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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Are long distance relationships worth it? I'm finding it so painful to be apart from her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship, and it's just so painful. Nearly all of my girlfriends friends are guys, and she is very close with some of them. I know they just want to get in her pants, but she doesn't notice their intentions. ...

He's older, but his financial issues make it difficult. Is this a fair enough reason to finish this relationship with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - I dated a man much older for almost two years. I was a student going to school full-time. He paid for many things and I pitched in when I could. I gave him my education checks that came in monthly to buy food, rent, etc. During the last few mon...

Is her reluctance to explore much during love making due to fact she's done all that earlier? It's confusing me. Am I being too reactive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - I'm 24 and recently engaged to very wonderful woman. I am bothered by the fact that she has had a lot more sexual partners than I have, but she won't ever tell me how many. She is from a small town and when we go visit we often run into guys sh...

How I can get him to stop watching AS MUCH porn? It troubled me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I both turn 23 next month (interesting, I know) and we've been together for a notch over 2.5 years. We used to have discussions that turned into arguments about the fact that he is my third sexual partner (my second was a one nigh...

She forgot about a pre-arranged date, again. Should we talk? Is she being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4318 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - Stupid argument? My girlfriend and I arranged to have a date night last night. She forgot about it once already, as the week progressed and she forgot about it once again last night. It's been a rather stressful week for her at work and personal...

Saw my GF for the first time on Skype and she didn't look like her photo. Is she lying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - So I have met my girlfriend about a year ago over the internet, big mistake. She said she does not date over the internet first time I asked her, then I won her heart and we have been together for a month now. She sent me pics of her but this mor...

Can short guys have success with women? And if so how? I need advice on how to cope better with my height.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - I am a 5'4" male and i am very insecure about my height. I know that women love tall guys and that most of them turn their noses at the thought of dating a guy as short as me. However, I also know that some guys my height and shorter do have suc...

Is change possible? What can I do to persuade my abusive husband to change?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - My husband is very controlling and abusive. I don't deserve to be treated this way. I left, thinking he would miss me and stop the abuse but he is just as bad if not worse. He still calls me names and degrades me. He accuses me of cheating on hi...

Breaking Up... Should I do it? Am I being too pushy or too helpful? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - Well I need some help with my relationship. Here's the background: I am 17 and he is 16. One exact year apart in age. We have been dating for 2 years and 8 months. When met I thought it was love but found out it was infatuation. Long story sho...

He's 39. Is he likely to lose interest in me, now that he's found out that I'm a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - I'm 22. I've been seeing an older guy for some time now. He's 39. Despite the age difference, we connect on various levels. He's an amazing guy and I want to get to know him more and more. But here's the thing. I'm a virgin and I'm pretty sure ...

Is this a case of cultural differences? Is my wife blowing this out of proportion? Is there a right and a wrong in all this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - When my wife and I fight, nine times out of ten it has to do with my parents. I feel like it usually comes down to a cultural issue. Im from SC and my wife is from Oregon. We currently live in my hometown in SC. My entire family lives within an ...

I want to make it clear to her that I'm not just another guy. I really like her. What should I say and where should we go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4323 days ago

11 January 2013 (M) - Hi guys, thanks for taking the time to answer this question. I met this girl in university that I have feelings for, we met only a month ago and we text very mild. I know this is a "bad" indication but when we see each other, we have lots to t...

What I did destroyed my boyfriend. Now, how do I comfort my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - Hi! Well, this is going to be a long long story. I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years, we're both our firsts everything. We normally get along great, share the same hobbies, same college (but different careers), etc. Now I'm 19 and he's 21. ...

How can I retrain myself not to think of him so much? 2000 miles away and he broke up with me due to the distance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, Now this is a situation I'm completely new in. During the summer last year I started going on a website and I met this guy and we hit it off and became friends. As the months went by we learned more about each other we began talking...

He's in and out of my life. Do I forget him and start again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4322 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - theres this guy who has come in and out of my life for three yrs now. three years ago i met this guy we were talking and flirting but then he out of no where got in a relationship in the meantime i got to know one of his best friends and star...

Boyfriend versus my ex. Why should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4316 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - I have been dating my Boyfriend for 5 months and recently I was texting to my ex-boyfriend,who I had dated longer than anyone, and my boyfriend at the same time. In the middle of texting I started to feel like my boyfriend was just a friend and that...

I need to get over him. Why do we keep breaking up and reuniting. How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

11 January 2013 (F) - We've had an on and off relationship for over 3 years now. He loves me, i love him, but i always break up with him. Right now we are apart, but everytime i see him my eyes water , and i melt. all the memories come flooding back. My bestfrie...