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36-40,
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writes:HelloI saw a guy (we can call him P) on my facebook first site and this guy isnt my friend but is a friend of my "friends" on facebook. These our common friends added me years ago on facebook and I accepted their friend request. We dont know each other and we didnt talk to each other.I wrote to this guy P that "I saw him on my facebook" and also said "that because we two are singles I wonder if he is on badoo." ( I knew that he isnt a member on badoo and I am sure of that). Then on that message I also described me with a sentence then told him "I am not good at describing myself but if he want he can see me on badoo and I told him my name on badoo". He didnt reply but did read the message. Two or three days after my message he went on vacation. He visited two countries with his brother.Then after around two weeks on vacation he both was back from vacation and also I saw him and his brother on badoo for the first time. Which means he started a badoo account and became a member on badoo.I visited him on badoo which means that he could see my name, picture and my age among the visitors that visited him on badoo. I didnt write anything to him because I thought if he want he can contact me. But he didnt contact or even visit me on my badoo page.Now around 9 days went since I last visited him on his badoo page. He still didnt contact or visit me on badoo.He enter badoo once or sometimes twice a day and he stays on badoo maximum 1 hour but mainly only maybe 30 minutes.Why didnt he visit my badoo page or talk to me on badoo? Isnt he interested?What does it mean that he became a member only when I told him that he can find me on badoo? He wasnt a member before I told him. Please advice my what shall I do? shall I talk to him and what should I tell him? Isnt he interested or he didnt decide yet?Thanks for your advice!
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reader, mrswaldhauser +, writes (14 January 2013):
 To give you a slice of complete honesty it sounds like you've told this single guy about a site he maybe didn't know existed before and he's started his own searching for a partner on there. If he hasn't visited your page or gotten in contact with you at all despite having read your messages then he is either very nervous and shy (he should still have visited your page though however if he was interested) or he isn't interested unfortunately. The quickest way to find out for yourself is to be brave and send him a message on badoo. Leave him an open message. Something like "Hi there, I have noticed you started a badoo account since I sent you that message on facebook. I just wanted to let you know that I really like you and would like to get to know you better. If you would like to get to know me better too then send me a message." Something like that! If he replies with a good answer then yippee! If he replies with a no then you've not lost anything in trying! If he doesn't reply at all and you still see he's been on badoo regularly and is obviously avoiding you then I think you should move on and talk to someone else. There's no point sticking with one fish if he doesn't want to be caught! Try and catch another :).
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