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Archived questions from: March, 2017 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I slept with my business partner. Have I lost him as a friend? now he does not even reply to texts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

31 March 2017 (F) - I made the stupidest mistake in getting reluctantly involved with a married man. We made love and after sex after that fatal night he stopped talking to me then he said he was just wanted to be friends. I was okay with that being business p...

How do I let go of my long lost love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

31 March 2017 (F) - I don't know where to start, but writing (even though I suck at it) is my only escape from reality. I was in love with someone back in 2008-2011. He really was amazing, he did everything I wanted to do and made me feel like I was something sp...

My partners family are ruining our relationship and I don't know what to do!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

31 March 2017 (F) - Hi, just looking for some advice please My partners family are ruining our relationship and I don't know what to do. Background info- we've been together 2 years, live together (against their wishes). I'm 25 and he's 26. I have never given ...

I'm very happy in my relationship but why do I suddenly want to contact my abusive ex to tell him how awful he was to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

31 March 2017 (F) - When I was 16-18 I dated an emotionally and physically abusive man who was a little older than me. My first time was with him and it wasn't something I wanted, but we were somehow together for a couple years. When it ended, it didn't properly end. . ...

An old Uncle muses

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30 March 2017 (M) - My style of posting has been going through some changes and I thought I should share what's going on and why these changes. I'm rapidly moving into empty nest. I have 2 Daughters still living at home and they are both looking for their on place. ...

Torn between two and don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

30 March 2017 (F) - I am 28 and my boyfriend Brad is 31. I work in healthcare and he is formwr military that has a good job. He and I have been dating for five years and it has been very, very rough kn those five years. We started as fwb and I saw other people. Right ...

My ex said he wanted us to be together. A week later he said he didn't mean it like that. I'm angry and confused.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

30 March 2017 (F) - He’s 28, I’m 27. We were together 4 years and he left me 6 months ago. He's now in a relationship an 18 year old. He’s kept in touch with me all the time since our break up (always him initiating). Last week he told me he misses me and that he k...

My mother has blocked contact can I get visitation rights to see my sisters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2777 days ago

30 March 2017 (F) - Well, idk how to start. Recently about a month ago my Mothers husband and I got into a disagreement because he yelled at my sister which is not his daughter and as always I defended . well my mom took his side and blocked me on Facebook and forced ...

My wife is still trying to contact the guy she had an affair with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

30 March 2017 (M) - What is going on with my wife? She had an affair with another guy that we both know, and I only found out about it after more than a year and a half..before the start of her affair we argued and fought alot ,but at one point for no apparent reason ...

He wants us to get married but to keep it secret!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

30 March 2017 (F) - Ok here is my story. My boyfriend of 7 months is asking me to marry him secretly in summer and not telling anyone because he wants to give his 14 years old child enough time to feel more comfortable. we want to buy a house as I don't want to move ...

We booked a weekend away to save our relationship and he wants to play soccer! Am I selfish? Am I not a priority to him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

29 March 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having fighting almost non-stop for the last 3 weeks with things being hard since the new year. Every time we make up and promise not to fight, we do it again. We have been together almost 2 years and been through ...

Should I tell her that on our break I paid for sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

28 March 2017 (M) - Hi, my and my gf of 5 years have sort of had a bit of distance come between us, on my end mainly. She was always so insecure and sort of clingy and although I loved her it chipped away at me and I felt I needed space. We took space and things were ...

My girlfriend's insecurity is chipping away at our relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

28 March 2017 (F) - So I am having some serious issues in my relationship and I don't know how to deal with them. I am coming here for some much needed perspective. To start, I'm a gay female. 33 years old. My girlfriend is 27. We have what I would normally conside...

I like him but he doesn't stimulate me. Should I try again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

28 March 2017 (F) - Hi, I am under a lot of pressure by parents to get married, culturally, I'm old, 30. And my parents really care about whay others think. Anyways, I met a guy online. Sweet, untrustworthy guy, which is hard to find in a world full of untrustw...

Should I ask him how he feels now? Or wait a while before I ask?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Hi, I have a relationship issue and would love some advice! For the past nine months I have been in an ambiguous relationship with my housemate. We started sleeping together last summer. I knew he had fancied me for a while and he even starte...

I feel trapped, I want him to move out but he has no money!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid My boyfriend is 45 and we have been together for a few years. I am aware that he likes to drink and we have had some arguments about this and I have told him I respect his right to make his own choices but a life which focuses on alcoh...

I stayed through fear, now worried my life is over and his is just beginning again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Ok I need some help to deal with something that I know is really silly so I need some support here please . I've been with my husband and father of my children for twenty years . Over the course of our marriage he has had a problem with pirn and ...

