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Archived questions from: April, 2021 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How should I tackle the issue of wanting to get back into the honeymoon period

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1290 days ago

30 April 2021 (F) - Hello there. I'm at the stage of our 4-year relationship where we now should be, theoretically, able to discuss more serious things, but my husband wants to recreate the honeymoon stage of our relationship (no, not THE honeymoon after we married...

What would you do if your partner called you an idiot and other names?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1291 days ago

29 April 2021 (F) - What would you do if your long time partner called you an idiot, stupid, or insane or told you to shut the fuck up or fuck off, or go fuck yourself during arguments? And continually hang up on you? Or hang up when you cry or want to speak? Or hit ...

I was his mistress. Now that he's left his wife for me, I live in fear. How can I stop the anxiety?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1290 days ago

28 April 2021 (F) - My boyfriend left his wife for me. He says he loves me. If so, why do I always feel so anxious, scared and insecure around him? Even though he's divorced and proclaiming his undying love and devotion to me? Do you think I could ever be happy with ...

Heartbroken and devastated, I fear my new relationship may end. How can I fix this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1291 days ago

28 April 2021 (F) - Hi all, I'm new here. Thank you do much for taking the time to look at my question. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months. That might sound like a small amount of time, but I've never felt so in love in all my life, even compared to prev...

Is my boyfriend cheating on me, or am I crazy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1277 days ago

27 April 2021 (F) - Is my boyfriend cheating on me, or am I crazy? F (32) I’ve been with my boyfriend about a month now, so it is early days. I do come from a broken home, so I will mention that I have a lot of trust and abandonment issues. I also seem to go for t...

Troubled relationship with ex. I want him to reach out but don't think he will

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1293 days ago

26 April 2021 (F) - Been on and off with an ex for a couple years. Broke up simply due to having different needs but still care for each other very much. Thursday night after a movie with his friends, he got angry at me over something I said regarding driving and ...

My partner lacks compassion and understanding about my medical condition

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1295 days ago

26 April 2021 (F) - I have a medical condition that causes me quite a lot of pain but my partner lacks understanding of this and compassion. This is definitely something that would cause me to willingly end the relationship. He says I am moaning about pain and is offe...

Would you get upset or angry with your boyfriend if he was long distance and he was talking to you and forgot you were online having a conversation with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1296 days ago

25 April 2021 (F) - Would you get upset or angry with your boyfriend if he was long distance and he was talking to you and forgot you were online having a conversation with him? He and I are in a long distance relationship for the time being. As you know, in long...

Does anybody experience lonliness from being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1295 days ago

24 April 2021 (M) - Does anybody experience lonliness from being used? My phone does not ring, but when it does I’m excited. Usually I find out the person is after something from me. This happens from distant friends to close friends. I feel so alone. To com...

I believe I've met the love of my life, but he recently told me that I give bad head and he doesn't enjoy our sex. Can this be saved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1296 days ago

24 April 2021 (F) - So I'm 28, and 4 months ago I met a man and felt a love that I've never felt for anyone before. I've had longterm relationships in the past and experienced 'love,' I even lived with a guy for several years, but nothing like this. I know its early ...

I don't think submissive means you tolerate abuse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1296 days ago

23 April 2021 (F) - Hello! My bf and I are from different cultures and English isn't his first language. He sometimes misunderstands me and then starts arguing. It's not normal arguments but very degrading ones. He calls me stupid, idiot, low mentality he wil...

My insecurities about a woman my boyfriend works with are causing big problems

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1297 days ago

23 April 2021 (F) - So I want to start by confessing I am an anxious person and unfortunately due to previous experiences struggle to trust. My boyfriend and I are having big problems in our relationship because of my insecurities but I don't know how to stop. The on...

My son's father has anger issues and its starting to show up in our son

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1296 days ago

22 April 2021 (F) - So my partner has a short temper and anger issues and I don’t know what I can do to help. He isn’t willing to help himself and try and change but whenever I offer help or advice it makes him worse and he snaps at me. We have a son and he is now 2...

My boyfriend got someone else pregnant but I still love him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1297 days ago

22 April 2021 (F) - Dear Cupid My boyfriend and I started dating from last year May I've really fallen for Him and he has too He spent so much on me and made sure I was happy Just last month, he cried confessing to me that he's impregnated someone mistakenly a...

I think my LDR girl may be lying but what if I'm wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1297 days ago

22 April 2021 (M) - So, I am in a long distance relationship with someone whom I have never meet in real life! We are supposed to meet each for the first time for christmas in december. We video chat and messages everyday, but she has this habit of randomly ...

Husband's promotion of his car company has caused problems and I'm worried about being harassed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1301 days ago

18 April 2021 (F) - My husband has been the victim of cancel culture over something he posted on his business's website. He runs his own car dealer, has done so for 15 years, but has 24 years experience in the motor trade in total. This current incarnation of t...

My husband admitted to seeking out male friends for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1303 days ago

18 April 2021 (F) - I've been married to my husband for 8 years; life's been good so far. We met when doing a Christmas promotional thing in the store I worked in at the time. Or so I thought. On Monday my husband admitted to me he'd been online posing a...

