relationship, but we haven't had a date yet! How do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I agreed to a blind date suggested by a mutual friend of myself and the gentleman in question. We spoke in person just long enough to arrange the date, but haven't actually gone out yet. I've just learned that he changed his Facebook status t...

I was OK to sleep with. But he said he could'nt give me what I wanted. How do I cope with this, and the fact he now has a Gf?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. Back in September, I moved into a shared house with three other people. Two of them I didn't know before, but there had always been chemistry between me and this other person. This other person and I have been close ever since we me...

My Bf talks nicely to me only when he needs money from me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I feel that my bf of 3 years talks nicely to me only when he needs money from me, other times he never calls, ignores me and bullies me. I have already given him a lot of money for this student loan. I don't have any proof for this ...

Should I be reading books on how to interact with women or are there other successful strategies? I'm a virgin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (?) - Is it worth reading books like "The Game" by Neil Strauss or similar pick up methods with women? I'm a virgin who has only had one girlfriend. I am going back to college in two weeks and want to be able to get girls interested in me because my co...

Was I too quiet at a work dinner party? I'm older than them and the're cliquey. Or were they mean asking me to sit alone at a table, as I'm vegetarian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - We had our work post Christmas party last week, at a restaurant. I arrived slightly late but a few people came after me. I'm older than 80%-90% of my colleagues, didn't bring a partner, (as I have none) and I have a little bit of social anxie...

I hoped splitting up with my husband would result in Bf wanting to be closer. So why is he now hesitant about us getting closer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Hello People I am married unhappily, and have been seeing this younger guy for 3 years, i am 51, he is 45. We see each other once ot twice weekly, at the beginning he said it was like a FWB relationship, as time has passed, i have got a lot close...

Do I choose my boyfriend, or my home country?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4320 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - This is about the choices I have. My boyfriend has decided to live in another country, as he's found there some really good educational and professional opportunities. I am still a student myself, went to university overseas, but before we got to...

I'm realizing that I'm clingy, needy and selfish. What can I do about the state of my current relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - I'm 36 and didn't realize that I was clingy and needy and selfish to my own needs until January 3rd 2013. I've been like this for as long as I can remember (needy and clingy)and never realized it until my boyfriend and I started having some serious ...