Was he lying about his reasons for blocking me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - I was dating a guy and he was leaving on duty for a couple weeks. He lied to me about deleting social media, he actually ended up blocking me. When I caught him in his lie, he said anxiety and paranoia made him delete me, he thought I would stalk ...

My boyfriend thinks I've gone off him but we don't have a bed of our own!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

27 March 2017 (F) - Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year now. We used to have sex and I used to make him excited but we recently moved in with my sister and her daughter so we share the living room. We have sex yeah but its not ideal considering its either on the ...

I want more sex but he would rather masturbate to porn with young girls with boobs!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - We have lived together 2.5 years. I'm 44 with 2 grown up kids living at home, he is 40. He works 10.5 hour days with an extra hour on top for travelling and claims to be too tired for sex. We will usually have sex once a week, sometimes twice a week ...

Am I just wasting my time with this older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - I've messed up. I was being flirted with in Oct 2015 - Dec 2015 by my then next door neighbours married son. I know things are rough at home. I wanted to help. Then he cut me off. I become an object for his brother to touch. It sent me round ...

I'm caught in the middle of my mom and my dad's girlfriend and really don't know how to handle things

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - Hi Dear cupid helpers. I am in need of some advice on a family situation... So my dad had an affair on my mum 4 - 5 years ago (the last one of a few in the past) I mum turned to drinking, and has been drinking for the last 4 - 5 years and has...

Are people becoming disrespectful to me because I'm now middle aged?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - Over the last few years I feel people around me have become increasingly disrespectful as I've come closer to fifty . My husband stares at younger women , my adult children are rude to me and in general I find shop assistants and people in general ...

I've lost all confidence in how to have a relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2787 days ago

26 March 2017 (M) - Hi guys, I'm beginning to think I may be doing something wrong on my part in relation to females. I'm currently 25 years old, ive never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and the only sexual relationships I've had with girls have either ...

I think I got played and feel like a fool

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - I talked about this guy before, he actually manipulated me and got me as far as fooling around and sending pics (naughty pics). As soon as I cut that off, he lied to me big time. I feel like a fool?...

Going silent on me after I asked him how he felt about me by telling me he would talk to me when he is ready.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2788 days ago

26 March 2017 (F) - Hi. I don't know what to make of my bf's behavior. I asked him a week and a half ago ago who he felt about me, because we are in a long distance relationship and do not get to see one another very often. I don't know how he feels about me, th...

I was treated unfairly and want to quit but want to write a note to the manager

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2778 days ago

25 March 2017 (F) - So I got this support work job and the staff there are so horrible to me. They are in the 50-60 and I'm 27. They are extremely rude and seem to pick or find fault in everything I do. Even the way I speak they have a problem with it. They are ...

Should I give romance a miss and focus on my mental health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2789 days ago

24 March 2017 (F) - I don't know why I keep blaming myself for this, but I do. I dated my on and off boyfriend ( he is now my ex) from October 2015 until January. During that time, I became friends with someone who worked in the pub that he went in. He was always there ...

I'm over his drama! How do I end this relationship for good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

24 March 2017 (F) - Sorry for this long post in advance. I just left my super obsessive and manipulative boyfriend of two years. Towards the end of our relationship, he started doubting me for talking to a particular old friend of mine. I had no feelings whatsoever for ...

Her past bothers me, though I do like our sex life!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

24 March 2017 (M) - Hey guys, I've been dating a girl for a few months and it's going really great, but her past has come up more than a few times (mainly by me) her lifestyle bothers me a bit she's 22 and loves to club. Has had 12 sexual partners her last dude wa...

Did he ever love me? Was there any other girl in the picture? Or was I right and he really is a narcissist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

23 March 2017 (F) - I was dating a guy for a year...he fell in love with me but i didn't feel the same. It's only now since our argument and split that i realise how much i care about him but now he wants nothing to do with me. We had one serious argument in the ...

Just had a baby, but now I am scared about returning home, due to his abusive actions while I was pregnant. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

23 March 2017 (F) - Dear aunties and uncles. I am a first time mom to a month old baby and my husband and I have had a fair share of ups and downs but we love each other a lot and wouldn't dream of spending my life with anyone else. Last year, while in my first trim...

I suspect my fiance is cheating but he thinks I am stupid!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

23 March 2017 (F) - My fiancé was out last weekend and I was informed from one of his friends he was walking a girl home. The weekend before he was out and lost his phone and I call it and a girl answers whom he had left the phone at her house. This was the only...