How do I set boundaries with my narcissist cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1299 days ago

17 April 2021 (F) - A cousin of mine asked me to be a godmother to her twins, when she was still pregnant. I would have politely refused, but she was in the hospital and under a lot of stress (and meds), because she almost lost her babies. I made a mistake, but I h...

Is my story a cautionary tale about waiting for a married man and being careful what you wish for

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1304 days ago

16 April 2021 (F) - You're probably going to think "you got what you wanted, now be satisifed with it" or "another typical case of woman takes married man and another woman's leftovers", but this is not quite that. I got with my current boyfriend in August 2019, a y...

I am having a relationship with a woman 1/2 my age. She has sex with other men. I don't mind but my family does

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1304 days ago

16 April 2021 (M) - Im a 75 year old man who would like some honest advice...my entire family is upset with me..for over a year now Ive been having a relationship with a 36 year old woman..we spend alot of time together, traveling the world, going to restaurants, ...

Girlfriend shares bed with single guy but swears nothing happened

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1288 days ago

14 April 2021 (M) - We were at a single friends home having drinks. I laid down about 2am as my girlfriend carried on a conversation with the single guy,that include admitting she was not that happy.. I was listening. they talked for quite some time. there was a ...

We had a falling out I extended an olive branch to my close friend but he didn't respond. Now what?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1305 days ago

13 April 2021 (F) - Ok, folks. I need your advice on this one. Here's the story. I had a friend and we were a part of a larger group of friends and we were all part of a local sports club. He and I were really good pals, in fact I would class him as one of my closes...

I am not sure if my partner and I are at the same place about having a family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1309 days ago

12 April 2021 (F) - ’m unsure whether I’m being naive here or over dramatic, hopefully you can help. I’ve been with my partner 3 years this year. I’m 25, 26 in January and he is 24, 25 in January. I’m at the point in my life where I feel like I’m ready for children, as ...

I'm still in love with him even though he is cruel

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1308 days ago

12 April 2021 (F) - Once upon a time I liked this boy from my primary school when I was 13. I told him how I felt about him on Facebook and his response was that I have problems. But it made me fall in love with him even more. Then one day, he called me an ugly bitch ...

My charming boyfriend met a girl he's gotten a little too close too and I'm worried

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1307 days ago

11 April 2021 (F) - About a year ago, my bf of 2 years met a girl at a car event he went to. She’s in a relationship and he was in a relationship with me. I would usually come to the same event with him because he usually likes me to experience it too, even though it’s ...

My dad lied and told my mother and I that he had coronavirus when he didn't. Now we don't trust him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1313 days ago

7 April 2021 (F) - I'm 26, and live at home with my parents; moved back in after my 2-year relationship failed to work out and I moved in with mum and dad in March 2021 (I'd moved out aged 20). I've lived away from home since 20, then aged 24, moved in with my ...

He left me once and asked for my forgiveness. Can I trust him not to leave me again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1310 days ago

7 April 2021 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for five years. We became engaged in September of 2020 and then moved in together in December 2020. I was over the moon and life couldn't be better UNTIL he decided, seemingly out of the blue, to move out after ...

how we can a couple work if neither likes the other's family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1315 days ago

5 April 2021 (F) - I have a few issues but they all sort of tie in together. First of all, how we can a couple work if neither likes the other's family? I don't really know exactly what he thinks of my family but I know he has problems with at least a few members. I ...

Is my relationship over or do I need to get help for depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1317 days ago

5 April 2021 (F) - Me and my fiancé have been together for about 22 months. The beginning was perfect, as it always is. However, since I moved in with him, the novelty of our relationship wore off and things haven’t been the same between us. He is totally in denia...

MY boyfriend's new job leaves no time for us. I'm worried our relationship won't last

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1317 days ago

5 April 2021 (F) - Recently my boyfriend got a new job driving lorries and it seems like hes constantly working and i never see him anymore. He works mon to fri has to be up at 4am then works til 5pm but often til 9pm. Weekends hes on call midnight saturda...

Is it asking too much for my girlfriend to notice when I make changes in myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1317 days ago

4 April 2021 (M) - Am I asking for too much for my gf to notice my hair. I have not been looking after myself, as depressed and lockdown. I went and got major makeover and she has not mentioned it even once. I am so tempted to take pics and send to others and I will ...

What to do in regards to an ex friend and her repeatedly calling my land line phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1316 days ago

3 April 2021 (F) - Hi and thank you to everyone who takes the time to respond to my question. A couple of months back I posted on here about a so called " friend' with whom I had a falling out. She sent me a text that she had contacted the school board that I am ...

Girlfriend hiding messages

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1317 days ago

1 April 2021 (M) - Hey! So my girlfriend have been hiding texts from me. She doesnt mind responding to peoples snaps when Im sitting next to her, but with this one guy, she is waiting until I stand to go do something. I confronted her and she said that she hadnt sp...