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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me five years ago. It's ruined everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend had cheated on me when we first started seeing each other with some girls from his university and he chose to tell me at the start of last month. We thought I was pregnant so he said he needed to tell me before the result. I wasnt ...

My boyfriend is holidaying with a past FWB!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is going on a holiday in a mixed group, including the girl he cheated on his last girlfriend with. To be fair, he booked this holiday while we were on a short break (we've been together 15 months); though he paid for it a few weeks a...

Why, after 23 Years am I having trouble over this? My view of my wife is shattered

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

2 January 2013 (M) - so after 23 years of being married this question has come up. Why now I don’t know. Before I met my wife, she had a boyfriend in in high school. They waited until after graduation to have sex. While she was at collage he cheated on her. I me...

He's 30 and my parents hate him. How do I tell my parents I want to marry him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Please dont judge. all i want is advice and hear what you think. First of all I am 18 years old, and i am going out with a guy that is 12 years older than me. We have been dateing for about 9 months. you should know that My parents HATE this g...

I believe it's just lunch. But why not tell his partner that he goes to lunch with women sometimes? Is it cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Ok, this is my question. If a man that you are in a serious relationship with does not tell you that he is having lunch dates with different women (strickly as friends) is that cheating? He always mentions his lunch dates with men, but for some ...

Boyfriend is overly friendly with another girl, now he's travelling miles away to visit her and has booked a double room......is he cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I'm in a bit of a predicament with my partner right now and I have no idea what to do. We have been dating for five months, almost six, I really like this guy and we spend loads of time together but he met a girl at a festiv...

He lied about sleeping with someone while we were apart and it has broken the trust in our relationship, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, To begin with, I'm in a relationship for like 3 months now, and I've been with that same guy in a relationship 2 years until we broke up in 2011. So we got back together, obviously. Things went very good, we get along extremely ...

My BF has been messaging another girl for 2 months. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So I'm on here because I don't quite know what to do. I just found out yesterday on New Year's Day that my boyfriend has been messaging some girl, trying to get into her knickers for the past 2 months. The girl in question sent me the proof. I'm n...

Am I being used for sex? Is this love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I feel like I'm being used for sex, but the only time we ever spend time with each other is arguments of me not loving him, not being attracted to him that why I'm not always wanting sex. Today first time in like for never he says I'm not emotiona...

He watches porn, there's talk of threesomes and dominance. What's wrong with this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So my bf is always stating that I want threesome and I tell him I don't and I never wanted it when it was offered. But he refuses to believe me or pulls some other guy outta the air and says I want it with him. It's so hurtful n annoys annoying, I ...

Do I have any say since we've broken up emotionally? Does it seem very sly what he's doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - We have been together 6 years im 46 hes 44 we have not had sex in 2 yrs we decided to call it quits but we stay together only for financial reason, until we get our money in order for the next 6 months anyway. I have found him talking to som...

What alternative actions would help? Will my tough love response help my daughter recognise the problems she appears not to see?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

2 January 2013 (M) - I am a 62 year old semi retired man living in a Mediterranean island. My daughter of 35 lives in Ireland with her partner. They have a daughter of 2 years. Both are unemployed and living on the dole. I have so far supported my daughter to ...

My family disapprove. I broke up with him. He said he will wait for me. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I am a teacher by profession. I met a guy through facebook. he is 28 and a MBA. He has a good job. We started chatting and after 6 months we met each other and realised we love each other. We both live in India we belong to the same religion an...

The psychic has poisoned me against my lover, and I'm a believer in self-fulfilling prophecies!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I am perfectly, ecstatically happy with my boyfriend. We've been together for eight months, and have learned how to open up, how to love, how to communicate, so many "how"s, and we absolutely adore each other. We're compatible emotionally, ...

Where would I find more information on how to french kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - Okay , one day my boyfriend and i tried to make out for the first time and it was going well until he stuck his tongue in my mouth and I got so nervous and pushed him away . What do I do ? How do you French kiss ? I'm so nervous and when we see e...

Rebound. Do I find a way to stop loving him? Or do I hold on and suffer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - I was a friend to my ex for a year before he discovered that his wife had betrayed him and they proceeded very quickly to end the marriage. Of course, he ran to me as a shoulder to cry on and, slowly, things developed into more after the divorce....

He's been unreliable multiple times.I want to get him back. Do you think I can? and how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So here's the situation. I started at a new school this semester (in September). It's a professional school so all the students in it range from about 22 to 26. Halfway through the semester, I met a guy and we really hit it off. We decided to start...

We had a secret kind of relationship. Should I wait for him to come to his senses?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4345 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - So, I began hooking up with my guy friend not too long ago. It was a secret kind of relationship because it wouldn't have been accepted by one of our friends who is in love with the guy I was hooking up with. Our hooking up didn't just start up out ...