My addictions are affecting my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

23 March 2017 (M) - Hi, I'm a 22 year old gay male and I think I may have a problem. I've been dealing with feelings of depression and loneliness ever since the 7th grade. Although it is a lot better now because I am more independent, they always come back. I feel ...

I asked him to slow down ... did I screw up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2789 days ago

23 March 2017 (F) - I met a guy on an online app. We are both super interested in each other just that I needed him to slow down as he was coming on way too strong. He started talking relationship stuff even before we met, which would be fine, but I don't trust a guy ...

Married five months and husband wants me to have an abortion.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

23 March 2017 (F) - I've recently got married to my husband. We are very happy, and I have never felt more secure in all my life. We agreed to wait a few years before having children, and to focus on renovating our house which we brought before Christmas. We'll on ...

Is this man using my sister, and did she move him into her house too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2779 days ago

22 March 2017 (F) - This is really a question about my sister. She is the sweetest kindest girl, aged 45, divorced with two teenage sons. She tends to fall in love very easily, and rushes into relationships, and those relationships rarely last, so she ends up hear...

I just don't want sex. What can I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

21 March 2017 (F) - Hi Please help me. I have been with my partner for eight years. But over the last few years and particularly this year I have lost all interest in sex. I do have a hormone disorder and suffer frequent cystitis so I know that this probably contrib...

Should I report my friend's family situation to the police?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2780 days ago

21 March 2017 (F) - Hello, My best friend has some family problems. She is 16 and she has a 11 year old brother. She lives with her mum,dad,and brother in the same city as I do. Her father is not a nice person at all. He is not working, so her mum has to work all day ...

My husband is perfect in every way yet my imperfect ex haunts me and my heart belongs to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

21 March 2017 (F) - I'm 30 years old, I've spent more than half of my life crazy insanely in love with this person, we had a great love story but equally great drama, what broke us was a very strong storm, both of us are changed forever and deeply wounded that to end ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't care about things!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

21 March 2017 (F) - My boyfriend lives with me and I mean, we've had our arguments, but I find that he pays no attention to me. He goes to work, the gym, then he comes home and plays video games until we go to bed and pays more attention to the dog even. I've asked him ...

Do you think I have the right be upset since technically he is still married?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

20 March 2017 (F) - I moved to a new town and got a job as a server at a local restaurant. One of my co workers is very cute and a lot of the girls like him. They are always going out as groups and hanging out with each other outside of work. We became really ...

We broke up. I know I still care for him. should I talk to him about my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

20 March 2017 (F) - I was in a long term relationship with this guy for almost two years and we just kept bickering, small petty arguments and I'm not afraid to stand up for myself. It turned out he was messaging one of my friends and it turned out she wasn't very nic...

He says he cares for me deeply ....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2783 days ago

20 March 2017 (F) - DeAr CuPiD I met this guy in Belize in January and coincidentally he lived not to far from me back home. After vacation was over we started hanging out back home and we've been having the most incredible time together. We both just got out of ...

Am I being hidden from the ex and his kids?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

20 March 2017 (F) - Hello. I am hoping you are able to put my mind at rest really. I've been in a relationship with a guy for five months and it's all good. He lives about an hour away, and he has three kids who are another couple of hours away from him with his ex,...

Why is he so hard to talk to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2791 days ago

19 March 2017 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for the past month and It's so frustrating because he has no trouble talking about himself and other things in life, but he doesn't really enquire about me, other than if I asked him "Have you done ___?" he will say, yes/no ...

How can I deal with missing her in a LDR?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

19 March 2017 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 months and we're madly in love with each other, we plan on getting married next year actually.She's 17 and i'm 18. She lives in Stockton and I live in Sacramento. I haven't seen her for a month because ...

I am considering contacting my train wreck of a dad!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2784 days ago

19 March 2017 (M) - Hi everyone, thoughts, insights and advice please! I'm swiftly approaching a landmark birthday, the sort where you might stop and consider your life to that point. Well, I've been doing that and am considering making contact with my father. I'...

Is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

19 March 2017 (F) - Dear aunts and Uncles, is my hubby just starting his mid-life crisis? He was always athletic and eat well so I can't say that all of a sudden he changed his life style, but he seems more interested in these areas. He picked up a new hob...

Roomies are all going in different directions so how do we divide the stuff we bought together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

19 March 2017 (M) - It's coming to the end of our lease and I [26,M] just found out I need some major dental work that's going to cost me a TON of money. So to save up again I'm moving back in with my ex-girlfriend, Lana,[22,F] I won't have to pay anything so I should...